slimyem:
You seem to be very comfortable and unremorseful about your away matches .Just don't take diseases home to the poor woman.

There are numerous articles on www on how you can deal with sexual incompatibility,things you can explore to make it better.If you are really serious about fixing that aspect of your marriage,you'll find them and help your marriage.

all the best!

Thank you

I understand perfectly what the OP is saying. Inasmuchas i don't subscribe to your away matches, i think your problem is real and relatable.

I've experienced your frustrations with an ex. I used to think it could be a size problem, but after much research, i realised it couldn't have been a size problem, as a woman's vagina expands to accommodate all sizes (it may take time for some very large sizes, but eventually it accommodates without stress). Besides, even at the point of being extremely wet, she still complained of pain.

I feel its a medical condition, not sure though.

Yours is even a classic, since you already have a child together

Femsyn:
I understand perfectly what the OP is saying. Inasmuchas i don't subscribe to your away matches, i think your problem is real and relatable.

I've experienced your frustrations with an ex. I used to think it could be a size problem, but after much research, i realised i couldn't have been a size problem, as a woman's vagina expands to accommodate all sizes (it may take time for some very large size, but eventually it accommodates without stress). Besides, even at the point of being extremely wet, she still complained of pain.

I feel its a medical condition, not sure though.

Yours is even a classic, since you already have a child together

Good.

Make it more interesting to her...
Try other stunts....like eating the snail...let her lick the lolipop...and give from several angle...u get it.
Also watch porns together

Grendel:
i need matured advice pls,

I've being with my partner for five years, i love her and i've invested lots of time, trust and energy on her.

she is a good girl, well manna but we are not sexually compatible.
i don't know what to do about it because we have a two years kid and i can't endure what i cannot change
I'm still young beside i don't want to cheat on her.


please what should i do?

READ THIS How to love the spouse you don't really like

No problem!
Just get "onoda" wan!
SimpO!!!!!

Efry penso get shapuna abi?

pains during sex may mean she is not wet enough before you advance. romance her more. it may also be an infection, so ,
see a doc.

marriage is for better for worse. this may be a "worse" in your marriage.

Grendel:



it driving me crazy because we don't stays together and whenever i travel over there to claim my right .... na another thing go happen

Na small thing, join cheaters club or wire your house with hidden cameras, the shall prevail.

Grendel:


Concerning the away match issue, like I said earlier she is not here in lagos with me, i am a busy person but I do find time to check on her every months. She actually denied me of sex one day that I needed it most that was why I learned to play away game by force

she denied you sex once and that's enough to take you outside?

Seems you already made up your mind to be incompatible with her

Grendel:



it driving me crazy because we don't stays together and whenever i travel over there to claim my right .... na another thing go happen

You're probably a crude lover too if you go in charging with that mindset.

No wonder she refused you. You weren't going to make love to her. You were going to 'claim your right'

How did you say it? Lemme guess

"Hey woman come and submit that pucci here. I'm back to claim my right"

Bush man

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Define "sexually compatible" please.

*suspicious* Abi u wan use that big grammar confuse us just to justify ur actions (....that is if u end up sleepin with another).

Which right? I see you are a joker...

Grendel:



it driving me crazy because we don't stays together and whenever i travel over there to claim my right .... na another thing go happen

Egusi is an ingredient.. The way ur mom prepares it is different from the way my mom will and the taste will never be the same, women are the same but different on the sheet, I have dealt with sexual incompatibility and I can tell you that this battle requires patience and understanding.
My lady was the same, it got so bad that my body turned her to a sister that even when unclad in front of me nothing moves.
I will tell you here that the way out is for her to try and help the situation, first thing is for her to go for STD test.
My lady had the candida disease that makes her feel so much pain and she lived with it for years without knowing since the disease can stay in your body for long undetected.
After treatment and counselling, she became what I taught could only be a fantasy..

carefreewannabe:


Thanks. I wish you the same.

