debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.
Lalasticlala,farano and seun Pls from page.

Decker:

Strahovski1:
Trash... serves you right. Getting pregnant at 21. When you were fuc!king you did not know you would use use a condom?

Lucky you created created a new account.

Hoe.

fartkay:



I smell something fishy ere.
Aw u take know say na lucky, oh I see u re d boyfriend suggesting abortion.

Strahovski1:


Huh

Decker:
It's always advisable that if you want to engage in premarital sex, you should endeavor to use protection always. Asides preventing you from getting pregnant it also protects against STDs.
It was your first sex and the smart thing would have been for both you and the guy to use protection, but you didn't and now you are facing the consequences.

I am going to be honest with you. It's not right to abort children. It's religiously and morally wrong. It's murder and it's not right.
Asides for the fact that abortion is wrong, it can also be detrimental to the health of the lady and sometimes it could be fatal. So I won't advice you to abort the pregnancy. Besides this isn't a decision you should take on your own.

You just gonna have to tell your parents. That's the best thing. They are not going to kill you. They would scold you and probably punish you, but they still love you and have your interest at heart. Talk to your mum. Present the matter to her in a mature way, and be prepared for what would come after that. She would get mad and angry and emotional, but after a day or two, she would come along. She is a woman like you. If after you present the matter to your parents and they insist you abort it, then you have no choice. You aren't going to raise the child alone. But I don't think they would. I don't think any parent would want their child to abort a pregnancy.
If they tell you to keep it, I am sure they would proffer ideas and solutions on how you would go about the whole pregnancy issue including sorting things out with the guy who impregnated you.

You made a mistake, I get it. Everyone makes mistakes at some point in their lives, what's important is that we all learn from these mistakes. Don't worry, it's all right. Everything is okay.

You are just 21 and you have your whole life in front of you. Don't let this discourage you in anyway. It's just a little set back, but don't let it stand as a hindrance to you striving to achieve your dreams and goals in life.

It's alright.

debbysmyles:
Pls I need advice,i just had to create a new account to avoid embrassment.
I'm 21yrs old and I had sex for the first time 1month ago,i was feeling sick so I decided to visit the doctor only to discover that i am pregnant.

I told my boyfriend and he suggested abortion..the problem is I don't want to abort the baby cos of fear.I kept my since till one ago because of different Phrophecy concerning pregnancy I must not abort if I do I will die.
I told my boyfriend everything but he insist I abort it if not he is going to abandon me to my fate.
My mum will kill me,society will crucify me,i have cried and cried,i don't know what to do.

Some guys are wicked upon all the promise of love.
I would have kept my virginity if I had known.

Laveda:
Your first time and he got you pregnant? That's sad

But girl, before now, I know you've known lil things about sex and all, you aren't a kid 21 no be beans,
You should have asked from friends before going into this, and your silly boyfriend? He's wicked, wasted the whole spërm inside you without giving you advice...

I don't believe in all these spiritual whatever,it doesn't work
You have to talk to your mum at this stage, I know she's gonna yell, sure its normal. You didn't use your head tell her about every thing, what if you die in the process of abortion? That's gonna be sad, see your mum as a friend right now, only she can help you..and your boyfriend? Knowing him was the worst mistake you made in life....

Decker will help you better

sseunth:
is condom now expensive or there is no more contraceptive pill?

tell ur parent, u have no choice.....

dont worry, let me become the president of nigeria i will legALLISE ABORTION CUS OF PEOPLE like you. but as for now......THOU SHALL NOT ABORT

debbysmyles:
My mum will never accept me,I'm scared right now.

You need to try, summon courage and tell her...
You don't expect her to be happy over this, or what's your plan?
Abortion?
Think about the risk behind it, what if something goes wrong in the process?
Babe you've gotta do this....its hard I know, really hard time for you... just try okay?

HateU2:
Sorry sis. It's gonna be a hard decision but u have to keep the baby. 4get about what the people will say, it's just gonna be for some months and u will have ur baby 4eva

Laveda:

You need to try, summon courage and tell her...
You don't expect her to be happy over this, or what's your plan?
Abortion?
Think about the risk behind it, what if something goes wrong in the process?
Babe you've gotta do this....its hard I know, really hard time for you... just try okay?

debbysmyles:
maybe I will involve her sister.Thanks.

debbysmyles:
Decker I appreciate but my mum has been warning me since about pregnancy,the main problem now is the guy is threatening to deny me and pregnancy if I don't abort it.

thorpido:
What do you want to do with front page?
You're blaming your boyfriend?Was it not consensual?Rather than listen to your parents and follow their leading and counsel,you decided to go your way and now you can face your parents.

Tell your parents or get a relative tell them.Heaven won't fall,you won't be the first to have such an experience.You will just have to bear the consequences and make the best of your situation.