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jnrbayano:
How would you call someone's opinion "rubbish"?

You are free to disagree with his opinion and you may also make him see reasons for your disagreement.

Whatever happened to decorum.

yberlin i dnt knw y pweetixandy is calin him silly..she dnt need dat. afterall OP is talkin to ladies in general.

eyitayojazz:
yberlin i dnt knw y pweetixandy is calin him silly..she dnt need dat. afterall OP is talkin to ladies in general.

smh

InZA:
The truth of the matter is... If you call yourself a man that is fit enough for marriage.... There are just some key things you need, and a shade of them are on that list.

A house.... (atleast 2 bedroom flat)
A Car...... (atleast Honda "Baby Boy"
A good job... (atleast 150k/month)

It is what it is.

sorry bro you are wrong..all you need is God,a job that can sustain you both and then a house...lastly a woman who understands you..
see all those baby boy Honda and Toyota venza will come ..

Fraih:
So what are the right things to check?

hewlo fraih, i thnk u shld knw urself..

I'm sure dabota Lawson was very conscious of sunny akus height and muscles before she married him

eyitayojazz:
yberlin i dnt knw y pweetixandy is calin him silly..she dnt need dat. afterall OP is talkin to ladies in general.

na guilty conscience dey worry...the article actually hit her ...

InZA:
My eyes only see fine things

Taaarrr


Those black eyes

popcykaylah:
na guilty conscience dey worry...the article actually hit her ...

lol,say whatever man,u dnt know me and I dnt know u. Bye

sauceny:
The number 1(one) thing they(gurlz) look up to,is his financial ability & capability.

you ar right man, buh ladies should alwayz work on their own and not dependin on man..i hate such..i myself prefer gv poeple dat needs help dan ladies coz they wil nt appreciate it..hav been into dat b4..i help a lady then buh i just do it for sake of GOD culd u imagine dis lady told her friend dat is so closer to me that i am a maga..buh since then i stoped.

Revolva:
See dem in picture below gals like dis are fond of wat d op says

these kind chicks are always dreaming of marrying Mr perfect..but if you reach thier papa house ...you go see poverty at its peak,and the worst part is that they are lazy..

popcykaylah:
sorry bro you are wrong..all you need is God,a job that can sustain you both and then a house...lastly a woman who understands you..
see all those baby boy Honda and Toyota venza will come ..

I'm not wrong, because left to me, you're also wrong and since you think you're right, you wouldn't agree with me that you're wrong. The point is my own perception of what's right varies from yours. We all have our individual and distinct principles or tenets and these tenets form what we personally view as right or wrong.

I personally believe that it is right for any well meaning man to have the three things I've listed.. Anything short of that, is a man that is not "structurally" ready for marriage.

Marriage is not all about love and sexing all over the place like heated rabbits, marriage also has a very mechanical, objective side... School fees, house rent, power bill, etc.

popcykaylah:
never underestimate the tongue of a woman bro..

why? can u plz elucidate me on dat

iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

May God bless u! Please tell him!! If it was his sis that left a poor boy friend for a rich dude he will say God deliverd his sister from the spirit poverty

eyitayojazz:
why? can u plz elucidate me on dat

you really want me to do that here?

girls don suffer 4 ,nairaland. @ OP; what do you want them to check eh? that will not be wrong in your eyes?

pweetixandy:
lol,say whatever man,u dnt know me and I dnt know u. Bye

@pweetixandy what wrng nah..u dnt need dat..dat pride.u dnt hav to say he shld say whateva he like..it is for both of us all and our own good huh!

eyitayojazz:
@pweetixandy what wrng nah..u dnt need dat..dat pride.u dnt hav to say he shld say whateva he like..it is for both of us all and our own good huh!

ok..I take correction..I'm sorry to whom I may have been rude to

zbone:
girls don suffer 4 ,nairaland. @ OP; what do you want them to check eh? that will not be wrong in your eyes?

zbone oweeee! wetin nah.

priscaoge:
Hehehhe

This your Signature is Hilarious!
It should make the front page of the vanguard n guardian... rotflmao...

InZA:
I'm not wrong, because left to me, you're also wrong and since you think you're right, you wouldn't agree with me that you're wrong. The point is my own perception of what's right varies from yours. We all have our individual and distinct principles or tenets and these tenets form what we personally view as right or wrong.