If what I said does not help, come back and don't give up too easily. She is your family

She needs to relax and you can help her, I am sure.

Don'T complain if she starts to like it more than you do.

And tell him not to go outside again whether your tips worked for him or not.

Grendel:
i need matured advice pls,

I've being with my part, ner for five years, i love her and i've invested lots of time, trust and energy on her.

she is a good girl, well manna but we are not sexually compatible.
i don't know what to do about it because we have a two years kid and i can't endure what i cannot change
I'm still young beside i don't want to cheat on her.


please what should i do?

You are not alone bruv. Mine is the best woman character wise, industrious, God-fearing, successful in her business and humble and obedient but we are not sexually compatible. I have to be high to have sex with her. She is beautiful but I don't kno, mehn. We are married.

Hmmm sexually not compatible With Your Partner and u have a 2yrs old? Maybe I don't get you.

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

ok, maybe you just ask her to lie down and take it for all pleasure! You gotta preheat the Oven before you stick the chicken.

Grendel:
i need matured advice pls,

I've being with my partner for five years, i love her and i've invested lots of time, trust and energy on her.

she is a good girl, well manna but we are not sexually compatible.
i don't know what to do about it because we have a two years kid and i can't endure what i cannot change
I'm still young beside i don't want to cheat on her.


please what should i do?

ah ah bros, ur case is a very sensitive one o, u guys are nt sexually connected n dt alone is a mood killer being that u two want different things out of sex; u may want it fast yl she may need d reverse. I advised u guys communicate more, Identify the things she revel in the act of lovemaking cos its nt abt u, ur partner should also derive a measurable satisfaction from it as well.

Nna eh.. Tosyne2much help na

carefreewannabe:


If there is no medical condition attached to her pain, then the reason is possibly that she wasn't hot enough and therefore not wet enough before you started. Make sure that she is relaxed before you penetrate her and take your time for the pre-intimacy. You can create a nice atmosphere when your child is sleeping by dimming the light or lighting some candles, have a nice romantic dinner before, then kiss her and stroke her body, be gentle and show her that her comfort is important to you.

I am quite sure that your problem can be solved.

And he'll be doing this everyday/every time he wants to have sex?

Na wa o. Is there no other way for faster sex occasionally? What happens to lubricants? Won't they work?

.

Dyt:



U are sick right in the head
Anuofia

Ma'am you won't understand. I am in a similar situation. I bleep some other babes and the sex is satisfying.

Sex is an art, if u not gifted with the skills u try to acquire them.
Sex is a fusion of both mental and practical(bodily) advances.

Let me enlighten you on it visit my site

www.browngarri.com

And learn some few steps or u can mail me

browngarrimail@gmail.com for free tips

Anything is possible, you just need to believe

Ayaf tired 4 ris kain topics.........I need change of fresh air*yawns*

donfineboi:
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this one z bloody.

kilokeys:
i laff at sexual incompatibility

lemme guess

u have a square peg, she has a round hole

or

u have a round peg, she has a square hole

or

ur peg is located on ur forehead, her hole is hidden in her armpit




cos why else would there be incompatibility?

Dis dude is so funny!............me sef tire ooo which one be say una no dey sexually compactible again?............abi d tin no d enta ni?

Generals02:


And he'll be doing this everyday/every time he wants to have sex?

Na wa o. Is there no other way for faster sex occasionally? What happens to lubricants? Won't they work?

And you think lubricants are the way to help this woman relax and enjoy s*ex more?

Hope u will also b confortable if she plays away match wen she nids it most and u re not around?

Concerning the away match issue, like I said earlier she is not here in lagos with me, i am a busy person but I do find time to check on her every months. She actually denied me of sex one day that I needed it most that was why I learned to play away game by force [/quote]

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

.
Look for the book DEALING WITH THE SPIRIT OF POLYGAMY by Pst Audu. Send someone to Mountain Of Fire, Prayer City, Ibafo, b4 Lagos. You will know what to do after reading it. Wishing u the best.