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He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by tushgirl(f): 6:28am On Jun 15, 2016
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



Mods help a sister out

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by ForeverYoung197(f): 6:36am On Jun 15, 2016
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Oma307: 6:37am On Jun 15, 2016
the choice is yours, you know the best thing to do since you know what marriage entails. goodluck to u

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 6:41am On Jun 15, 2016
The Special Advisers Association of Nairaland are landing! Let's seee what d self-acclaimed relationsh.!ts experts have for us on this matter op just pulled out of her glorious arse... Watching...

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by eph12(m): 6:41am On Jun 15, 2016
You accused him of having some other relationships? And you seem to be sure of this. If you are sure that he is cheating on you what's stopping you from ending the relationship?
Remember that you can't really change an adult unless that person chooses to change him/herself.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by makydebbie(f): 6:42am On Jun 15, 2016
hmmm...lemme call the elders..slyisaac..airsultan..muvah..come oo

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by BrideOfDracula(f): 6:42am On Jun 15, 2016
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by megrimor(m): 6:42am On Jun 15, 2016
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by tushgirl(f): 6:42am On Jun 15, 2016
Thanks so much for the comments@all
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Nobody: 6:45am On Jun 15, 2016
tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.

Rocktation,lalasticlala help a sister out

Just move on with your life. I hate men who can't keep to one.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by philybuck(m): 6:47am On Jun 15, 2016
Love forgives, since he got your pin from some1 it looks like you were just a bet and he had his way with you when you met up with him, don't flog the issue, just forget about him and move on, if you are sincere with yourself you would noticed a behavioral change after the time you guys met in person, if you really need to forget him delete his contacts and all his social media contact and avoid the temptation of checking him out on social media. you should be better over time. Enjoy

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 6:49am On Jun 15, 2016
BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.
Send the shirt to my mail box for confirmation , Right now!

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by tushgirl(f): 6:50am On Jun 15, 2016
philybuck:
Love forgives, since he got your pin from some1 it looks like you were just a bet and he had his way with you when you met up with him, don't flog the issue, just forget about him and move on, if you are sincere with yourself you would noticed a behavioral change after the time you guys met in person, if you really need to forget him delete his contacts and all his social media contact and avoid the temptation of checking him out on social media. you should be better over time. Enjoy
I haven't slept with him

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by tushgirl(f): 6:51am On Jun 15, 2016
BrideOfDracula:
He could still be angry, so fall back & give him a bit of space. The ball is now on his court. You sound like the impulsive type that reacts based on feelings rather than facts. Always remember that feelings (your suspicions) aren't facts. So don't be surprised when people take offence at being accused of things that you've made up in your mind & decided they were true, when in fact they're a figment of your tortured mind. You're in the wrong here, so take a nibble at humble pie & wait it out.

Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt as proof.
Thanks so much

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by BrideOfDracula(f): 6:51am On Jun 15, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Send the shirt to my mail box for confirmation , Right now!

Hehehe. I'm wearing it as a reminder for when I'm in a finger pointing mood, like the OP tongue

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 6:55am On Jun 15, 2016
BrideOfDracula:


Hehehe. I'm wearing it as a reminder for when I'm in a finger pointing mood, like the OP tongue
Nice nice Nice, so how do we know you're not lying through your teeth, making this claim up for your claims to carry weight?
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Nobody: 6:55am On Jun 15, 2016
The question is...ghen ghen
Has he eaten your kpekus? if yes my dear go and accept dt other guys hand in marriage

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by BrideOfDracula(f): 6:56am On Jun 15, 2016
tushgirl:
Thanks so much

*nods* smiley
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by tushgirl(f): 6:57am On Jun 15, 2016
megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)
That why I said he doesn't have much,he has never send me money or cards.
I just have this feelings for him

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by David25(m): 7:01am On Jun 15, 2016
tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.


You haven't even got to know this guy and. you claim you are so much in love with him? how can you be truly in love?
Anyways, since you have apologized to him, give him a little less attention and some time, I'm sure you guys will figure out where you stand.
Doing those things you said makes you appear as an insecure girl, if I were the guy, I'd try to stay away from you too, but hey I don't think that's the end of your relationship yet, if he loves you, he'll be back.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by virginboy1(m): 7:05am On Jun 15, 2016
tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.

Rocktation,lalasticlala help a sister out


He called you and explained to you on the reasons he can't meet up and yet you pegged him a womaniser simply because you think all men are womanizers and you don't have a little atom of trust for him. undecided
More reason you shouldn't be judging issues blindly, what if he truly went for an urgent appointment?. sad

You mentioned that other guys do ask you out for marriage and so? Shey na new thing ni

My dear please reorient your perception about men and don't conclude on a matter like this without going through it tentatively.

