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A lady has been in relationship with a guy for over 8years and they have been apart for 6years i.e they haven't seen each other for the past 6years cos d guy stays in Abuja while she in lagos .so she decided to end d relationship as d distance wasnt helping matters.she is single now but Av suitors around her ,one is her ex .bf neighbour who attends same school with her i.e uniilag while the other is her ex boyfriend' s cousin who also works in Lagos n she thinks she likes both of them very well and they both asked her out...so she is so confused now n worried ...

WHO SHOULD SHE GO OUT WITH

After dumping him, she wants to go out with his cousin and his friend. Did he offend you? Why do you want to hurt him the more?

Brugo:
After dumping him, she wants to go our with his cousin and his friend. Did he offend you? Why do you want to hurt him the more?

Actually she didn't cos d guy undestands too dat d relationship hasn't been too good in d past year so it was like they both knew Wat was going to happen at d end.

Holudamsel:
Actually she didn't cos d guy undestands too dat d relationship hasn't been too good in d past year so it was like they both knew Wat was going to happen at d end.

That cannot be entirely true. It is obvious that the lady had been planning to end it long before she told the dude. Now she is comfortably falling in love with people close to him.

It's not nice to find out that your ex is now dating your cousin or friend. It's not cool at all.

Brugo:
That cannot be entirely true. It is obvious that the lady had been planning to end it long before she told the dude. Now she is comfortably falling in love with people close to him.

It's not nice to find out that your ex is now dating your cousin or friend. It's not cool at all.

Guess it okay if she dates the friend than d cousin

Holudamsel:
A lady has been in relationship with a guy for over 8years and they have been apart for 6years i.e they haven't seen each other for the past 6years cos d guy stays in Abuja while she in lagos .so she decided to end d relationship as d distance wasnt helping matters.she is single now but Av suitors around her ,one is her ex .bf neighbour who attends same school with her i.e uniilag while the other is her ex boyfriend' s cousin who also works in Lagos n she thinks she likes both of them very well and they both asked her out...so she is so confused now n worried ...

WHO SHOULD SHE GO OUT WITH

nd that lady is u..its wrong though.m ur ex cousin or friend..its totally unacceptable.. if it were to b d other way round can u accept dat. Moreover those guyz v hidden motive ever since u v bin dating ur ex. I sent a pm for more advice

Holudamsel:
Guess it okay if she dates the friend than d cousin

None is okay.

Stop holding one of them hostage... Choose one and let the other go
The effects of greed and attention seeking can cause a avalanche of dispair!

Enegod:
Stop holding one of them hostage... Choose one and let the other go
The effects of greed and attention seeking can cause a avalanche of dispair!

Hmmmn