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Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by gladokpe(f): 5:19pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
i love this, but its not always true though |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by GoodFaith: 5:20pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Truckpusher:Smart comments Love it 2 Likes |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by GoodFaith: 5:32pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Sparksfly: "It's vivid everywhere. You treat woman like trash. "-- Because you're a trash and you talking trash "Over years, I've come to a conclusion that ditching with a Nigerian Man will only make me miserable for life"-- You're miserable with out a Nigerian man |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by AdeniyiA(m): 6:09pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
men and women ...hmmm, deceiving themselves from the days of Adam nd Eve |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
GoodFaith: Thanks for the analysis! Now can you please let me be? |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by GoodFaith: 6:15pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Sparksfly:You failed to respond to the comment below: Sorry You're not an option Just a good Bleep or dump ground for sperm |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
GoodFaith: Stop spamming my mentions! Thanks! |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by Nobody: 6:20pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
A lot of folks here cannot see the article for what it truly is. The biting sarcasm dripping from the article is just too obvious. By and large, the article is just a vituperation by a psychoneurotic embittered "feminist", orchestrated at INSULTING Nigerians (and by extension, most africans). She ridicules our societal values, the nigerian woman, the idea of the nuclear family, the intelligence and choice of most Nigerians. She's not really advising girls to carry out those steps so as to secure a husband. Hell No! If u thought that, then u're mistaken. She's only taking a swipe at nigerian men and the system at large vis a vis; we are archaic chauvinist simpletons with low outdated ideals about marriage and women. So therefore, our preference of a wife material is sth archaic, laughable or deception-based. The moment I read the topic "How to get a Nigerian man to marry you", I suspected that whoever wrote the article is either not a Nigerian or is one of those diaspora Nigerians with absurd knowledge of the real Nigeria. I clicked on the links so I could trace the writer and guess what! Writer: Leggy (female) Location: United States. Exactly what I suspected. zizman: What nonsense! And to think this was posted on a US blog! No wonder the negative stereotypes about us. Getting a Nigerian man to marry u is d easiest thing in d world? So Nigerian men are so dumb that they can't see through lies, pretense and deception? Her use of the terms "married, bedded, barefoot and pregnant" shows her obvious contempt for the nuclear structure of the family. "Married, bedded, barefoot and pregnant" is used in a derogatory way as if its demeaning for a woman to actually get married and pregnant. Who would want to use such terms to describe their spouse or mother or sister? Chai! Nigerians don really suffer. So this e-diot thinks that getting married in naija is as easy as configuring ur phone for browsing? Just follow a few easy steps and bam!, u become "married, bedded, barefoot and pregnant." zizman: So once u pretend to be religious, a nigerian man will fall for u. What about that thing called discernment? I guess we don't have it. So preach a verse or two and that's it. Being religious doesn't guarantee moral uprightness and we all know this; but I guess Nigerian men are "too dumb to know". Doesn't matter that we might be totally incompatible. Or that we might be practicing different religions entirely. Or that d man isn't even the religious type at all. Is it all nigerians that give a rat's a*ss about religion? To me, d underlying message here is that nigerians are so gullible and easily brainwashed about anything pertaining to religion. So a lil display of it will make d head of a Nigeria man swoon and before u know it, "married, bedded, barefoot and pregnant". zizman: Pretend to be maternal? Gosh this is so dumb. Where did this e-diot get d idea that Nigerian men are enchanted by women who display true/forced affection to kids? Why does anyone even have to pretend about liking kids? Are kids some kinda horrible-looking animals or what? Coo at them? They are people for crying out loud, not pets. No one says raising up a child is as easy as A,B,C but saying that children could be such "dicks" at an early age is quite uncalled for. Its not really about kids. The underlying message here is a very dominant "feminist" rant u hear and read on the media, movies, books, internet etc. They rant on and on about how they want to be independent career-minded "liberated" women who don't want to be "popping" out babies for any man. Another message is that nigerian men want to get married and start populating d earth like rabbits; hence they will fall for girls with "maternal prospects". This is just dumb. Are we still living in d medieval age? zizman:Referring to a woman as a "baby popper"? I find this extremely offensive. It is an insult to women and children. A child is a person and not sth u just "pop". Jeeeez! A mother is NOT a "popper" of children. Does this e-diot understand that overwhelming joy a mother feels just by looking at her new born? Would this e-diot be happy if someone refers to her mum as a "baby popper"? If a woman chooses to give birth and raise kids, that's perfectly beautiful. That is her choice and u dare not refer to her as a "baby popper." What