₦airaland Forum

mzcamii:
Hello nairalanders. I have had issue bothering me, i feel so ashamed, i can't tell my friends or family this issue. So i decided to come here to ask for your advice, i know i made a huge mistake, i can't even go out, i can't even face these two guys.

One is my boyfriend who i love so much, we have been having sex for a while, and all time he was using condoms, but recently he stopped, for some reasons known to him. I felt safe, because i know he was the only one i was having sex with, and he wasn't getting it else where. But then we started drifting apart, and he traveled to Ghana for school. we don't call each other or talk much, but he came back some time ending of January last month, and we sorted things out and had sex again, but the problem is that i started seeing one of his friends who i was also having sex with during that time. but i had sex with his friend a day before i had sex with him, then as of last week i notice that i was pregnant, and i don't know who is responsble!!! my boyfriend or his friend! please help me guys! what should i do? i can't even tell anyone, pls guys, I'm ashamed of myself , I'm calling everyone from north, south, east and west...pls come and help me, should i tell them both? your sincere comments pls,

mzcamii:
am not thinkin of abortion, my boyfriend was the last person i had sex with, even if he was the one, if i tell him, he will tell his friend, and i had sex with his best friend too, i just don't know what to do

auntymi:
Op, dnt wrri nA twins u go boRn, 1 fr ur guy nd 1 fr his friend

Beamborla:
There is smth called DNA test.



If it happened elsewhere, one of them might still want you but not in Nigeria. Our guys are not that nice.

mzcamii:
That's the thing, am still in skul. i can't get rid of it, I'm scared, i dn't knw what to do

Cutehector4u:
pls dnt reply any bashful comments! Dnt even let it get to ur head

PapiDShipCapt:
He'z the Comforter

Equado:
your choice is simple, either you abort or you choose which of the guys to be the father?but if you're scared of an abortion,I wonder why you weren't scared of having unprotected sex?

alberto2k:
Aunty I bow down for this your fortune telling

auntymi:
yes o, Op don chop meat finish carry bone cme give us for NL make we dey chEw

Cutehector4u:
trust me, neva pray dat ur badluck wil come anytym soon cuz I wil b d one to rain bashful comments first.

ronald4lif:


How old is the pregnancy? If it's less than two months the risk are very minimal. You are scared and it's normal for you to be but as a student we both know the difficult challenges you will encounter with pregnancy and nursing a baby. You may end up not completing your studies. And the worse is you can't even tell who is responsible.

See a doctor and hear what he has to say as relating to the risk and complications involve in D&C. Your best bet will be to get rid of it

alberto2k:
Make she hire statisticians abi

mzcamii:
This is not really easy for me, but i will try and tell them both, but privately, how about that guys?

Nneka123:
hmm

Smartestelvis:
nneka u couldnt read through bt wnt 2 be d first 2 comment, n u r lik1 'hmmm'.....lol

Nneka123:
lol, i was still thinking na

mzcamii:
Hello nairalanders. I have had issue bothering me, i feel so ashamed, i can't tell my friends or family this issue. So i decided to come here to ask for your advice, i know i made a huge mistake, i can't even go out, i can't even face these two guys.

One is my boyfriend who i love so much, we have been having sex for a while, and all time he was using condoms, but recently he stopped, for some reasons known to him. I felt safe, because i know he was the only one i was having sex with, and he wasn't getting it else where. But then we started drifting apart, and he traveled to Ghana for school. we don't call each other or talk much, but he came back some time ending of January last month, and we sorted things out and had sex again, but the problem is that i started seeing one of his friends who i was also having sex with during that time. but i had sex with his friend a day before i had sex with him, then as of last week i notice that i was pregnant, and i don't know who is responsble!!! my boyfriend or his friend! please help me guys! what should i do? i can't even tell anyone, pls guys, I'm ashamed of myself , I'm calling everyone from north, south, east and west...pls come and help me, should i tell them both? your sincere comments pls,

auntymi:
Op, dnt wrri nA twins u go boRn, 1 fr ur guy nd 1 fr his friend , make i keep my bashiN shA,bt y hvin s..ex wit two best friendz, abi u won cuz kasala btwin dEm

veave:
How about STDs?
If you've got just pregnancy you are safe then...

naijaboiy:
Chai!! I don't know where to start from

I'm trying so hard not to bash this girl
So you have a boyfriend and you still went ahead to cheat on him with his "Best Friend"

You and that his best friend fhucck up sha!

I don't know what you'll do about your pregnancy situation o. My own bone of contention is the issue of cheating and betrayal.

SMH

When you tell your boyfriend about your pregnancy and your infidelity and betrayal of his friend towards him,,how do you think he'll take it?

There is a very high tendency that these two guys will abandon you especially your cheating partner.

Just be prepared to face anything as it comes.

As for aborting the Baby,,i won't say anything on that. Just know that there are always consequences for any action(s) carried out.

mzcamii:
i don't have that, am just pregnant and i don't know who is the father between my boyfriend and his friend., thats my problem

mzcamii:
thanks for your advice and not bashing me that much. am ready for any consequences, i just need the courage to tell my boyfriend about it, but i don't know how to..thanks again

That Courage will Never Come because it's not easy to let it out like that.

You just have to start from somewhere.

But while telling your boyfriend,,make sure you leave no stone un turned. Tell him everything from the cheating to the pregnancy.

Only the truth can really set you free.