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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Misogynist2014(m): 11:41am On Jan 30, 2015
justynneke:
Bia olu-otula(otula means nyash in owerri lang) abi wetin b ur name
According to ur post Ʊ just claimed bng a bloody fool which Ʊ just shoed by ur statements
I tot muslims respect ladies
Well go ask ur mother hw she lost her virginity n hw Ʊ r d end result of d loss
Calm down, no one will respect a woman writing this. Respect is reciprocal.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:44am On Jan 30, 2015
I think we guys/men try to be 'saints' too. If u are dating a lady/girl. All u need to know is if she's a virgin/not. If she isn't a virgin and she's bold enough not to deceive u, I think that's ok. What's ur motive as a guy to know how she lost her virginity?
Some guys/men too can't be truthful to tell their gals how they lost theirs too?
Abeg leave our ladies alone.....nobody holy pass Mr. Op

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by fresh360(m): 12:00pm On Jan 30, 2015
Hahahahahah.... Una no go kill person 4 here
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by franzis(m): 12:03pm On Jan 30, 2015
same thing my friend girlfriend told him....funny enough she went to the alleged rapist house with only pant and wrapper
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by nickydof(m): 12:04pm On Jan 30, 2015
To be sincere, most ladies tell these shameful rape stories often to get sympathy from their audience. I still believe the meaning of the word rape is ambiguous. Why would a lady visit a single guy and opt to spend the night, then later in the morning cries out that she has been raped? The decision to stay over can be regarded as consent.
If you know you aint ready to loose your virginity, stop giving passive consent, be careful with the people you hang out with and above all don't sleep out! Stay your papa and mama house!!!!!

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Ethicaliyke(m): 12:06pm On Jan 30, 2015
Guys who are in the mood to petronise them will still hide under there lies and deal with them ...........for ladies here NB the men you end up calling mugu are the ones who pretend to believe you just to deal with U̶̲̥̅̊ in there own way. By doing so they help update your lie's profile........THINKBIG!
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Richydos(m): 12:08pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

Am just trying to correct the op that not all of them lie about how they were deflowered.
Most of the ladies ive been with always say the truth, ave heard of just one, so i wonder the world this op is from that is filled of liars. grin

I usually don't do this but ur incessant act of not keeping mute n save yourself some words pushed me 2.......I believe d OP based his fact on a well calculated research which I am pleased 2 second it.....Majority of girls are fond of saying d damn word " they got raped"......sorry 2 ask where u also raped or u gave it willingly or better still go lick some salt

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by 2rez: 12:09pm On Jan 30, 2015
If u like lost ur virginity via rape, sport az some would claim:-/ abi via twerking grin, ko kan aye

#SaiBuhari jor.

Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Lanretoye(m): 12:11pm On Jan 30, 2015
i grabbed my own copy of that story book yesterday...
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Topewealth: 12:16pm On Jan 30, 2015
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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jan 30, 2015
Bullshit! both d liar n d liee(pardon dat english) are incredibly stupid.if a gal was truly raped n it wasn't her desire,u wld knw.(she's likely gonna hate sex evn wen married,it's gonna take God 4 such a woman 2 freely give herself 2 her hubby).on d other hand if she willingly allowed herself 2 be raped n now claim saint virgin,she's a LovePeddler. my 2 cents

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jan 30, 2015
Mtchew,all these foolish girls be acting to please boys by lying their hearts out.

Like seriously,even if he meets you a virgin,he will still stray when it's time,if he doesn't have the plan to marry you,he will still dumb your assss.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by StunnazJay(m): 12:30pm On Jan 30, 2015
With all the hullabaloo about virginity, I begin to wonder why folks are so fixated on the status of a girls vagina.

Going by the root meaning of the word 'virgin', it paints a different scenario from the meaning of the word as it is being used now.

By the way, I've experienced what the poster talked about twice. Each lady purporting to have been raped when the issue o sex came up.

I guess its their fall back story so as to save face, but I wonder why they want to save face in the first place?

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jan 30, 2015
Why should that be an exuse? It's an injustice to those that actually experienced it. So if you are one of those, hush the bleep up! U enjoyed the deeck and come dey feel guilty after... shuooo!!! when e dey do jangilova for ur head and u dey say 'uhn iuhn ahn' who dey? Nansense!!!
Rape ain't something to joke about na. And when you even use it as an excuse, it just spells out that.... 'you are dumber than dumb!' who you wanna impress? the new guy? Duh!!! So the other 25 said to him too!!!
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by beckyomas(f): 12:30pm On Jan 30, 2015
This op sha, your foo.lishness na first class.
How old is this op btw? So I should lie about how I lost it because i'm living this life to please a man?
With your mouth that looks like 'every girl', with your back and front grammar.
If not for one thing, i'd have called you a bas.tard but i'm in a good mood.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by beckyomas(f): 12:41pm On Jan 30, 2015
nickydof:
To be sincere, most ladies tell these shameful rape stories often to get sympathy from their audience. I still believe the meaning of the word rape is ambiguous. Why would a lady visit a single guy and opt to spend the night, then later in the morning cries out that she has been raped? The decision to stay over can be regarded as consent.
If you know you aint ready to loose your virginity, stop giving passive consent, be careful with the people you hang out with and above all don't sleep out! Stay your papa and mama house!!!!!
Talking about sincerity, is this not the same Nigeria and same nairaland where we get news of children and teenagers getting raped? Or do you think those children can still be termed 'virgins' anymore?
Are you telling me that when you hear the word 'rape', the first thing that comes to your mind is a full grown female going to spend the night in a guy's house?
Is that fair? Isn't it possible even with the rate at which we hear of rape cases?

