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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:04pm On Feb 07, 2015

Nneka123:
yes! you're paranoid! so paranoid!. don't you have forums in your so called country where you could update this why come over here!

Must you always have to be rude to prove a point?

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:05pm On Feb 07, 2015

DDeliverer:
So you think if your boyfriend really wants to use you for rituals, he would tell you outright?

Humanity keeps disappointing me at every turn.

So what of those men who tell their gf/wives they will kill them and they actually did? Why tell them outright? I guess maybe I am paranoid

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:05pm On Feb 07, 2015

DDeliverer:
...And please ignore Nneka123, that's how he behaves.

seems you know her better

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:07pm On Feb 07, 2015

menix:
Akuko ndi ara...
So bcous hez nigerian, he wantz u 4 ritual abii..
Nkita lacha all dis ghanian anya...

I don't get your point. I knew he was Nigerian when we started dating so if I felt that way why would I have gone there. Btw he was the one that mentioned rituals and not me

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by nanizle(m): 10:08pm On Feb 07, 2015

I believe he meant it as a joke!

Or you can ask what kind of ritual he's thinking of grin

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by JiggamanGh: 10:10pm On Feb 07, 2015

purplesummer:
If you really think he's likely to use you for rituals, then there's a chance you may be right. Sometimes the truth stares us in the face non-pretentiously

If you still want to stick with him and eventually become his atm, then that will be very kind of you. Posterity will never forget you

Does the blood money thing really work?

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by blackpanther25(m): 10:10pm On Feb 07, 2015

Is he Yoruba?

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by somcherry(f): 10:10pm On Feb 07, 2015

prettydiva89:
get your brain,she isn't a Nigerian read before you comment

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2015

blackpanther25:
Is he Yoruba?

question?is it Yoruba that do stuff like that don't you try to insult my tribe

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2015

prettydiva89:
seems you know her better

I guess you meant I know him better...

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by somcherry(f): 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2015

prettydiva89:
get your brain,she isn't a Nigerian read before you comment

Ok. You mean because she is from ghana,she shouldn't visit nigeria during election cool

Why if I may ask?

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2015

DDeliverer:
I guess you meant I know him better...

so he's a male and he behaves like that
There is problem

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by JiggamanGh: 10:14pm On Feb 07, 2015

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals

Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

I think it was a joke. Ask yourself these questions, is he money hingry, does he talk about money all the time. Is he always coming up with a get rich quick scheme? If he is all these things then yes but if he is not ten it was just a joke.

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by MissEse: 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2015

If you know your bf well then its possible your writing this story in a very safe zone or you had breakfast with him today.
But 6months........ Y the rush? Naija guys sha.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by immortalvoices(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2015

Nneka123...... This act of yours won't last long in the long run everybody will ignore you...

Many female unsername who had perfected the art of rudeness before you, has de-activated in shame when they are ignored

So try to change and apologize to the OP

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2015

cocostrawberry:
So what of those men who tell their gf/wives they will kill them and they actually did? Why tell them outright? I guess maybe I am paranoid

Yes honey, you are paranoid.

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:18pm On Feb 07, 2015

somcherry:
Ok. You mean because she is from ghana,she shouldn't visit nigeria during election
Why if I may ask?

Nigerians are leaving country cos of election,so why should a foreigner visit

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by purplesummer(f): 10:18pm On Feb 07, 2015

cocostrawberry:
This got me loling. Thanks for the advice it has been noted

You are welcome...but sincerely, I'm thinking your boyfriend probably has a certain sense of humour that you've not come to terms with. I bet he was just kidding. However, keep your eyes and ears open. Good luck!

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:20pm On Feb 07, 2015

see your life now... me wey like you, you no give me face sad

na ritualist you dey give chance to dey kolobi you angry

this life hen lipsrsealed

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by SemuhleB(f): 10:21pm On Feb 07, 2015

When it comes to Witchcraft etc one can never take enough precaution.

There was a South African lady who went to Nigeria and never came back. Rumours were that she was eaten. Anyways best thing would be to talk to your boyfriend about it. Maybe he does not know about the effect it had on you. Also don't go to Nigeria just incase

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by T3Amo(f): 10:28pm On Feb 07, 2015

blackpanther25:
Is he Yoruba?

lol why are you like this?

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by chigoizie7(m): 10:29pm On Feb 07, 2015

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals

Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

So u ddnt understand the sarcasm? Ur bf wants to see u,and u are asking him why he is in a hurry? For crying out loud, what answers were u expecting? How can smone who really and truly wants to use u for ritual tell u dat?

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by blackpanther25(m): 10:30pm On Feb 07, 2015

prettydiva89:
question?is it Yoruba that do stuff like that don't you try to insult my tribe

Is it not the truth? That's Wat your peeps are known for

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by iamord(m): 10:30pm On Feb 07, 2015

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals

Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

its childish of him to use such a line! and should not be taken serious. you don't need to come . unless it's something urgent .

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by blackpanther25(m): 10:31pm On Feb 07, 2015

T3Amo:
lol why are you like this?

Actually on second note. He may just be igbo. Igbo guys always get the fine girls tongue

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:32pm On Feb 07, 2015

*Clears throat* So um, you're not a Nigerian

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:34pm On Feb 07, 2015

chigoizie7:
So u ddnt understand the sarcasm? Ur bf wants to see u,and u are asking him why he is in a hurry? For crying out loud, what answers were u expecting? How can smone who really and truly wants to use u for ritual tell u dat?

My bf is in Ghana with me. He wants us to go to Nigeria together.

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 07, 2015

Nneka123:
yes! you're paranoid! so paranoid!. don't you have forums in your so called country where you could update this why come over here!

Babe easy oooo cheesy

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:37pm On Feb 07, 2015

blackpanther25:
Is it not the truth? That's Wat your peeps are known for

go die then HATER shebi we don do one for you abi

Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:37pm On Feb 07, 2015

prettythicksme:
Babe easy oooo

no b babe,na guy

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by Nobody: 10:43pm On Feb 07, 2015

prettydiva89:
no b babe,na guy

shey guy dey bear Nneka?

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Wants To Use Me For Rituals by RoyalPearl(f): 10:44pm On Feb 07, 2015

Lol I think he was just joking with you. You seem like you are an over-thinker. My advice trust your gut and speak to him about it. What exactly does he want to take you to Nigeria for?

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