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eyitayojazz:
@mimicious hmm.. buh we dnt hav to undarate any1 ehh! what of if the poor boyfriend becomz rich 2mrw? al dat glitterz ar nt gold..d rich dude may end up replacing her with anoda girl and he wil say afta al .am d owner of my money..plz reason nah.

pweetixandy:
silly dude @op

iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

pweetixandy:
silly dude @op

Dammyllionaire:
I must say i'm highly disappointed with most of the comments here, the op never say this attributes are not good for a successful marriage but there are several things Ladies need to consider before stepping into the relationship such as
1. Responsibility,
2. Care
3. God fearing.
4. Rest of mind. Etc.

A man that have all this above listed attribute may not have this necessary xteristics and what's the essence of Money or Big car or Big place of work when your husband is not responsible, he is not caring, he is not God fearing and you dont have a complete day rest of mind.

That's the point he is coming from and some useless entity on this forum decided to rain insult on him for this wonderful piece of advice.

8 Wrong Things Guys Check For Before Marrying a Girl

eyitayojazz:
you ar right man, buh ladies should alwayz work on their own and not dependin on man..i hate such..i myself prefer gv poeple dat needs help dan ladies coz they wil nt appreciate it..hav been into dat b4..i help a lady then buh i just do it for sake of GOD culd u imagine dis lady told her friend dat is so closer to me that i am a maga..buh since then i stoped.

Fraih:
So what are the right things to check?

iceberylin:
Will you advice ya sis to marry an opposite

InZA:
Well good for you sha.

I just feel it's better to be reasonably comfortable before a man gets married, truth is, this reasonably omfortable status I'm referring to, I don't mean you should be reasonably comfortable because you want to get married, but as a man you would agree with me that being financially settled to an extent gives wind to your feathers, it makes you exude that aura that a man is known for... I hope you get what I mean.

Moreso, I believe that as much as the world is filled with gold digging, two-timing, air headed, whoring, good for less than nothing girls, there are still the select few that would look beyond your financial stability and choose to stick with you based majorly on your personality and nature or strength of your character.

AdeniyiA:
Ever wondered why there are many spinsters nowadays?
Reasons not far fetched.
shortsightedness, olorunsogo mantra, materialism, laziness...etc

deparagon:
Many Ladies are known to base their marital decisions on things
that will not
endure a life-time. These have led many of them into wrong
marriages and life time bondage. We need to
identify and deal with them:


1) HEIGHT: Every girl’s dream is to marry a tall, dark guy with a
baritone
voice, I wonder where they got the idea that tall guys are better
in marriage. Hey Girls, tall guys can give
you tall problems; it is not the height that matters but the depth
of the guy
in God and in character.


2) MUSCLE: Muscular and heavy looking guys are also
fortunate, they are
seen to be good suitors, and girls do say “they look manly” “they
look like
real men”. Sorry Girls, muscles do not make a real man,
character and ability
to shoulder responsibility do. A guy with muscle without
character will use
his muscles to deal with you and batter your beautiful face.


3) A WELL SET HOUSE:
A guy with a well set house is the dream of any girl any day.
Many girls will throw caution into the wind to grab a man who
have
a house with King size; beautiful Italian
Setter, micro wave oven, home theater, refrigerator, gas cooker,
Plasma TV,6 by 6 bed, well stuff Kitchen, Dining table, washing
machine, dish washers, split unit air conditioner etc is a dream
catch for
girls any day. Sorry girl, a well set house is good but it may be a
well set
trouble if the guy is not a man of character, manners or
discretion, he will make the house look like a prison yard for you.


4) FAT BANK ACCOUNT: Girls are fond
of trying to know how rich a guy is by checking the guy’s phones
for bank
alerts. They joyfully decide to marry a guy when they discover
the guy is
very rich with fat Bank balance. What a
mistake? They don’t want to know where the money is coming
from; they
don’t even want to know what the guy does for a living. What
concerns them
is the money that is available to be spent. Many girls ended up
finding
themselves entangled for life in this kind of situation, don’t base
your marriage on GREED, it won’t turn to
GREEN.


