kestolove95:
don't blame it on me,blame it on conji

MizMyColi:
It's a tete-a-tete kind of situation.
We will only move forward when we walk in the consciousness that, first, we ought to be the change we want to see effected in others and society @Large.

Vessi:
Oh it is time for blame game. If you lot don't make yourselves available for the commercial business who are the buyers gonna approach? If you channel your time, energy and resources into another form of business or hustling, those men will give up and seek greener pastures elsewhere. Shift left jor.

firstEVA:
i concur, men need to change and control themselves, women need to know there are other means of making money.

firstEVA:
you sound like a patronizer

Kachisbarbie:
It takes two to tangle; the prost*tute and the man.

From all the point you listed, the only thing I could make out is a case of two people, who ain't on the same sexual frequency, i.e the man and his partner.
*probably not ready to compromise.
#OR, "outrightly" not aware that the sexual aspect of the relationship is hampered.
Thus, a need for an external satisfaction

The change we want, starts from US.

firstEVA:
Are you saying its the conji that approaches the prostitutes?

2sa2:
tango, u are welcome.

@op. you are not serious at all. u want attention shifted to the men when its the women that display their wares for men to patronize. imagine going to brothels and meeting no woman there, would the man no go back home to his wife or if worst come to worst self service.
Let me tell you, even though men are not interested, the prostitutes will seduce them by all means necessary. Rubbish post.

kestolove95:
yes...dats y aftr d conji don commot...mst men regrt dia actions

Kachisbarbie:

Thanks much.
I actually thought it's "tangle" all my life...lols.

firstEVA:
Prostitution though as old as the world itself, is a very dirty, immoral business women engage in to make money, although we all criticize these prostitutes for disrespecting their bodies so much for money, we also need to realize that this business flourishes because of Men who are incapable of controlling their sexual urge. Sadly or surprisingly the Men who patronize prostitutes do so not because they dont have partners who are unwilling to sleep with them, they do so for silly reasons like;
1. They are bored with their partners - its not that they aren't getting it, they are tired of the particular one they are getting.
2. They want to be able to ask for what they really want - perhaps they have certain weird, unusual desire which they may be ashamed/embarrassed to ask of their partner. guys if your desire is so crazy, go for deliverance, there is probably a spirit behind that craving .
3. They want to be wild - Its not bad to be wild, talk to your partner, if she cannot cooperate, why not end the relationship and get someone who would not mind getting wild instead of looking for prostitutes?

Morale: Apart from telling prostitutes to try to get decent and less demeaning jobs, lets also talk to the men who make this business thrive, NO PROSTITUTE PATRONIZER, NO PROSTITUTE. Prostitutes and their patronizers are the cause of the spread of so many STD's and STI's today. Our men need to change to tone down the rate of prostitution today.

2sa2:
u are welcome dear we learn everyday, tango is a kind of dance which involves two parties, hence it takes two to tango.

joseph1832:
Then it also takes two to mambo because manbo is a kind of dance.

joseph1832:

Story land story land
Land of music fun and tales
Story land story land
Bring your friends along.

2sa2:
that of tango has become an idiomatic expression.

firstEVA:
i'm not surprised.

joseph1832:
Why should you be? You know not of what you speak of!.

firstEVA:
Educate me naw, what do i not know of, is it the fact that its men that make the business flourish or what?

firstEVA:
very funny, what happens to self control?

joseph1832:
You like others like you fail to see that there two sides to a coin. You opened this thread with the intent of only debating/debasing a particular aspect of the issue you raised!.

You forget the fact that as long as their are women willing to sell their bodies, there will always be men willing to pay for it. You alone ringed the alarm that men should have self control forgetting that self control is a multi facet concept! It applies to almost everything... For instance, a man who's a glutton needs to have self control! Yes he does but because there is availability of food he just can't help but be a glutton, take away the availability of food and Voila!. He adjusts automatically!. (Dem no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall neither do they tell a blind man say food done ready).

In simple economics, if the product is not there, nobody will buy it!. So instead of you to open a thread and call on the government to help in the eradication of prostitution, you decided to do the nigerian girl thing by 'blaming the man'. Yes oh blame the man! Konji na bastard!. Only those who truly haven't engage in sex will say its a bad thing!!!.

joseph1832:

Story land story land
Land of music fun and tales
Story land story land
Bring your friends along.

olashas:


Agbaya

firstEVA:
this is not just sex but with prostitutes, people that have been with hundreds of men who may have a disease or two. if you read my post well, i blame it on the men because they are the ones with issues, they can always have sex with girlfriends, wife etc but because of silly reasons they go for prostitutes thereby making the business thrive. if we are want to talk about economics then look at he law of demand and supply, its the demand for prostitutes by men that lead to the supply.

2sa2:
tango, u are welcome.

@op. you are not serious at all. u want attention shifted to the men when its the women that display their wares for men to patronize. imagine going to brothels and meeting no woman there, would the man no go back home to his wife or if worst come to worst self service.
Let me tell you, even though men are not interested, the prostitutes will seduce them by all means necessary. Rubbish post.