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LOSTS feelings for my girlfriend, pls I need help.

more explanation is needed if we must help u. what type of feeling are u talking abt? love? respect?

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Elaborate the more, need a story to understand what you really lost for her.

smh after u don over fvck her;

gede7744:
more explanation is needed if we must help u. what type of feeling are u talking abt? love? respect?

love

Queennelly:
Elaborate the more, need a story to understand what you really lost for her.

was so passionate abt her wen we started @first, I can't stay a day witout hearing frm here cus of dis passion. She is a gud gal to b sincere. But now I can stay witout calin her, she wil b d one to ask after me alws n she is complaining serious yle I keep givin xcuses n promises to change still I dnt see my self dwin dat.

Sunkyphil:
smh after u don over fvck her;

not abt dat bro....

chizzy24:
was so passionate abt her wen we started @first, I can't stay a day witout hearing frm here cus of dis passion. She is a gud gal to b sincere. But now I can stay witout calin her, she wil b d one to ask after me alws n she is complaining serious yle I keep givin xcuses n promises to change still I dnt see my self dwin dat.

whom do you think about these days? did you meet anyone new recently? did she offend you and you are still brooding about it?

Queennelly:
whom do you think about these days? did you meet anyone new recently? did she offend you and you are still brooding about it?

wel I prefer calin doz ones dat wil offer me notin, yle I wil end up spending money on dem jst to get dia attention.

the truth is, you never really loved her. I'll prove it. Give me 5 qualities/personality traits that makes u lover ur gf. I'm sure u'll struggle to find 3.

What u felt was infatuation, it's a natural thing, even with people who fall in love and get married. It's like a chain that leads only to one thing - sex!

At first u can't wait to see her, then seeing is not enough, u want to hold hands. Thereafter u want to hug, frm hug u want to kiss. Kissing alone becomes not enough, u want to touch intimate body parts. After everything else it leeds sex. Sex was good. U did a few more times, but then it starts to wean. Gradually, u re no longer as passionate as before. Eventually u begin to notice her fault which has always been there. U quarrel more often. After a while u breakup. On to the next girl.

Like i mentioned early, infatuation happens even between married people who are in love. But love is more permanent. Love and companionship will hold u both, wen infatuation is gone. If u had love her for a particular behaviour or hers, that behaviour wouldnt change over night. U'd still love her even now.


My advice: look for what u love abt ur girlfriend. Focus more on making her ur friend and companion, other than a sex mate. Then look for ways to spice up the relationship. Love is a choice not just a feeling!


N/B: premarital sex has sad consequences, now and later.

vfactor:
the truth is, you never really loved her. I'll prove it. Give me 5 qualities/personality traits that makes u lover ur gf. I'm sure u'll struggle to find 3.

What u felt was infatuation, it's a natural thing, even with people who fall in love and get married. It's like a chain that leads only to one thing - sex!

At first u can't wait to see her, then seeing is not enough, u want to hold hands. Thereafter u want to hug, frm hug u want to kiss. Kissing alone becomes not enough, u want to touch intimate body parts. After everything else it leeds sex. Sex was good. U did a few more times, but then it starts to wean. Gradually, u re no longer as passionate as before. Eventually u begin to notice her fault which has always been there. U quarrel more often. After a while u breakup. On to the next girl.

Like i mentioned early, infatuation happens even between married people who are in love. But love is more permanent. Love and companionship will hold u both, wen infatuation is gone. If u had love her for a particular behaviour or hers, that behaviour wouldnt change over night. U'd still love her even now.


My advice: look for what u love abt ur girlfriend. Focus more on making her ur friend and companion, other than a sex mate. Then look for ways to spice up the relationship. Love is a choice not just a feeling!


N/B: premarital sex has sad consequences, now and later.

