Thank you all for the great advices .... I am grateful.

She apologized this morning for the act of been selfished and not willing to share the only thing that brings unity into a relationship.

I've forgiven and forget about the past. Now I will apply all the positive advices I've gotten here to strength our love.


Thank you all once again.

Respect to all Nairalanders

carefreewannabe:


I am trying.

Thank you.

You are dear,you are very pleasant these days-nice!

emusmith:


Nice points- You're intelligent.

I don't know what to say

There are also good reasons to get married, to each their own.

edwife:


You are dear,you are very pleasant these days-nice!

Thanks sweet.

carefreewannabe:


Thanks sweet.

Grendel:
Thank you all for the great advices .... I am grateful.

She apologized this morning for the act of been selfished and not willing to share the only thing that brings unity into a relationship.

I've forgiven and forget about the past. Now I will apply all the positive advices I've gotten here to strength our love.


Thank you all once again.

Respect to all Nairalanders

This is very good news.

Now take this chance to make it work, surprise her and blow her mind.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIpQ4AZSAf8

carefreewannabe:


There are also good reasons to get married, to each their own.

I've a thousand reasons to get married dearie + 1

I choose to see the other side of your list......

emusmith:


I've a thousand reasons to get married dearie + 1

I choose to see the other side of your list......

Ok, share 5 of those reasons with me.

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

I tink say dis padi get talk o...
U jst wasted my time n MB

carefreewannabe:


Ok, share 5 of those reasons with me.

1. I have so much love to share...that kind of love tells me there is a girl somewhere right for me...

2. I am bored...so bored.

3. God supports it.

4. For procreation

5. I want to be MORE responsible to one person outside my family.

emusmith:


1. I have so much love to share...that kind of love tells me there is a girl somewhere right for me...

It can be done without marriage.

2. I am bored...so bored.

Marriage can be even more boring, it's not a remedy against boredom.

3. God supports it.

I respect people's beliefs.

4. For procreation

It can be done without marriage.

5. I want to be MORE responsible to one person outside my family.

It can be done without marriage.

carefreewannabe:


It can be done without marriage.



Marriage can be even more boring, it's not a remedy against boredom.



I respect people's beliefs.



It can be done without marriage.



It can be done without marriage.

They are over a thousand, remember?
Smartass

Grendel:
i need matured advice pls,

I've being with my partner for five years, i love her and i've invested lots of time, trust and energy on her.

she is a good girl, well manna but we are not sexually compatible.
i don't know what to do about it because we have a two years kid and i can't endure what i cannot change
I'm still young beside i don't want to cheat on her.


please what should i do?

so after 5 years of relationship n' evn having a baby for u, u just realised that both of you are not sexually compactible , the painful part of it is that u dnt evn know the meaning of the word u are using ,

btw , is she intellectually compactible with u, Cos ur grammar awful

carefreewannabe:


It can be done without marriage.



Marriage can be even more boring, it's not a remedy against boredom.



I respect people's beliefs.



It can be done without marriage.



It can be done without marriage.

I have much respect for you just reading your posts. Well done and keep doing you no matter what people say.

dasparrow:


I have much respect for you just reading your posts. Well done and keep doing you no matter what people say.

Thank you, I feel humbled.

*I wish Nairaland had more emoticons.*

carefreewannabe:


If there is no medical condition attached to her pain, then the reason is possibly that she wasn't hot enough and therefore not wet enough before you started. Make sure that she is relaxed before you penetrate her and take your time for the pre-intimacy. You can create a nice atmosphere when your child is sleeping by dimming the light or lighting some candles, have a nice romantic dinner before, then kiss her and stroke her body, be gentle and show her that her comfort is important to you.

I am quite sure that your problem can be solved.

Chaiii...u don watch too much home video...if u like, light firewood, if she no wan good for bed, nothing go happen...

emusmith:


They are over a thousand, remember?
Smartass

lolaxavier:


Chaiii...u don watch too much home video...if u like, light firewood, if she no wan good for bed, nothing go happen...

If that is the solution to your marriage, so be it.

darlenese:





so after 5 years of relationship n' evn having a baby for u, u just realised that both of you are not sexually compactible , the painful part of it is that u dnt evn know the meaning of the word u are using ,

btw , is she intellectually compactible with u, Cos ur grammar awful

I respect people's opinion, pls, here Is a forum not a court. Kindly follow my post and read like educated fellow. Nobody is forcing you to comment on this topic if you don't have anything positive to contribute. Why not correct my awful grammar? Mr. Gram

carefreewannabe:


If that is the solution to your marriage, so be it.

Sincerely I'm not sure I get u at all...

carefreewannabe:

pm you.

Grendel:


I respect people's opinion, pls, here Is a forum not a court. Kindly follow my post and read like educated fellow. Nobody is forcing you to comment on this topic if you don't have anything positive to contribute. Why not correct my awful grammar? Mr. Gram

Smh

lolaxavier:




Sincerely I'm not sure I get u at all...

Can we help?

darlenese:


Smh

I'm sorry for been rude to you but sometimes we need to think before we talk. If you follow this topic closely you will see where I stated that she is not here with me in Lagos.
I cherished people's opinion.

Dyt:



U are sick right in the head
Anuofia

Why are we like this? U said he is sick in the head because he told the truth!
Grandel listen, u did the wrong thing, what u shud have done was to talk to herand let her tell u how she wants to be made love to and you too let her know how you want it and the two of u shud reach a compromise because this thing is meant to be enjoyed! Goodluck!

Rhozabeth:

Why are we like this? U said he is sick in the head because he told the truth!
Grandel listen, u did the wrong thing, what u shud have done was to talk to herand let her tell u how she wants to be made love to and you too let her know how you want it and the two of u shud reach a compromise because this thing is meant to be enjoyed! Goodluck!

Respect.

Grendel:

let me be plain
i nor dey enjoy having sex with her but when i do outside ... omo na sweet ooo

.


Kid.

Grendel:
i need matured advice pls,

I've being with my partner for five years, i love her and i've invested lots of time, trust and energy on her.

she is a good girl, well manna but we are not sexually compatible.
i don't know what to do about it because we have a two years kid and i can't endure what i cannot change
I'm still young beside i don't want to cheat on her.


please what should i do?

hmmm,u have to make her comfortable ,take ur time n play with her body ,note i said body not just straight to her pearly gates abeg,caress n kiss her ,in short go and read kama sutra n stop watching porn...i hope i'v helped u small

elantraceey:
Like the poster above asked , what do you mean by being sexually incompactible ?

He means that his wife is ready and willing to go 200km per hour while he can only follow at 80km per hour while gasping for breath. Do you now understand?

carefreewannabe:
Grendel, I forgot to mention, make sure you are always FRESH and CLEAN from head to toe and that you smell good. It is very important to women.

By the way, playing nice music, slow jamzzz, might help create the right atmosphere too.

Most women should be more cognizant of the points you made out.

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