5) PLACE OF WORK:
Some of our girls are in the habit of making marital decision
base on the place a guy
works. You dare not talk of marriage to them if you are a
Teacher or civil
servant. You dare not propose them if you are working with a
small firm, or one man business. What an error?
Girls note that, that a guy works in ACCESS BANK does not
mean he will
give you ACCESS to his heart or peace
of mind. A guy that works in SHELL may put your life in a SHELL
forever,
you may not be the FIRST in the life of a guy that works in FIRST
BANK, a guy
that work in GUARANTEE TRUST BANK may not GUARANTEE
your future. He
may be working in NESTLE but not SETTLE you at home, So it is
not about
where he is working but about who is
working in Him, God or devil.


6) ROMANCE: A young lady said, “The guy is romantic, hot and
sexy, i will
marry him” Stop girl!!!!, Romance is not enough for marriage.
The truth is,
most so called romantic guys don’t remain like that after
wedding. Marry a
guy base on qualities that will endure, romance don’t last
forever, go and ask
married women.


7) TYPE OF CAR:
A whole lots of girls will be enticed by a guy driving a big
and expensive car. Some will not even go out with a guy that
does not have a
car. If you want to mess yourself as a guy, ride on a bike to go
and propose
to a lady, you will hear the story of your life. Ladies, a guy that
has a CAR
may not CARE for you, life is not about CAR, it is about marrying
somebody
that will CARE for your future.
AND: Most girls will readily marry anybody with US or UK
passports, Lots
of girls have destroyed their lives in the process of looking for
somebody
with a foreign passport to marry.


RICH PARENT: Children of Rich parents are easy target for
many young girls not because they are in
love with them, but they know they will have access to money
and connection. Many of these guys come
from rich are pompous, cocky, proud and will be terrible and
irresponsible
husbands and fathers tomorrow but girls will not care about
that, Most of
these girls do live to regret their wrong decision.
Don’t marry anybody just because the parents are rich, marry
the person for
who he is and the love you share together.

http://totalfamilylife.com/2014/10/12-wrong-things-girls-check-before-marrying-a-guy/

mimicious:
Sweet heart I understand but y do u guys make it look as if we can't stay with a poor guy or we don't deserve d best?

AirborneLacer:
I reiterate, girls by nature are fantasists, only few of them make pragmatic calls.

They live in dreamland. They want it all and would go ahead to whine if they're starved of those jejune wishes.

God must have encountered complex logistics problem prior to Eve's creation.

eyitayojazz:
babie you see,you ladies deserve d best buh some ladies dnt want to endure and is nt as if we guyz can make it..it gradual step to the top..i thnk a lady dat strugle with a man and later make it in life wil nt regret bcoz the man wil so much respect her ..they said behind a sucesful man,there is a woman..do u thnk the man wil go out lukin 4 anoda lady..buh in d case of a lady marryin a rich dude..what if d man see anoda beautiful lady,wont he follow her coz 2much even if his fiancee culd talk,he wil say..his he nt d one dat use hs money to care 4 u..and he cn do anyhow he likes.look at dat..a lady need to be contented with their fiance no mater how may be..when then money cumz ,is it nt both parties wil enjoy it..

sunnedee:
Your signature: mafia manager. Good one

mimicious:
Sweet heart please tell me! What of the case where d girl stays with d guy when he has nothing, alomg d line things takes a new shape in his live. He lives d girl for a more Behind babe. What will u say about this

keppyy:
I don't care about all others but I must marry a guy that is romantic, I can't stand a guy that is not romantic....

I once dated a guy that was working and he did not have access to a telephone and I knew that but on the eve of my birthday he told a lie to his boss and used their official line to call me, that was extra romanticccc to me...Till date I always tell him of that moment....


Note: Romance is not about giving money..