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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by BokoHaramm: 11:17pm On Jan 17, 2015

Dainy1:
personally, am not comfortable with that. especially that their night shift.what is your view on that? am i just being local or over protective? matured reply pls

my ex gf works with Eko hotel and suites. I never gave a thought to her messing around in her work place. Its called being professional in anything you are doing.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by ogaofficer(m): 11:17pm On Jan 17, 2015

SAMBARRY:
my darling prostitution in any form and degree is still an individual choice regardless of whether they are living in a sharia society liberal society first world or dark continent. Issues Like that have to do with personal choice. After all every body has the power to commercialize his or her private part depending on what her definition of right is

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by donephi(m): 11:21pm On Jan 17, 2015

Hotel not too good a place for a lady that really wants to live a decent life to be an employee

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by CCsurplus007(m): 11:23pm On Jan 17, 2015

Motolank:

No need for uprightness, I ll date dangote if he dea ask me out...

lol dont go too far, my hausa name is Dangote

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by dammytosh: 11:26pm On Jan 17, 2015

Dainy1:
personally, am not comfortable with that. especially that their night shift.what is your view on that? am i just being local or over protective? matured reply pls

Don't allow your wife or girlfriend at alll at alllll.

Talk to your sister about it and your reservation, she has her life to live.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by 100Cents: 11:26pm On Jan 17, 2015

UniqueGem:
Nairaland ladies are the worst set of "liars" and "hypocrites" I have ever come across. All of em be forming decent woman but will melt when a drug baron says 'hi'.

No mind girls..

Pretence is their second name..

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by boma95(f): 11:28pm On Jan 17, 2015

Dainy1:
personally, am not comfortable with that. especially that their night shift.what is your view on that? am i just being local or over protective? matured reply pls

all work is work
except its prostitution
i see nothing wrong
i wont say u're local,i dunno u
u seem a bit insecure undecided

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by andyanders: 11:29pm On Jan 17, 2015

ckmayoca:

I met wit a man that took the job of emptying the FirstBank VI soakaway.. He said when the thing was opened, the amount of condom floating on that shit is more than 300. Now who dey Bleep inside the bank ?

My brother, women bleep anywhere in most of the offices. Most office staff, bleep their cleaners even in the office premises.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by BokoHaramm: 11:31pm On Jan 17, 2015

KanwuliaJara:

Nne?
You misunderstood my post.
WORKING IN A HOTEL ANYWHERE IN NIGERIA IS PART TIME PROSTITUTION!!!!
The girls have a HIGHER CHANCE OF BEING SEXUALLY EXPLOITED!!!

They would NOT have much of a choice if they want to keep their jobs.
The managers of hotels often encourage this and their predatory 'customers' always look for a quick phock!

Instead of working in a hotel. . . let her go to a BEAUTY PALOR!!!! I will never encourage any female to work in a hotel ANYWHERE in NIGERIA!!!
Is she wants to PROSTITUUUTE WELL. . . let her go and get her nyansh's worth in ITALY!

how daft can you get? The level of professionalism exhibited bytrained hotel workers is second to none. I've tried hitting on them when I go on biz trips and I lodge there and I can tell you that the trained ones will turn you down politely. So don't generalise because even girls that work with Julius Berger are promiscuious. Its just what rocks your boat.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by andyanders: 11:36pm On Jan 17, 2015

It takes the grace of God for any woman to resist money when been offered and are ready to give their body for an exchange of cash.

When most of these ladies that work in hotel or even most offices and banks notice a client with money, they are ready to die to have him.

I have once gone to the bank here and was surprised when a married woman who is a teller was asking me out for a date because she knows what I have in my account. I told her madam, I do not go out on a date with any married woman.Do you know what the woman replied me; does it matter?

I left the bank and started going to another branch and still experience same attitude from some of them.

With money, you can get anything you want from some women,if not 85%

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by BokoHaramm: 11:38pm On Jan 17, 2015

donephi:
Hotel not too good a place for a lady that really wants to live a decent life to be an employee

go and sleep, when you graduate you can comment on thread like this.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Penboy: 11:45pm On Jan 17, 2015

majekdom2:
Moralty is not a function of one's occupation.

Really??

Last i checked, prostitution is an occupation in Brazil.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Penboy: 11:46pm On Jan 17, 2015

Nikapetrelli:
No i will nt stop her

hmm.

Can we get to know her please??

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by CareerPingger: 11:55pm On Jan 17, 2015

hmm..it seems personal here..with comments from others.

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by SAMBARRY: 12:01am On Jan 18, 2015

Gynacologist:
fly ke hw u min? d tin don rotten b tat nah...

of course

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Truckpusher(m): 12:10am On Jan 18, 2015

Dainy1:
personally, am not comfortable with that. especially that their night shift.what is your view on that? am i just being local or over protective? matured reply pls

You're not being over protective ,you're just reacting normal but the truth is that if you want to cage your wife/girlfriend because you don't like the job she's doing you should be also ready to cater for her without complaining.

My one cent.

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by 2tek: 12:19am On Jan 18, 2015

Allowing ur woman work in a hotel is equivalent to allowing her work as a bank marketer or allowing ur brother join d nigerian police and expect him not to take roger (bribe). While d woman in d hotel sees all forms of se.x escapades nd is always faced with overwhelming temptations, d bank marketer lady is expected to achieve d impossible - d bank mandates her to ensure dat millions of naira are deposited in customers' account without arming her wt AK 47.
I doff my hat for the very few who act professionally nd don't mess around.

