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lacedup:
Dahs y dey invented mistresses

hahahaha. U just changed my mood to laughter! U badt gan

Just maybe you are not showering her wit affection. Sex and affection go hand in hand, the men want sex the women affection, when you please your wife she will most likely return the favour, who knows she may merely be trying to get your attention. Just go and love your wife unconditionaly

my dear husband cant rape his own wife.you hear me no allow white man and television fool you

Sarimah:
or else wat?
you'll rape her?

u have to know her reasons first dear

The more reason why it is mandatory to test drive a lady before getting married to her , I mean wat silly excuse can a woman have for a denying a man the right to sweet sex during the early prime of dere matrimony? Except if she has a low libido and dat is a big turnoff.

Dont mind him. Saying d word 'just beat her' like its supposed to be a normal tinx. Its only a mad man dat wld raise his hands against a lady he married.

freecocoa:
Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity.

freecocoa:
Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity.

freecocoa:
Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity.

Bros u should ve a sexmate outside your marriage, so anytime ur wife screws up, u get gratification else where. My opinion though.

ArslordBaba:
This has separated many couples around the world.... Should any excuse given when it is time to have fun with one's wife... tiredness, headache, etc.

The problem is not her, but you not been able to attract her sexually

Do it well Bro.
And if you notice she still do not feel it for you, please quit the marriage, Attraction is not by force

Montaque:
hahahaha. U just changed my mood to laughter! U badt gan

Lol...na so boss...na im sure pass

Rape!
After all moni spent!

Jeromejnr:
Looking at it from the OP's question, anytime I ask her she says something like "its a headache". So every single day when it comes to that time she's always having headaches or experiencing tiredness.

But when she was busy shopping at the mall through out the day there was no headache and no tiredness.

Na wickedness abeg.

to be candid all the stress she has went through during the shopping makes her tired, the only solution is not to let her go shopping

freecocoa:
Just imagine the nonsense, after beating her, he expects her to go lie nakid on the bed, yelling 'my lord come and devour me' what a twart.

I love you too my sister.

Lol imagine, utter rubbish

She denied you sex on what ground and on what day after the wedding?

Please be specific let us know what actually transpired and not this ambiguous write-up of yours.

Very funny comments here I reserve mine

always be patient and see reasons with her. try to understand her feelings, cope them and find solutions that will put her in the mood. pls be patient and do not insist too much as she might be saving you. i have heard of a similar case were the lady was hiv positive, she bribed the doctor to claim she is negative before the marriage. after the marriage she so much loved the guy that she did not want to infect him. she rejected him for a month plus before they separated. if she say no pls push no further bro

firstEVA:
You are in for a sexless marriage, take heart.

she don enter one chance be that, fruitless adventure, i make sure i frustrate hell out of her,after all, marriage could be close or next to hell

immortalvoices:
Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!

Man stop talking nonsense!!

What do you mean she has every right to?

Marriage obliges a woman to sexually satisfy her husband at all times. If for some reason she is g able to fulfil her obligation, it's her duty to explain her reasons to her husband in a reasonable manner and make him reason with her.

Don't sound like outright refusal is her right, because it isn't. Every refusal must accompany a cogent reason not some trivial excuses like headache.

lacedup:
Lol...na so boss...na im sure pass

that's the hardness of heart that made for invention of polygamy.
Imagine a wife withholding sex for flimsy reasons? **spits on the ground**
If you make use of your options,she will scream adultery

immortalvoices:
Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!

she cant say no.period

Montaque:
that's the hardness of heart that made for invention of polygamy.
Imagine a wife withholding sex for flimsy reasons? **spits on the ground**
If you make use of your options,she will scream adultery

Oga twale!...#$impleLyf

kennyjodeci:
There is o....my guy has been starved for 6 months now by his wife just because he beat her

lol...he is paying for the beating..
lol..since he could beat his wife why not forcefully have her??
..Just saying#



Not judging buh its your friend I blame..
For his poor coordination..


Women need to be handles with maximum coordination..


Guess he was trying to be a man when he beat her as a result of her poor behaviour which was as a result of him not properly coordinating her...



lol...good luck with there sex life

immortalvoices:
Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!

your siggy is funny

firstEVA:
Really? As is really eating it? Tell me more

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I'm kindda shy I don't like talking too much..


How about you come around nd I show you


Sounds great ryt?

rabbaba:
Is it most that she will have sex with u that same day. Is it why u marry her

Tell me why i marry her? After high expectations and all that and ur forming headache for me. Tell me why i left all my girlfriends.

NWANICHODE:
Simple, just let her be and look for another babe that will be ready for you.

like seriously

I will leave her may be she's not in mood

Have she taken in? Some newly married women are scared to have se.x if pregnant. They have this unfounded fear that se.x will have a negative effect on the unborn baby. Let her consult your family doctor for advice.

Simple, help her carry her ghana must go bag, find her a tri-cycle and pay the sum then you tell her "dont come back"

let's face reality here, I think before a man starts to complain that his newly married wife is starving him of sex, the woman must have done it several times that it becomes a worry to the man. if the woman refuses sex with the reason of being tired, I am sure that the man Will believe her after trying several y without any fruitful result after all she has been giving him other days. but if a woman refuses sex to the extent that the man becomes uncomfortable starts complaining about It, I think in this case the reason for refusal is not just tiredness she is a lier and maybe she has requested something from you and u didn't provide it for her and some women Will not easily tell you that it is because of what u didn't provide for her, she believes that you should know it yourself and can never tell u at that moment and this will eventually bring problem because the man Will not be happy with his wife especially when he noticed that the wife started starving him of sex after he couldn't provide a particular thing for her. now if I am the man for me not to be able to provide anything requested by my wife, I must have a reason and I most tell her about the reason at that very point she requested it. The reason most being that I am not financially ready to provide it for her at that time because of my financial plans and targets or because I have seen or felt the future consequences the thing will result to if I provide it for her. to me I think these are the two major reasons why will not provide anything for my wife. Now if she starts using it against me on bed, it's either it Will result that I will stop demanding sex from her and starts cheating on her or that I will equally stop most of the privilege she enjoys from me in the family and also stop the special things I usually do for her like shopping, outings for fun etc. And you know what? if all these things continue, without anyone succumbing it will eventually lead to our break up simple so that she can go a marry that man she can easily control with her bottom power.

What is the essence of the marriage when a wife consistently deny the husband of his right. It's not only painful but it's humiliating. The truth is in every 9 out of the 10 cases it a sign that the woman doesn't love you. That is a solid test. There is no any excuse in the world for your wife to refuse you sex in marriage in your chemistry is right from onset. You must have been seeing the signs before you got married you just must have ignored it. If she didn't improve, it shows she is not interested in the marriage. Do not patch up the marriage or you will regret it in the long run. Look for someone whose chemistry matches yours. That is the whole purpose of courtship before marriage. Good luck my guy.

ArslordBaba:
This has separated many couples around the world.... Should any excuse given when it is time to have fun with one's wife... tiredness, headache, etc.

You have to give her a break. But if she is always giving one excuse or the other on a regular basis, e no go funny.