I personally believe that it is right for any well meaning man to have the three things I've listed.. Anything short of that, is a man that is not "structurally" ready for marriage.

Marriage is not all about love and sexing all over the place like heated rabbits, marriage also has a very mechanical, objective side... School fees, house rent, power bill, etc.

I agree ...when I got married I had nothing..not even a pin.just had my apartment ready and furnished to my own taste and then I picked a woman amongst women who supported me ...lo and behold any where I get to those hungry greedy chicks keep telling me they wished they married me and in fact they dont mind dating now but I tell them they don't know half of what I have been through and they would have absconded if it were them ..

dechandel:
You just made a single point and numbered it differently

So wats d single point?

pweetixandy:
ok..I take correction..I'm sorry to whom I may have been rude to

@pweetixandy thanks me hearty..gud ..better we dnt hav to quarel with any1 afta al we ar learning..no1 is perfect ..ok let me see u smile .put dat smil on ya faze..

Dis is d one reason most guys r scared of rushing into marriage cos d way girls come like moni dis days is gettin scaring,some will even advice u 2 dupe,cheat or even do 419,jst 2 satisfy deir wants.especially niaja girls u mst spend moni 4 dem b4 dey will knw dat u r serious or love dem.hw many girls nw cares abt heartbreak,as far as u can take care of deir needs dey r ready 2 sleep with u 4 as long as u want.wen u r broke dey give u stories dat u don't love dem anymore and dey find anoda mugu catch.seriously love no longer exist in dis our generation,make God jst bless person mke person marry woman of his choice den she born pikin for u.dats y u find out dat majority of d fine girls r still single cos dey r lookin 4 a real man dat can settle all deir needs and dats y dey end up dating a married man or be a second wife 2 a rich man.its so obvious dat if u hve nt made moni u can't marry a woman of ur choice.so bad,may God help dis our generation.

popcykaylah:
you really want me to do that here?

yez sir.

popcykaylah:
I agree ...when I got married I had nothing..not even a pin.just had my apartment ready and furnished to my own taste and then I picked a woman amongst women who supported me ...lo and behold any where I get to those hungry greedy chicks keep telling me they wished they married me and in fact they dont mind dating now but I tell them they don't know half of what I have been through and they would have absconded if it were them ..

Well good for you sha.

I just feel it's better to be reasonably comfortable before a man gets married, truth is, this reasonably omfortable status I'm referring to, I don't mean you should be reasonably comfortable because you want to get married, but as a man you would agree with me that being financially settled to an extent gives wind to your feathers, it makes you exude that aura that a man is known for... I hope you get what I mean.

Moreso, I believe that as much as the world is filled with gold digging, two-timing, air headed, whoring, good for less than nothing girls, there are still the select few that would look beyond your financial stability and choose to stick with you based majorly on your personality and nature or strength of your character.

mimicious:
May God bless u! Please tell him!! If it was his sis that left a poor boy friend for a rich dude he will say God deliverd his sister from the spirit poverty

Amen

Op you must be joking for you to tell me not to consider point no 3 - 7.....

mimicious:
May God bless u! Please tell him!! If it was his sis that left a poor boy friend for a rich dude he will say God deliverd his sister from the spirit poverty

@mimicious hmm.. buh we dnt hav to undarate any1 ehh! what of if the poor boyfriend becomz rich 2mrw? al dat glitterz ar nt gold..d rich dude may end up replacing her with anoda girl and he wil say afta al .am d owner of my money..plz reason nah.

jnrbayano:
These are endowments God bestowed on us to attract our opposite sex.

Make no mistakes about this, the ladies are not guilty when they obey the law of attraction, same with guys.

The preaching here should be, let the ladies not be turned into slaves of these attractive features.

You have made sense...the same is applicable to guys, let not her pretty face, big bombom or bobby decieve you.

eyitayojazz:
yez sir.

bro are you married?when you are you'd get the experience of that tongue..no matter how responsible or respectful your might be..she will give you a piece of that tongue once a while ..only God's fear ,his grace and love will make you not go mad at her..

The guy has a point.... He did not say u should not marry rich people, but be mindful of d negative part of d individual...... Nice rhyme though.

deparagon:
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/

Abeg una conditions too many. If I see any lady weh fit help me secure work I go marry am o.