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Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ELGREF(m): 7:25pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
God give me money this year, so I can maried nd get endless sex , unconditional sex, I love sex nd I dont want to be commit adultery around, |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by bridestiny: 7:28pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
@OP. Patience and understanding are built in marriages especially in this delicate issue of Sex. A man will typically expect his wife to just yield to him whenever he is in the mood or demands to have it with his wife. That is how a typical man is, the truth is that you will not always get a yes. You cannot be hungry at the same time. Moreover, and more importantly, women react from the way they are treated. They keep a "file" in their head from how a man treats them from morning, beginning of the week, the last conversation the man had with his friends and family, etc. This is done in her subconscious. So long before she tells you "NO" on the bed are mind is clouded. If the above is carefully studied by the man, and fatigue (from her) is not an excuse, then a woman will easily give in to her husband even if she is not in the mood. She will do this to satisfy him. In all, you have to find time and talk about it constructively, because some women may use this as a punishing too without knowing the implications. I end my submission by saying that the first 3-5years or marriage are your most trying ones.... these are the fusing years of the man and his wife. Study it, learn from it and enjoy your marriage and live happily ever after. My one cent! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by popcykaylah(m): 7:32pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
when things like that happen ...and she now turns it into given you time table.. Bros speak to her and if she no gree change ..abeg pack her go one side ...fine girls full road wey ready to do her job for her if she can't .. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ernieboy(m): 7:37pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Sarimah:Rape ke? Can a man be accused of stealing what belongs to him? |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by InvertedHammer: 7:40pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
ArslordBaba:/ Call your standby generator. \ 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Adamo84(m): 7:51pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
LewisO:BROS! Somebodys wife Please be moderate! Haba |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by zeezahbee(f): 7:58pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Sunymoore:Haba Whatever insufficient sex means to any particular person—even if that can be considered a betrayal of his or her partner’s obligation—the fact remains that adultery just makes it worse. (“Two wrongs” and all.) In addition, adultery brings a third person into what is a problem between two, which may only aggravate whatever problem led to the breakdown in sex in the relationship in the first place. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by LewisO: 8:00pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ndcide(m): 8:04pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Force her |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by condralbede(m): 8:09pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
So you guys hv not been dating before,abi nah your Mumcy find the baby for you |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Catalyst4real: 8:15pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
I Miss Those Days in the Bible When keeping Concubines wasn't a Sin There are Many Reasons why a Woman would want to Withhold Sex on a Honey moon. Honey Moon only Comes once in a Marriage The Best thing to do is to act like the Sex isnt a Big deal to you. Smile and Never Ask for it. If she Ever Ask for It... Give it to her, Big time. Until she Realise what she has been Missing all Along. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Adamo84(m): 8:15pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Purity01:But a man can beat the woman she didn't marry abi |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
hehehe
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Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by cozy7(m): 8:28pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
My new wife After all d money way I don pay.....them no born am well. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Sunymoore(m): 8:33pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
zeezahbee:You're are intelligent! But unfortunately many Nigerian women are worthless piece of shitts. They don't see things in intellectual manner. Taking the case of the OP for example, why would any sane woman deny her husband sex without giving a tangible/acceptable reason, this is high of cluelessness, And this same woman will gladly repeat such shittt over and over, thinking she's 'god' or in charge! But any real man will not tolerate such bullshit. I don't believe in rape and unnecessary divorce, so if I were the man I'll never approach her for sex for the rest of our stay, I'll also make sure I fulfil all other responsibilities of a married man... While I will get my self a clean mistress that will satisfy and bear children for me.. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by ehis05(m): 8:58pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
immortalvoices: U 4 just chill small na weda person go hail u put 4 d advise...na u write na u still hail ursef put again...anyhw sha..if u dnt blow ur own trumpet who will?? |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Sunkyphil(m): 9:00pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
na she go tire wen i start my own |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Movesz:no thanks. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by phillipe: 9:08pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
freecocoa: Just because he beat her you say, it's really a pity. @freecocoa; I completely agree with you that no sane man should raise his hand and beat a lady let alone his own wife. Don't forget that marriage is supposed to be a "forever union" . A woman who refuses to have sex with the husband for six months only points to one fact. She is unforgiving and should quit the union or forgive the husband |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by paix(m): 9:26pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
She's only exercising her right. It's women liberation in action. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by immortalvoices(m): 9:34pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
ehis05: Nor mind me e don tey wey I be first to comment Anyway I am sorry it's small me. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
[quota auto=Diesel1 post=30546424]She don craze before.... I go kuku tear her pant for am[/quotes] what of if na iron pant she wear? |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by roselynbas(f): 9:47pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
she may be afraid or may have had a bad experience. simple solution is try the talking approach if not simply seduce her. puhleeeaaase, don't tell me you don't know how. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Kassidy90(m): 9:54pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Best solution ....Marry second wife both of them can not be tired at d same time... |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by roselynbas(f): 9:55pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Sunymoore: yes, spoken like the true chauvinist you are. your use of words pointed you in that direction. Always know say na something dey cause something. she is wrong we know but the best approach is to get to the root cause and problem is almost solved, shikenah! Except the topic na sham and the OP dey find cheap popularity. My opinion though, no offence. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by coolsegun2002: 10:32pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
All dis Women sef...making sexx look like they are doing guys a favour since 200 BC...like the activity is not a two way enjoyment parole.. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by streetzdreamz(m): 10:33pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
That's the headache for d guys in such relationships,if unfortunately I end up in dat overhyped institution with a lady like dat,wud simply ignore her for as long as t takes,ladies and their silly mentality about sex,as if they are doing we guys a huge favour,she shud kip her metallic ass oiled and kept for future use with time she'l start yelling she wanna conceive,wud still be on me ghostmode,not when anoda woman outdia is heavily preg,ladies are d source and d solutions to their own problems! |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Sunymoore(m): 10:45pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
roselynbas:Hmm.. When some women feel like they are 'gods' this is best approach to deal with them... So I should be on my knees and beg her to tell what happened? Dem never born her! Offence? Hell no.. I could have long gone on the street if I pick Offence easily. |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Sarimah:HOW CAN YOU RAPE YOUR WIFE?SMH.DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT IS RAPE? |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by Holiday0299(m): 11:24pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
I'll let her understand that I'm after kids & not her body by artificially inseminating d semen into her. let her b d 1 2 beg 4 sex |
Re: What Is The Best Thing To Do When Your Newly Married Wife Says No To You On Bed? by iykedare(m): 11:27pm On Feb 08, 2015 |
Our young men have gone crazy. Never beat your woman. Find out the reason she doesn't wanna fork you. You could be weak in bed,u know. |
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