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2special:
and if u can't understand or comprehend what d O.P wrote then u are behind schedule o,u ve a Big problem.

Climaths:
Now here is my story, d mother of my duaghter which is abt 2yrs old nw, is in sch in her final year, last year noveber I approched d father for marriage she said dat I must wait till d duaghter finish sch before she give her to marriage, nw rite from snice two year she put to bet my duaghter hv nt pass d nite in my fathers house, my wife tobe be hardly pays my family visit. I work at ondo state, while she sch and state in benin, de parents don't allow her cum down to pay me visit not even for once wit my duaghter since I hv been workin in ondo goin to 2yrs nw. reason be dat we are nt married, hence I approched dem last year for marriage de turn me down, my finance is so scarced of her parents dat she can't even take decision of her own. Presently d issue nw is dat jst recently I ask her to go spend d weekend wit my mum, so dat my baby will start get use to my family member, becus my baby does nt even knw me , let alone members of my family, my finance has refuse becus she is scared of her parents might say she should nt go. Am jst tired of dis whole relationship. Should call it off? Positive response pls

obongproff:
Stop acting like a boy and be a man.

Take an older persson like ur dad or uncle and go see her parents. If day still refuse, let dem know ur walking away. Simple!

Marriage no be by force na.

Biyonze:
U hv to act like a man dont even look at her parent evendo ur wife does not deep in love wit u coz she,she we fight for her fredom

Biyonze:
U hv to act like a man dont even look at her parent evendo ur wife does not deep in love wit u coz she,she we fight for her fredom

AyokunleRuth:
can someone summarize this for me.? i don't understand

Aristokells24:
u keep translator for here? u jst de form, simple story u de form say u no understand oya de wait na

Aristokells24:
u keep translator for here? u jst de form, simple story u de form say u no understand oya de wait na

AyokunleRuth:
lemme use my boss words

were you forced to comment at gun point?

lemme use my words

do i complain to you that am tired of waiting

lemme use naijaboiy's words
in your warped mind. Guy swerve.

now flee

naijaboiy:
How una take understand wetin this guy type

Climaths:
don't come here to derail my post, I only solicited for advise ok . Read thru carefully u would get wht I mean

Sorry sir!

I was just saying

naijaboiy:
Sorry sir!

I was just saying

intbizoil:
she honours her parent's words above urs. That's a problem man.

andromida:
Don't tolerate this silly behavior. Have a meeting with her parents tell them you want your wife and child with you. Ask them if there is a reason they don't want their daughter to marry you, let them know you are concerned your daughter does not know you and your family. Be plain and direct also be prepared for any outcome.

Climaths:
i hv done dat last year noveber, they said nt until she finish are schling dis year. Dat they are nt givin her out for marriage

AyokunleRuth:
lemme use my boss words

were you forced to comment at gun point?

lemme use my words

do i complain to you that am tired of waiting

lemme use naijaboiy's words
in your warped mind. Guy swerve.

now flee

Aristokells24:
all those bla bla bla na bcus u don de shame. cum blow fune again

AyokunleRuth:
am trying all my best to keep it low with you.

Now runalong before i loose my temper on you.

Climaths:
please I put up this post becus am really bordered and I really need advise from matured minds, so pls do not derail my thread. Tanks for ur co-operation

AyokunleRuth:
am trying all my best to keep it low with you.

Now runalong before i loose my temper on you.

Aristokells24:
see who is losin her temper. u get temper? no go find sumtin tangible to do

AyokunleRuth:
it's okay mr. i don't want to add to your worries either.
have a nice day

Tashaamania:
I wish I understoood your message, OP..

But from what I could manage to understand, are you saying the girl's parents refused you marrying their daughter because of your financial status?

Tashaamania:
I wish I understoood your message, OP..

But from what I could manage to understand, are you saying the girl's parents refused you marrying their daughter because of your financial status?

naijaboiy:
How una take understand wetin this guy type

naijaboiy:
Sorry sir!
I was just saying