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Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ELGREF(m): 7:25pm On Feb 08, 2015
God give me money this year, so I can maried nd get endless sex , unconditional sex, I love sex nd I dont want to be commit adultery around,
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by bridestiny: 7:28pm On Feb 08, 2015
@OP.

Patience and understanding are built in marriages especially in this delicate issue of Sex. A man will typically expect his wife to just yield to him whenever he is in the mood or demands to have it with his wife.

That is how a typical man is, the truth is that you will not always get a yes. You cannot be hungry at the same time.

Moreover, and more importantly, women react from the way they are treated. They keep a "file" in their head from how a man treats them from morning, beginning of the week, the last conversation the man had with his friends and family, etc. This is done in her subconscious. So long before she tells you "NO" on the bed are mind is clouded.

If the above is carefully studied by the man, and fatigue (from her) is not an excuse, then a woman will easily give in to her husband even if she is not in the mood. She will do this to satisfy him.

In all, you have to find time and talk about it constructively, because some women may use this as a punishing too without knowing the implications.

I end my submission by saying that the first 3-5years or marriage are your most trying ones.... these are the fusing years of the man and his wife.

Study it, learn from it and enjoy your marriage and live happily ever after.

My one cent!

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Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by popcykaylah(m): 7:32pm On Feb 08, 2015
when things like that happen ...and she now turns it into given you time table.. Bros speak to her and if she no gree change ..abeg pack her go one side ...fine girls full road wey ready to do her job for her if she can't ..
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ernieboy(m): 7:37pm On Feb 08, 2015
Sarimah:
or else wat? angry
you'll rape her?

u have to know her reasons first dear
Rape ke? Can a man be accused of stealing what belongs to him?
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by InvertedHammer: 7:40pm On Feb 08, 2015
ArslordBaba:
This has separated many couples around the world.... Should any excuse given when it is time to have fun with one's wife... tiredness, headache, etc.
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Call your standby generator.

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Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Adamo84(m): 7:51pm On Feb 08, 2015
LewisO:
The best thing u should do don't ask her for it for about 2weeks, if she never change, please brother kick her out of ya house, Nonsense! angry

After she don over-do before marriage with another men, she come dey form egg for your bed abi?

That kind woman needs slap from the gods. Rubbish. angry
BROS! Somebodys wife Please be moderate! Haba
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by zeezahbee(f): 7:58pm On Feb 08, 2015
Sunymoore:
Don't ever approach her... Get want you want outside
Haba

Whatever insufficient sex means to any particular person—even if that can be considered a betrayal of his or her partner’s obligation—the fact remains that adultery just makes it worse. (“Two wrongs” and all.) In addition, adultery brings a third person into what is a problem between two, which may only aggravate whatever problem led to the breakdown in sex in the relationship in the first place.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by LewisO: 8:00pm On Feb 08, 2015
Adamo84:

BROS! Somebodys wife Please be moderate! Haba

Try understand and be logical about my post! undecided

Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ndcide(m): 8:04pm On Feb 08, 2015
Force her
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by condralbede(m): 8:09pm On Feb 08, 2015
So you guys hv not been dating before,abi nah your Mumcy find the baby for you
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Catalyst4real: 8:15pm On Feb 08, 2015
I Miss Those Days in the Bible When keeping Concubines wasn't a Sin grin grin

There are Many Reasons why a Woman would want to Withhold Sex on a Honey moon. Honey Moon only Comes once in a Marriage sad

The Best thing to do is to act like the Sex isnt a Big deal to you. Smile and Never Ask for it.
If she Ever Ask for It... Give it to her, Big time. Until she Realise what she has been Missing all Along. cheesy
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Adamo84(m): 8:15pm On Feb 08, 2015
Purity01:
Dont mind him. Saying d word 'just beat her' like its supposed to be a normal tinx. Its only a mad man dat wld raise his hands against a lady he married. [color=#990000][/color]
But a man can beat the woman she didn't marry abi
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 08, 2015
hehehe grin

Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by cozy7(m): 8:28pm On Feb 08, 2015
My new wife After all d money way I don pay.....them no born am well.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Sunymoore(m): 8:33pm On Feb 08, 2015
zeezahbee:
Haba

Whatever insufficient sex means to any particular person—even if that can be considered a betrayal of his or her partner’s obligation—the fact remains that adultery just makes it worse. (“Two wrongs” and all.) In addition, adultery brings a third person into what is a problem between two, which may only aggravate whatever problem led to the breakdown in sex in the relationship in the first place.
You're are intelligent! But unfortunately many Nigerian women are worthless piece of shitts. They don't see things in intellectual manner. Taking the case of the OP for example, why would any sane woman deny her husband sex without giving a tangible/acceptable reason, this is high of cluelessness, And this same woman will gladly repeat such shittt over and over, thinking she's 'god' or in charge! But any real man will not tolerate such bullshit. I don't believe in rape and unnecessary divorce, so if I were the man I'll never approach her for sex for the rest of our stay, I'll also make sure I fulfil all other responsibilities of a married man... While I will get my self a clean mistress that will satisfy and bear children for me..