I wish you well

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by BrideOfDracula(f): 7:09am On Jun 15, 2016
bitchcrafts:
Nice nice Nice, so how do we know you're not lying through your teeth, making this claim up for your claims to carry weight?

LOL, you just have to take my word for it. In all honesty though, I can relate so much to the OP. I'm not aware (or don't care) when I'm doing it because the suspicions are just too strong & feel so real to me. Only afterwards (when I'm thinking more logically) do I realize what a mess I've made by going on a rampage without any tangible facts of the things I've accused people of. It's not easy though to not wanna lash out when you THINK or FEEL you're being made a fool of. I know it sounds insane, but it is what it is.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by Estharfabian(f): 7:10am On Jun 15, 2016
megrimor:
Someone gave him your bbm pin, then you started feeling something for him in April, someone you haven't seen yet. Why not tell us that "You started feeling something for him when he started patronizing your bank accounts and your phones with recharge cards". E-love comes from bank alerts and recharge cards. That's what you fell in love with. Next post please(NOTE: make it a sensible one)
Hey.....Be Nice..undecided




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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 7:14am On Jun 15, 2016
BrideOfDracula:


LOL, you just have to take my word for it. In all honesty though, I can relate so much to the OP. I'm not aware (or don't care) when I'm doing it because the suspicions are just too strong & feel so real to me. Only afterwards (when I'm thinking more logically) do I realize what a mess I've made by going on a rampage without any tangible facts of the things I've accused people of. It's not easy though to not wanna lash out when you THINK or FEEL you're being made a fool of. I know it sounds insane, but it is what it is.
It doesn't sound insane to me . It is your thing, #ladies. Happens when you know you're so loved up and you FEAR he's gonna take that (U) for granted . I find it stvpid, not insane.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by BrideOfDracula(f): 7:17am On Jun 15, 2016
bitchcrafts:
It doesn't sound insane to me . It is your thing, #ladies. Happens when you know you're so loved up and you FEAR he's gonna take that (U) for granted . I find it stvpid, not insane.

Hahaha. Stùpid is the word then. Yeah, it only happens when there are deep feelings involved & the illogical side of the brain takes over tongue

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by virginboy1(m): 7:18am On Jun 15, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
Sister, we all know that a lot of men are Playa. Not all of them but most of them are toasting five different women at the same time. Your womanly instinct mostly is correct. So follow it. When a guy declined to call you back or text you back simply because he still have a handful of women on his list. Move on and find a man who deserved u the most.
.
, we all know that a lot of women are coded Runs girls/Oloshos. Not all of them but most of them are bleeping five different man at different intervals.. Our manly instinct is mostly correct. But we just dont follow it,we evaluate it tentatively.

No offense

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by virginboy1(m): 7:25am On Jun 15, 2016
Well if you truly really willingly loves him, go to his house, apologise like a good woman, if he still frowns face,hug him,if he still frowns face ,kiss him,but he if remans stubborn and still remains adamant in the frowning of face.Go down and

Give him a head, I swear him brain go wake up with laughter. grin



"Runs out of thread"

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 7:28am On Jun 15, 2016
BrideOfDracula:


Hahaha. Stùpid is the word then. Yeah, it only happens when there are deep feelings involved & the illogical side of the brain takes over tongue
You see, most of us niggas won't settle down wt ya when we know you got too bad bad security issues to settle. Trying to pacify (change) u guys is out of the question cos that's when you lots flare up and scream, "Fukin let me be! I'm just being me" and Were like well, "HeAl yourself first for us to continue" without having to say those words cos we ain't story tellers. You just see us Ignoring u 'viciously' then if no sign of improvement Gone like yesterday. Who's now at fault?

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by TheFLIRT(m): 7:32am On Jun 15, 2016
You never told us if he's been bleeping you or not. It's your funeral, deal with it.
Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by BrideOfDracula(f): 7:34am On Jun 15, 2016
bitchcrafts:
You see, most of us niggas won't settle down wt ya when we know you got too bad bad security issues to settle. Trying to pacify (change) u guys is out of the question cos that's when you lots flare up and scream, "Fukin let me be! I'm just being me" and Were like well, "HeAl yourself first for us to continue" without having to say those words cos we ain't story tellers. You just see us Ignoring u 'viciously' then if no sign of improvement Gone like yesterday. Who's now at fault?

Sigh. I know exactly what you mean. Usually there's a painful past experience, but like you said, HEAL. Easier said than done though, but hey, we live to learn.

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Re: He Refused To Call Or Ping Me: Nairalanders I Need Your Word Of Advice Pls by bitchcrafts: 7:38am On Jun 15, 2016
BrideOfDracula:


Sigh. I know exactly what you mean. Usually there's a painful past experience, but like you said, HEAL. Easier said than done though, but hey, we live to learn.
I will gleefully jump at a keeper that's healed. For Reals!, I need that rare female species to complete me!! Most other real men too!!!

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