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My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by ogahlouiskid18(m): 12:40pm On Jan 13, 2015
Dear Nairalanders,

...............
..... .................
........ ... What do you do to a girl, that you've loved and
given the best of you for two good years. But has decided
to repay me in the most wicked manner possible.
For the two years that we were together, i can stand before
any deity and swear that i didn't cheat on her. not even
once.
It took me a year to find out that this girl was seeing
another guy. And worst still, she gave me the most
unreasonable and painful reason for cheating. She told me
that her reason for doing what she did was because her
mother has always told her (even before she knew me) not
to put all her eggs in one basket.
I mean, isn't that the stupidest thing ever?! She actually
confessed her cheating ways to me and claimed to have
ended things with the other guy, and is now asking for a
fresh start.
But, how can i ever trust this girl again? I am seriously
hurting from this betrayal of trust and i am so mad at
myself for not seeing it. I love her so much, and that's why
i need an advice on what to do..
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by ogahlouiskid18(m): 12:46pm On Jan 13, 2015
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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by iceberylin(m): 12:50pm On Jan 13, 2015
Maybe you should consider her moms advice also wink

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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by SeverusSnape(m): 12:52pm On Jan 13, 2015
It's over between the two of you. Simple!
Even though you accept her, she'll still cheat on you as long she have that mentality of "not putting all my eggs in one basket".

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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Tallesty1(m): 1:00pm On Jan 13, 2015
Once a cheat, always a cheat
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Abee79(m): 1:05pm On Jan 13, 2015
shocked

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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jan 13, 2015
OP please just becareful..dnt fall inlove too much,be neutral..there is no true love..hold on to GOD..d only true luv is from GOD..dnt be carried away ..if you see wetin dat falling inlove for a lady caused hmmm! wetin ladies no go talk and dey can swear reach heaven..even you care for them ..d same thnz..
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Nobody: 1:22pm On Jan 13, 2015
Abee79:
shocked
d thng pain u
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by dechandel(f): 1:23pm On Jan 13, 2015
Did the egg sauce also cheat on you? undecided

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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by lanicky(f): 1:36pm On Jan 13, 2015
Go on with ur life guy......don't turn urself into a crying baby.
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by apparentlylaw(m): 1:40pm On Jan 13, 2015
U too don't Put all your eggs in 1 basket ..gve her a pwesh start ...do ur own openly ...even introduce others to her nd Let her knw wat Law of Karma really meanz
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Melahou(m): 1:55pm On Jan 13, 2015
"one good turn deserves another"
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by KMTee(f): 2:02pm On Jan 13, 2015
ROTFLMAO @ basket stuff...

probably the innocent old woman was just advising on another/general issue
and ur GF just related it with ur case.

sorry bro..
u can also tell her u want to try the eggs in one basket scenario
tihihihi
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jan 13, 2015
Don't ever take back a girl, that cheated on you.

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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by ogahlouiskid18(m): 2:56pm On Jan 13, 2015
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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by ogahlouiskid18(m): 2:57pm On Jan 13, 2015
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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by dayosaurus(m): 3:39pm On Jan 13, 2015
had this same issue in 2013. same excuse

I simply told her I've moved on and given her a fresh start, but I started dating another girl. till date, she doesn't know about my girlfriend and the day she find out, I'll tell her off.

I'm still enjoying the benefits wink
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Equado(m): 3:44pm On Jan 13, 2015
Accpt her bck,solely 4 d purpose of b00ty call....get yaslf anoda gf smplace else#chikena#
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Davidson267(m): 4:09pm On Jan 13, 2015
Girls and their clueless excuses...so she will put her hand on fire if her mother tell her to do so?
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by achinaboy(m): 5:30pm On Jan 13, 2015
ogahlouiskid18:
Dear Nairalanders,

...............
..... .................
........ ... What do you do to a girl, that you've loved and
given the best of you for two good years. But has decided
to repay me in the most wicked manner possible.
For the two years that we were together, i can stand before
any deity and swear that i didn't cheat on her. not even
once.
It took me a year to find out that this girl was seeing
another guy. And worst still, she gave me the most
unreasonable and painful reason for cheating. She told me
that her reason for doing what she did was because her
mother has always told her (even before she knew me) not
to put all her eggs in one basket.
I mean, isn't that the stupidest thing ever?! She actually
confessed her cheating ways to me and claimed to have
ended things with the other guy, and is now asking for a
fresh start.
But, how can i ever trust this girl again? I am seriously
hurting from this betrayal of trust and i am so mad at
myself for not seeing it. I love her so much, and that's why
i need an advice on what to do..
the mums advice,i dont know about that,but you sounds young,i know that because i sounded like this when i was 21,,so what you have to do now is,spread your wings forget about falling inlove because u still have many years ahead to be in love,,so try and date as many girls as possible,because that may or may not help your future experiences with women,dont try to be a chewing gum boy or lovi lovi boy because if women sees u as such,u are finished 4 life,they will continue to treat u the way this one treated u until u take ur six feet,,,,i hope u understand
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by dnacrystal: 6:26pm On Jan 13, 2015
dayosaurus:
had this same issue in 2013. same excuse

I simply told her I've moved on and given her a fresh start, but I started dating another girl. till date, she doesn't know about my girlfriend and the day she find out, I'll tell her off.

I'm still enjoying the benefits wink
So you are cheating on me with your supposed ex!! Using me to get back at her!! Consider it over between us angry
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by nefertiitii: 7:10pm On Jan 13, 2015
Shioooor angry angry wtz wit d ugly looking yam and egg sauce *pukes*
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Ucheosefoh(m): 7:48pm On Jan 13, 2015
Kid learn from her mother's advice too never put all your eggs in one basket and save yourself from heartbreaks
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by slaxzy(m): 8:26pm On Jan 13, 2015
Its wrong . Tell her you now have another girl and let her go. Its not an honourable thing to do. Remember she lied to you and that was what led to what happened. Don't play her same dirty game; please allow her go.
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by xtervaganza(m): 9:15pm On Jan 13, 2015
Dump her like a bad habit
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Nobody: 9:30pm On Jan 13, 2015
dnacrystal:

So you are cheating on me with your supposed ex!! Using me to get back at her!! Consider it over between us angry

Hahahahaha... grin See heartbreak.
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 13, 2015
iceberylin:
Maybe you should consider her moms advice also wink
once again ice ur head is there!!!
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by iceberylin(m): 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2015
Prixus:

once again ice ur head is there!!!

grin.
THanks bro
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by ogahlouiskid18(m): 9:56pm On Jan 13, 2015
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Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by ifoundmyperfect: 10:48pm On Jan 13, 2015
Welcome to manhood
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by publicenemy(m): 10:54pm On Jan 13, 2015
Dump it !!!
Re: My Girl-freind Has Been Lying To Me For A Year Now by publicenemy(m): 10:56pm On Jan 13, 2015
iceberylin:
Maybe you should consider her moms advice also wink

@op you better listen to this guy.

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