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Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by piagetskinner(m): 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2015
Thank u op....I hope they re reading this
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Dammyjohn(m): 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2015
deparagon:
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


cool RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/
Well done!
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kalufelix(m): 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2015
obiaguna:
This article or sermon or what ever it is the shittiest thing I have ever read in my life. Smells like poverty.
Another lazy brained Nigerian...
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:51pm On Jan 11, 2015
All this ish is becoming stale abeg....
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Tjayjosh(m): 2:51pm On Jan 11, 2015
Nice write up Op! For me you just made a single point.its strange if some ladies see this things as criteria for marriage.Alot of our ladies have been traped as a result cos some of this things are good reasons,but should not be main reason why a woman should fall for a man.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
I dont see anything wrong in place of work.
gul ur eyes re charming.oya come make i gave u a trial.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by xcesswag(m): 2:52pm On Jan 11, 2015
money is not everything but its still everything.....u are just a broke dude. get ur life in shape and marry ur dream babe
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kalufelix(m): 2:54pm On Jan 11, 2015
AirborneLacer:
I reiterate, girls by nature are fantasists, only few of them make pragmatic calls.

They live in dreamland. They want it all and would go ahead to whine if they're starved of those jejune wishes.

God must have encountered complex logistics problem prior to Eve's creation.
Classic!
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jan 11, 2015
dah number 12 is so hilarious






















dnt tell me u wasted ur time checking it...non existent
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Dammyjohn(m): 2:56pm On Jan 11, 2015
deparagon:
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


cool RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/
Well done!
I believe with all these wrong things in their minds they based the love for their men as conditinal love.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kalufelix(m): 3:12pm On Jan 11, 2015
xcesswag:
money is not everything but its still everything.....u are just a broke dude. get ur life in shape and marry ur dream babe
Another fella without a brain...
This is 2015
wake up!
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by pweetixandy: 3:15pm On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Who u fooling undecided
seriously,modified d post already. can't remember why I quoted u in the first place. Sorry
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by dechandel(f): 3:21pm On Jan 11, 2015
IVORY2009:
[color=#FF6600] Don't tell me you're a golddigger tooo...[/color]
Where in my posts is your question coming from?
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by kalufelix(m): 3:22pm On Jan 11, 2015
Jostico:
ops,i'm not here trying to prove superiority.
But be known to the world is right to a common woman they are wrong lipsrsealed
what do you expect from a fantasy being thats gonna expire after a while
women with all their complications and complexity spice up the world and make it go round...
They shouldn't be taken any more seriously than this
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by mrkings84(m): 3:23pm On Jan 11, 2015
Thoughtful opinions. But that doesn't mean that anyone with these qualities is not good for marriage. Any man who has any of these + Love for d wife is a perfect man. The Bible says" HUSBANDS LOVE UR WIVES" so love in d anchor of all successful marriages.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Larow(m): 3:24pm On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite undecided
abi o!
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by tunapius(m): 3:25pm On Jan 11, 2015
In Op's voice, Look for a man with character, manner § or discretion.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:28pm On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
I dont see anything wrong in place of work.
Tracey.... This your new profile picture ehn..


Chaiiiii.... The tin dey sweet my eye oooo grin grin
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by IVORY2009(m): 3:30pm On Jan 11, 2015
dechandel:
Where in my posts is your question coming from?
[color=#FF6600] Your utterances says it all...[/color]
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jan 11, 2015
pweetixandy:
silly dude @op
pweetixandy why dat? u ar matured enough .u dnt hav d right to call op silly dude.haabaa ..shiver me timber..he is right..can u say this to ur fiance? huh!
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by popcykaylah(m): 3:31pm On Jan 11, 2015
iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite undecided
I won't advice my sis to marry the opposite but marry a man with vision and not get greedy..
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by elantraceey(f): 3:32pm On Jan 11, 2015
InZA:
Tracey.... This your new profile picture ehn..


Chaiiiii.... The tin dey sweet my eye oooo grin grin
oya close your eye tongue

You too like to look grin grin
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by popcykaylah(m): 3:34pm On Jan 11, 2015
any girl who opens her dirty mouth to say she can't date me cos I don't have a car..I'd ask her a simple question?when her father was my age ,how many cars does he have ?and now that her father is old how many does he have in thier garage?funny girls that form and complain that they can't suffer are the lazy ones who's folks are wretched ..any girl who turn you down,forget am..believe me there are thousands out there looking for bobo ..
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by nkemdi89(f): 3:36pm On Jan 11, 2015
Its an individual thing some gals do am aim at these qualities and they achieve it while others won't. Destinies differs.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by popcykaylah(m): 3:37pm On Jan 11, 2015
eyitayojazz:
pweetixandy why dat? u ar matured enough .u dnt hav d right to call op silly dude.haabaa ..shiver me timber..he is right..can u say this to ur fiance? huh!
never underestimate the tongue of a woman bro..
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:38pm On Jan 11, 2015
The truth of the matter is... If you call yourself a man that is fit enough for marriage.... There are just some key things you need, and a shade of them are on that list.

A house.... (atleast 2 bedroom flat)
A Car...... (atleast Honda "Baby Boy")
A good job... (atleast 150k/month)

It is what it is.
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by Bonapart(m): 3:39pm On Jan 11, 2015
Am tired of this post that come with different list everyday. It sucks
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by InZA: 3:39pm On Jan 11, 2015
elantraceey:
oya close your eye tongue

You too like to look grin grin
My eyes only see fine things grin tongue tongue
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by popcykaylah(m): 3:39pm On Jan 11, 2015
xcesswag:
money is not everything but its still everything.....u are just a broke dude. get ur life in shape and marry ur dream babe
fact that he wrote such doesn't mean he is broke ...Bros choose your words carefully
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by popcykaylah(m): 3:40pm On Jan 11, 2015
Bonapart:
Am tired of this post that come with different list everyday. It sucks
then you dont have to read na
Re: 8 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy by iceberylin(m): 3:41pm On Jan 11, 2015
pweetixandy:
seriously,modified d post already. can't remember why I quoted u in the first place. Sorry
No problem.. really taught it was me sad
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