I guess ur advice is were am consignd, dats wat I wil do but av dated dis my friend for 4yrs nw, stil no sex... cus she dnt want to... but character wise, hardworking, she is okay!! Bt d problm is me

chizzy24:
not abt dat bro....

are u sure

chizzy24:
was so passionate abt her wen we started @first, I can't stay a day witout hearing frm here cus of dis passion. She is a gud gal to b sincere. But now I can stay witout calin her, she wil b d one to ask after me alws n she is complaining serious yle I keep givin xcuses n promises to change still I dnt see my self dwin dat.

then fvck her one more time and get rid of her

samflexxy:
then fvck her one more time and get rid of her

hmm, nt al abt sex morova she wunt let go

Na vex dey worry u because ur return on investment is very low. Probably some other girls are offering u a higher ROI and it just dawned on u dat dis girl too dey shit and piss like every normal human being.

vfactor:
the truth is, you never really loved her. I'll prove it. Give me 5 qualities/personality traits that makes u lover ur gf. I'm sure u'll struggle to find 3.

What u felt was infatuation, it's a natural thing, even with people who fall in love and get married. It's like a chain that leads only to one thing - sex!

At first u can't wait to see her, then seeing is not enough, u want to hold hands. Thereafter u want to hug, frm hug u want to kiss. Kissing alone becomes not enough, u want to touch intimate body parts. After everything else it leeds sex. Sex was good. U did a few more times, but then it starts to wean. Gradually, u re no longer as passionate as before. Eventually u begin to notice her fault which has always been there. U quarrel more often. After a while u breakup. On to the next girl.

Like i mentioned early, infatuation happens even between married people who are in love. But love is more permanent. Love and companionship will hold u both, wen infatuation is gone. If u had love her for a particular behaviour or hers, that behaviour wouldnt change over night. U'd still love her even now.


My advice: look for what u love abt ur girlfriend. Focus more on making her ur friend and companion, other than a sex mate. Then look for ways to spice up the relationship. Love is a choice not just a feeling!


N/B: premarital sex has sad consequences, now and later.

. You said it all! Genius!

chizzy24:
hmm, nt al abt sex morova she wunt let go

is it because she wouldn't ve sex with u that make ur love grow cold

gede7744:
is it because she wouldn't ve sex with u that make ur love grow cold

dnt tink so.....

Nutase:
Na vex dey worry u because ur return on investment is very low. Probably some other girls are offering u a higher ROI and it just dawned on u dat dis girl too dey shit and piss like every normal human being.

ROI .. you cant take it out from a relationship ... either business or pleasure

Where You Drop Am..?

Sunkyphil:
smh after u don over fvck her;

Don't mind him o! Him mouth like "lost feelings"..

celeron40:
Don't mind him o! Him mouth like "lost feelings"..

lolz, take it easy bro

vfactor:
the truth is, you never really loved her. I'll prove it. Give me 5 qualities/personality traits that makes u lover ur gf. I'm sure u'll struggle to find 3.

What u felt was infatuation, it's a natural thing, even with people who fall in love and get married. It's like a chain that leads only to one thing - sex!

At first u can't wait to see her, then seeing is not enough, u want to hold hands. Thereafter u want to hug, frm hug u want to kiss. Kissing alone becomes not enough, u want to touch intimate body parts. After everything else it leeds sex. Sex was good. U did a few more times, but then it starts to wean. Gradually, u re no longer as passionate as before. Eventually u begin to notice her fault which has always been there. U quarrel more often. After a while u breakup. On to the next girl.

Like i mentioned early, infatuation happens even between married people who are in love. But love is more permanent. Love and companionship will hold u both, wen infatuation is gone. If u had love her for a particular behaviour or hers, that behaviour wouldnt change over night. U'd still love her even now.


My advice: look for what u love abt ur girlfriend. Focus more on making her ur friend and companion, other than a sex mate. Then look for ways to spice up the relationship. Love is a choice not just a feeling!


N/B: premarital sex has sad consequences, now and later.

#Respect

chizzy24:
LOSTS feelings for my girlfriend, pls I need help.

When you found/developed it initially, whom did you tell? You better go and find it.