nonsense! I'm sure that this e-diot is the type who will be lonely, extremely frustrated and single at 50 and live in a big house with 40 cats zizman: So if a woman says she's a feminist, nigerian men would run away? Mtcheew. It is not about branding urself a "feminist". If a feminist is one (whether man or woman) who advocates equal rights for men and women, then this e-diot is nothing of such. Rather she's a bitter misandrist who needs to see a shrink ASAP. And who says nigerian men are opposed to women rights? E-diot we are not heartless chauvinists who oppress women at every turn. Aha! She subtly equates d traditional roles of d african society to d violation of women's rights. Clever sleight of hand right there but it can't go unnoticed by a critical mind. I don't know where she gets d idea that dating a nigerian man would mean all every chore will be transferred to d woman. Growing up in a typical nigerian family, there are "male" chores and "female" chores, though there's not always a fine line btw d two. I don't think there's any chore a woman can do that I can't do. Some women are so lazy and can't even take lift their hand to do any household chore, all in d name of "women liberation". Nonsense! Like someone even noted, not all guys want u to be cooking for them, neither is it d mentality of nigerian men that their wife-to-be should be a work-horse. If a man does not want to marry u, he won't. If u like use ur tongue to lick his house clean. Again, d e-diot concluded that paragragh with "cook, clean, pop ur back and still pop out those kids". Ah ah! Kids are NOT sth u just pop. Mtcheeew! Such imbecility! So I find it dumb and insulting that nigerian men would marry u simply because they need a domestic workhorse and "child popper". Nigerian men want real women as wives, not programmable obedient asexual workhorses. This is 2015. Stop portraying us as chauvinists who see marriage as a master-slave affair. That's wrong. zizman: This is Africa and we don't appreciate promiscuity in women. That doesn't mean we want nuns as wives or rigid boring sexually inactive women. How many nigerian men these days are hell-bent on marrying virgins? Who gave this dimwit d idea that nigerian men would marry u cos u aint sexually experienced? Well, its not even about d number of sexual partners. What this e-diot wants to say is that d african/nigerian society is a chauvinistic represser of female sexuality. That's just it. Hiding under sarcasm won't make it less obvious. Nonsense! zizman: Another pathetically dumb argument. Why unnecessarily spike d number of d man's sex partners? If u like go and be f*cking up and down and be expecting a Romeo who'll treat u like a princess when u've banged more than half d men in ur town. I don't think its a only Nigerian thing, men do not like sexually loose women who'll open their legs to anything. Simple! It is particularly insulting to nigerian women to suggest they have to keep mute about infidelity and ill-treatment meted out to them, in order to make them "marriageable". Such daft thinking! About d nigerian man going out to put his dick in everything, who does he sleep with? Is it not women too? So while labeling us as promiscuous, u're doing same to d women. Simple! Elsewhere on her blog, she espoused that nigerian men don't like educated women, so a woman needs to withdraw from schooling to make herself "marriageable" to a nigerian man. In this modern naija where a bachelors degree aint a big deal any more? This e-diots would sit behind their keyboards and type nonsense about people and cultures they know next to nothing about, spreading lies and hurtful stereotypes on d net. Its insulting to nigerian men and women to have such an opinion of them. The message is clear even if its masked in sacrcasm. -A typical nigerian man is dumb, archaic, has low-ideals and is easily won by a facade of nonsensical preferences. WRONG -Women who are submissive to men are fools and need liberation. They don't know their rights. They just want to get "married, bedded, barefoot and pregnant". WRONG -The traditional norms of d nigerian society (and by extension africa) is archaic, chauvinistic and anti-women's right. WRONG The last paragraph about cooking is just too dumb. Can't comment on that. 1 Like |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by boma95(f): 8:38pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
aristocrazzy: u just got the words right out of my mouth i'll rather be myself....tha Bleep am i bn all religious for when i cant evn pray for complete 30minutes i rada be myself |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by Sike(m): 8:39pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
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Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by 1miccza: 11:41pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
mencade4: I am still waiting for Mencade 5,6 and 7 to come and post their comments |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by oge4real(f): 8:05am On Jan 27, 2015 |
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Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by talktofemi: 8:36am On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by oge4real(f): 12:07pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
talktofemi:You have a reply. |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by Nobody: 10:09pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
talktofemi:Is it better now? |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by talktofemi: 10:23pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
talktofemi:yes naa |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by talktofemi: 10:50pm On Jan 27, 2015 |
Re: How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You by flowjoe: 9:53pm On Jan 28, 2015 |
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