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by AreaFada2: 12:21am On Jan 18, 2015

esmeralda1:
Pls help me to understand, what is special in a person working in ano hotel is it that smone that came with a woman will call me that is at the desk to come join them on bed or a single man will want me to leave my work n warm his bed.

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Having stayed in some hotels in 9ja, and from my experience, it's a bad idea.

Most hotels don't pay their staff well. I was shocked to find out from some staff (females of course) that they were on 8k salary a month!
Girls with OND, NCE. etc. And these hotels charged like 6k to 10k per night for a double bed room!
You see, some of the girls came asking for transport money home, asking for a drink when they did room service.

Asking for all that favour, from hot-blooded young men? Chai na trouble dem dey find. That was years back sha.

Well, hmmmmm, I better shhhhhhshhh at this point. Not everything that happens one should say, lol lipsrsealed

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Nobody: 12:22am On Jan 18, 2015

5minsmadness:
Benson's sweet time hotel?

What the...That's the name of a hotel?!

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by pastorkingsleye(m): 12:26am On Jan 18, 2015

hotel is different from a brothel. when u hear about hotels like protea, hilton, sheraton etc. u will understand that hotel is a standard place to work. corporate clients uses hotels for various functions. read and know the products and services offered in hotels. is a descent place to work, i recommend for anybody.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Nobody: 12:31am On Jan 18, 2015

Wat abt pipl dat av degree in hospitality management and hotel management, where shud dey work since pipl see it as a wrong place to work for women. It all abt ur level of understandin abt wat an hotel is to u, so it isn't as bad as pipl presume it especially if it is ur area of profession.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by AreaFada2: 12:35am On Jan 18, 2015

pastorkingsleye:
hotel is different from a brothel. when u hear about hotels like protea, hilton, sheraton etc. u will understand that hotel is a standard place to work. corporate clients uses hotels for various functions. read and know the products and services offered in hotels. is a descent place to work, i recommend for anybody.

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Fact is majority of hotels are not in the league of Protea or Sheraton. Most rely on poorly paid staff. The temptation is there. Some girls use or attempt to use that chance of meeting men alone in their rooms (part of the job) to top up their income. That's my experience.
It takes a disciplined man not to take advantage.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by LAX89(m): 1:26am On Jan 18, 2015

Dainy1:
personally, am not comfortable with that. especially that their night shift.what is your view on that? am i just being local or over protective? matured reply pls

Who gives you the right and audacity to decide to "ALLOW YOUR WIFE, SISTER OR GIRLFRIEND WORK IN A HOTEL"! Who bestowed that right and power on you to decide where they should work?

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Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by cococandy(f): 1:33am On Jan 18, 2015

esmeralda1:
Pls help me to understand, what is special in a person working in ano hotel is it that smone that came with a woman will call me that is at the desk to come join them on bed or a single man will want me to leave my work n warm his bed.

help me ask

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by manck2: 1:37am On Jan 18, 2015

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by hensben(m): 1:49am On Jan 18, 2015

ifeomaekol:
There's nothing wrong in working in a hotel, the kind of life one lives depends all on his or her choice. If you know ur worth and what you want out of life you wouldn't dare jeopadize it just to get change all in the name of money.

story 4 the gods

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by hensben(m): 1:58am On Jan 18, 2015

J3nnyluv:
Wat abt pipl dat av degree in hospitality management and hotel management, where shud dey work since pipl see it as a wrong place to work for women. It all abt ur level of understandin abt wat an hotel is to u, so it isn't as bad as pipl presume it especially if it is ur area of profession.

story for goddess

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by adereher: 3:43am On Jan 18, 2015

[/color]Working in an hotel is not bad atall I am a train caterer and housekeeper fr[color=#006600]om the best catering and hotel mangement institute Dof so we are well trained.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Nobody: 3:59am On Jan 18, 2015

Depends on the type of hotel and her role. Can I allow my wife work in a big hotel yes, can I allow her work as a receptionist, a bar girl, or a cleaner..NO
I worked as a back room staff in hotels and know some things. The temptation to be promiscuous is high among receptions cos the have direct contact with guest, same with bar girls but then there are other roles like accountant, auditor, cook, personnel
the only problem is that the hotel job is demanding and may affect a new couple.
do most of you even know that many big hotels shy away from hiring young married women cos they don't want family matters affecting their businesses

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Motolank: 4:16am On Jan 18, 2015

CCsurplus007:

lol dont go too far, my hausa name is Dangote

Hell yeeeeaaa... If you are his age, I might mis you up for him...
As long as I hear dangooo!...am ready

Nb
But if you are a young guy? ? ? cool

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by daryoor(m): 5:03am On Jan 18, 2015

depends on the hotel sha. it's the bigger the worse. bigger hotels have bigger customers, its easy to have pride and self respect when offered 10k to 200k anything above dat could make you a bitch.

house rent, accumulated nepa bills, numerous dept. all solved in one single night.

Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Mega72(m): 5:10am On Jan 18, 2015

It's ok,notting wrong with it,if ur wife,sister or girl friend is a cheat!guy!make e wrk for church office they ill still cheat..I have met somany decent and responsible hotel staffs..

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