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Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jan 31, 2015
dahmie2013:
OP, y don't u take some chill pills. Relax, let her finish skool. Her fada has already given u d conditn, if she's finished&u're complaining lyk dis, its understandable. Let her finish, it makes a lot of sense dat way. Stop dis baby talk of "she can't stand 4 ur love" dats 4 teenagers, u're a fada 4 crying out loud. She needs her educatn 2 also take care of her family, cos she can get a job. So relax, if she's not coming, u come over 4 d sake of ur child, d fada will even see u as a responsible person.
tanks sir, am nt sayin I can't wait till she finish sch. My point here is this. What is wrong in she spending d weekend wit my family at hum?. And even if she graduate dis year, and I don't have d finacial capacity to foot a wedding. Are u saying is only proper for her to keep d distance dat d parents wants her to keep. Dats is my concern.
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by dahmie2013: 7:08pm On Jan 31, 2015
Climaths:
tanks sir, am nt sayin I can't wait till she finish sch. My point here is this. What is wrong in she spending d weekend wit my family at hum?. And even if she graduate dis year, and I don't have d finacial capacity to foot a wedding. Are u saying is only proper for her to keep d distance dat d parents wants her to keep. Dats is my concern.
D challenge is, her family doesn't no urs, u can't definitely xpect her fada 2 allow his daughter spend d weekend with a family he doesn't know. Dats y u need 2 relax bro, all in due time. Do d right thing first, marry her den u can dd whateva 4rm her. But u can tell her 2 visit dem if its not 2 far 4 her sha.
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jan 31, 2015
dahmie2013:
D challenge is, her family doesn't no urs, u can't definitely xpect her fada 2 allow his daughter spend d weekend with a family he doesn't know. Dats y u need 2 relax bro, all in due time. Do d right thing first, marry her den u can dd whateva 4rm her. But u can tell her 2 visit dem if its not 2 far 4 her sha.
tanks sir
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 7:32pm On Jan 31, 2015
Afrok:
Come on, hypocrisy is written all over the fiancee and her parents faces angry. She's scared of her parents but opened her legs wide to have reproduction and the same legs were still opened during delivery and the strict parents didn't think the child has a father? The scared daughter dt wasn't scared to take it raw is still scared of telling her parents I wanna go see the father of my baby?

The strict parents are so strict that they can't approve to a simple marriage arrangements even though a child is between U two? They can't even summon courage to respect their daughter's wish of having a baby for U which is/might be a sign of love between U two? How strict can a parent be to stop their daughter from making arrangements for her marriage at final year level? How scared can a final year lady be after a child birth that she can't make bold decisions on her own? How soft can a guy be that she allows every decisions concerning his baby mama to be taken by his in-law?

Above all, I THINK THE FAMILY DO NOT WANT U huh.
Impressive!
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jan 31, 2015
Climaths:
tanks so much sir. Ur words are like eye opener to me. I will ponder on it
You better do. No matter what, never get involve with useless inlaws. I know what I am talking about!
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jan 31, 2015
Tanks to all those who contributed through words of advised and opinion, well I am praying abt dis whole issuse for Gods Guardians
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jan 31, 2015
tpacalipse:
You better do. No matter what, never get involve with useless inlaws. I know what I am talking about!
tanks a whole lot
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Aristokells24(m): 5:13pm On Feb 01, 2015
[quote
author=AyokunleRuth post=30295993]coming from a responsible guy who is trying to provoke a lady on a
blessed saturday morning. i don't want to say what's on my mind to you.

Have u no dirty clothes to wash. Get off my neck you pathetic
being[/quote]look at dis freaking fucking ass licking daughter of a bingo. u r nothing but a pathetic bitch. u tink u can eat ur cake and have it? loothing LovePeddler dnt go and find sumtin to do
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:06pm On Feb 01, 2015
Aristokells24:
look at dis freaking fucking ass licking daughter of a bingo. u r nothing but a pathetic bitch. u tink u can eat ur cake and have it? loothing LovePeddler dnt go and find sumtin to do
is that all uve got? undecided

bring it on guy .u can do better grin
Re: Am Confused, Please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:55pm On Feb 01, 2015
AyokunleRuth:
is that all uve got? undecided

bring it on guy .u can do better grin
please still need ur candid words of wisdom, so u can save this energy to advise a brother who really needs ur words of wisdom, tanks
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