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Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ehis05(m): 8:58pm On Feb 08, 2015
immortalvoices:
Interesting

She has every right to give excuse if those excuse are real truth

On ur own she is your wife that is where u coms in always show cares, talk to her, play with her and make her smile...ask her and act the solution

Don't always be for sex... always show interest to her plight and with time she will be use to having sex with you each time

Remember marriages crash when young couples don't understand and show selfishness when it coms to sexual feeling..

Best of luck bro!


Modified...time. 07:32pm

So a single guy like me can dish out advice like an experience counsellorgrin

Well I simply avail my self to God's wisdom

And trust me I am Festus de commentus but I ain't happy about itgringringrin


U 4 just chill small na weda person go hail u put 4 d advise...na u write na u still hail ursef put again...anyhw sha..if u dnt blow ur own trumpet who will??
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Sunkyphil(m): 9:00pm On Feb 08, 2015
na she go tire wen i start my own grin
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Feb 08, 2015
Movesz:
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I'm kindda shy I don't like talking too much..


How about you come around nd I show you


Sounds great ryt?
no thanks.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by phillipe: 9:08pm On Feb 08, 2015
freecocoa:
Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity.

@freecocoa;
I completely agree with you that no sane man should raise his hand and beat a lady let alone his own wife.

Don't forget that marriage is supposed to be a "forever union" . A woman who refuses to have sex with the husband for six months only points to one fact. She is unforgiving and should quit the union or forgive the husband
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by paix(m): 9:26pm On Feb 08, 2015
She's only exercising her right. It's women liberation in action.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by immortalvoices(m): 9:34pm On Feb 08, 2015
ehis05:



U 4 just chill small na weda person go hail u put 4 d advise...na u write na u still hail ursef put again...anyhw sha..if u dnt blow ur own trumpet who will??

Nor mind me e don tey wey I be first to comment


Anyway I am sorry it's small me.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Feb 08, 2015
[quota auto=Diesel1 post=30546424]She don craze before.... I go kuku tear her pant for am[/quotes] what of if na iron pant she wear?
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by roselynbas(f): 9:47pm On Feb 08, 2015
she may be afraid or may have had a bad experience. simple solution is try the talking approach if not simply seduce her. puhleeeaaase, don't tell me you don't know how.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Kassidy90(m): 9:54pm On Feb 08, 2015
Best solution ....Marry second wife both of them can not be tired at d same time... grin grin grin grin grin
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by roselynbas(f): 9:55pm On Feb 08, 2015
Sunymoore:

You're are intelligent! But unfortunately many Nigerian women are worthless piece of shitts. They don't see things in intellectual manner. Taking the case of the OP for example, why would any sane woman deny her husband sex without giving a tangible/acceptable reason, this is high of cluelessness, And this same woman will gladly repeat such shittt over and over, thinking she's 'god' or in charge! But any real man will not tolerate such bullshit. I don't believe in rape and unnecessary divorce, so if I were the man I'll never approach her for sex for the rest of our stay, I'll also make sure I fulfil all other responsibilities of a married man... While I will get my self a clean mistress that will satisfy and bear children for me..

yes, spoken like the true chauvinist you are. your use of words pointed you in that direction. Always know say na something dey cause something. she is wrong we know but the best approach is to get to the root cause and problem is almost solved, shikenah! Except the topic na sham and the OP dey find cheap popularity. My opinion though, no offence.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by coolsegun2002: 10:32pm On Feb 08, 2015
All dis Women sef...making sexx look like they are doing guys a favour since 200 BC...like the activity is not a two way enjoyment parole..
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by streetzdreamz(m): 10:33pm On Feb 08, 2015
That's the headache for d guys in such relationships,if unfortunately I end up in dat overhyped institution with a lady like dat,wud simply ignore her for as long as t takes,ladies and their silly mentality about sex,as if they are doing we guys a huge favour,she shud kip her metallic ass oiled and kept for future use with time she'l start yelling she wanna conceive,wud still be on me ghostmode,not when anoda woman outdia is heavily preg,ladies are d source and d solutions to their own problems!
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Sunymoore(m): 10:45pm On Feb 08, 2015
roselynbas:


yes, spoken like the true chauvinist you are. your use of words pointed you in that direction. Always know say na something dey cause something. she is wrong we know but the best approach is to get to the root cause and problem is almost solved, shikenah! Except the topic na sham and the OP dey find cheap popularity. My opinion though, no offence.
Hmm.. When some women feel like they are 'gods' this is best approach to deal with them... So I should be on my knees and beg her to tell what happened? Dem never born her!
Offence? Hell no.. I could have long gone on the street if I pick Offence easily.
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Feb 08, 2015
Sarimah:
or else wat? angry
you'll rape her?

u have to know her reasons first dear
HOW CAN YOU RAPE YOUR WIFE?SMH.DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT IS RAPE?
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Holiday0299(m): 11:24pm On Feb 08, 2015
I'll let her understand that I'm after kids & not her body by artificially inseminating d semen into her. let her b d 1 2 beg 4 sex
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by iykedare(m): 11:27pm On Feb 08, 2015
Our young men have gone crazy.

Never beat your woman.
Find out the reason she doesn't wanna fork you. You could be weak in bed,u know.

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