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by bossminded: 12:41pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

i used ave been with because we are no longer together. i don't really make close friendship with ladies.

you calling me a lesbian is an insult and i won't take it, my words are so precious to me so i don't waste them.

Apologize now or else.......


U just want to cry because I call u........

C discrimination...u re sexist. grin grin
Here in france u can b jailed for dt.

Anyway Mk e no b say I sleep I no wake, I dy fear u.

Sorri oooo

No vex....tamper justice wt mercy. tongue tongue
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:42pm On Jan 30, 2015
Richydos:


I usually don't do this but ur incessant act of not keeping mute n save yourself some words pushed me 2.......I believe d OP based his fact on a well calculated research which I am pleased 2 second it.....Majority of girls are fond of saying d damn word " they got raped"......sorry 2 ask where u also raped or u gave it willingly or better still go lick some salt
i have to correct you on this. U don't have to be rude to make ur points. for him to generalize is wrong,some are sincere about been raped and it's uncivilized you to make jest of them. I wonder how they will feel reading this. some ladies will tell you they gave it willingly. so stop generalizing.


as for your question,

wait lemme ask ifa

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jan 30, 2015
bossminded:



U just want to cry because I call u........

C discrimination...u re sexist. grin grin
Here in france u can b jailed for dt.

Anyway Mk e no b say I sleep I no wake, I dy fear u.

Sorri oooo

No vex....tamper justice wt mercy. tongue tongue
it's okay don't just call me that again.


Now go and play with sand
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jan 30, 2015
tosyne2much:
[i] Egbon I dey ground dey prostrate greet u ooo.. Shey make I stand up. ?

cheesy, see set up o...Stand up a beg
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by bossminded: 12:55pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

it's okay don't just call me that again.


Now go and play with sand

Nope...I prefer to play wt the 6 yards weavon on ur head
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Oyawuni(m): 12:57pm On Jan 30, 2015
and some rape stories are true oooo

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jan 30, 2015
bossminded:


Nope...I prefer to play wt the 6 yards weavon on ur head
okay then you are free to join the queue grin
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by janifyreez(f): 1:00pm On Jan 30, 2015
embarassed[color=#990000][/color]Guys nko? Don't they loose their virginity too?
Women don suffer in this naija

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by bossminded: 1:00pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

okay then you are free to join the queue grin

Abeg dy go u too like man.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Lukesmith: 1:01pm On Jan 30, 2015
chimkaire:
Did you say ''every''? Now, 'cos the females around you says so doesn't mean it's thus for all undecided undecided undecided undecided
Smh at some peep's reasoning sha. Why would a sane person claim''R.APE'' sad sad sad
Because Most ladies are not sane
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Richydos(m): 1:08pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

i have to correct you on this. U don't have to be rude to make ur points. for him to generalize is wrong,some are sincere about been raped and it's uncivilized you to make jest of them. I wonder how they will feel reading this. some ladies will tell you they gave it willingly. so stop generalizing.


as for your question,

wait lemme ask ifa

its funny when a guy picks a lady's fault n she responds by saying " u are being rude"......we aint making jest of d ladies n won't ever but come to think of it.....for every 5 girls u ask about how she lost her virginity 4 end up cooking d rape story.....point of correction no one is generalizing cox it has become a common slogan.....
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Lukesmith: 1:08pm On Jan 30, 2015
justynneke:
Most girls in truth were actually raped
Young girls suffer voilence n deceit
Wot is rape?
Rape is aving canal knowledge of a woman without her consent
Rape from uncles,neighbours,in-laws r kinda diff. Frm rape frm boyfriend
D boyfriend makes d girl biliv hez checking if trully shez a virgin or any oda tin unknown to d girl dat shez bn disvirgined

Only if our parents had tot our girls sex education @ early stages of puberty
Only if parents had drawn dirls close enof for dem to reveal wot apnd btw dem n dia friends
Only if parents had nt denied dia girls wot D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ need (love especially n oda material tinz)

Our girls won't b too gullible to fall prey
Just listen to yourself.. So a guy would tell you to lay on the bed so he would check if or not you are still a virgin and you really fall for that?... Rubbish.. Your first and last line made sense..but that up there.. Doesn't make any sense
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by City44(m): 1:10pm On Jan 30, 2015
God bless u Op. You are right to a large extent. But it's not every Nigerian girl as u put it. So pls change that "every" to "many".

Good write-up though.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by tonero230(m): 1:11pm On Jan 30, 2015
bond77:
Sometimes I just ask myselfundecided... .. do virgins still exist?... Or are they fairy tales?

They exist and better start searching for one
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by gbaskiboy: 1:17pm On Jan 30, 2015
Deshannel:
angry
is this your papa picture
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Deshannel(m): 1:20pm On Jan 30, 2015
gbaskiboy:
is this your papa picture
It is that of your next president.

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