Equado:
...he might be too shy for you to see his face during the day,considering he turns off the light each time you guys v ***,besides have met a guy that had this kind of issue,it all boiled down to him feeling he wasn't good-looking enough for the girl.

Meanwhile




HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Thanks

PrettyEmy:


You

I would hv cum but amu too busy to cum I will send ma bodyguard kingtom his in akwa ibom self dnt wori he will foot de bill he go pay

agarawu23:
se ya mouth! why all d question? we shldnt frtg prettyemy met him within two months n he as started having access to ur pant

tell me why he will accept to meet u during d day

pls dnt come n open a used and dump tread next month.

Is that a good reason to hide his face during the day?
Besides I came here for advice, not to be judged
We are all matured enuf to know what we want
Just stick to the question

Don't leave him yet coz you haven't confirmed you are a sidechick. However, be ready for anything.

Ask him when he'll be off duty. Once confirmed tell him you'd like to spend the day with him. If he agrees, don't spend the whole day in the house. You can go to a place that interests you. If possible go to an eatery close to where he lives or works. Read his body language; is he uneasy? This c'd be because he fears someone might see you. If he refuses to spend the day...your guess is as good as mine. Good luck.

PrettyEmy:


He doesn't have any other job
So what do u advice me to do?
Do u think I should leave him and move on?
Cause I don't wana be any one side chick

chimerase2:
I would hv cum but amu to busy to cum I will send ma bodyguard kingtom his in akwa ibom self dnt wori he will foot de bill he go pay

Lol...
U must come o, u can't escape this

PrettyEmy:


Lol...
U must come o, u can't escape this

pls amu a man ordained by god
Pls respect ma mins3 infact I no de do again
Amu incapacitated

Hmm!
1. That's kinda scary...Mayb it's true he keeps work stuff there. Question is, "What kind of work?" Don't tell me he won't want you to see a stethoscope or microscope.

2. I thought guys like admiring ladies' bodies. Am not convinced that he's shy.

Op be careful...wish we c'd have a one-one chat.

PrettyEmy:


Like when I visit him at night,
1. There is a room he claim he doesn't let anyone in, he has his work stuffs in there and some other very private things
2. He put off the light when we had sex and claims he is shy
3. He doesn't kiss

Does it sound normal?

agarawu23:
se ya mouth! why all d question? we shldnt frtg prettyemy met him within two months n he as started having access to ur pant

tell me why he will accept to meet u during d day

pls dnt come n open a used and dump tread next month.

She came here for advice. Asking questions will help me to give her useful advice.

PrettyEmy Happy birthday! May you have many more happy birthdays to come.

1. If he is busy during the day working, do U have a job that keeps U busy? If not U won't be available for him @night except weekends.
2.If within two months he has had access to ur thighs @night, what makes U think he will want to change his winning formula? Am sorry for sounding this way because in ur maturity U made it known he has had sex with U. So am not slating U for it. Just cut the sex and get to know him for who he is.
3.Dia is something he's not telling U yet.
4.Most likely U may be a side chick. How? U are not compatible intellectually,professionally and maybe socially. So introducing U to people or walking with U during the day devalues his self esteem.
5.Sorry to say this, some doctors re into occultism. I used to have a family friend who happens to be a doctor. He specializes in D and C. He's like the person U just describe though varies a bit.
5.Try visit his office and see how he will receive U. That will tell U if U re just an object of sexual gratification or not.
Lastly my advice to U is engage urself in personal development and stop bin deceive by the doctor thing or my guy is a medical doctor. If a mechanic will make U happy, my sister go for it.

LadyX:
PrettyEmy Happy birthday! May you have many more happy birthdays to come.

Thanks dearie, will like us to talk more tho
But not on nairaland

chimerase2:
He is an Edi abanni (Wolf)
Or check he he fought with Lion

LMAO... seroius edi abanni

Prospero01:
1. If he is busy during the day working, do U have a job that keeps U busy? If not U won't be available for him @night except weekends.
2.If within two months he has had access to ur thighs @night, what makes U think he will want to change his winning formula? Am sorry for sounding this way because in ur maturity U made it known he has had sex with U. So am not slating U for it. Just cut the sex and get to know him for who he is.
3.Dia is something he's not telling U yet.
4.Most likely U may be a side chick. How? U are not compatible intellectually,professionally and maybe socially. So introducing U to people or walking with U during the day devalues his self esteem.
5.Sorry to say this, some doctors re into occultism. I used to have a family friend who happens to be a doctor. He specializes in D and C. He's like the person U just describe though varies a bit.
5.Try visit his office and see how he will receive U. That will tell U if U re just an object of sexual gratification or not.
Lastly my advice to U is engage urself in personal development and stop bin deceive by the doctor thing or my guy is a medical doctor. If a mechanic will make U happy, my sister go for it.

Ok, thanks

PrettyEmy:
There is this guy have been dating for two month now.. Have never seen him in the afternoon before, we keep meeting only at night, even when he invites me to his house, it must be at night..
Each time I complain, he says its his work.. M begining to suspect that there is something wrong..
Please what should I do? M really confused right now

next time u see him,give him psalm 91 tp read.the guy fit be winch o!my phone just hang.

PrettyEmy:


Thanks dearie, will like us to talk more tho
But not on nairaland

Welcome.
Sure, no problem.

I once dated a girl I wanted to see only at nights.I'll make up excuses for her not 2 see me during the day,just because I wasn't proud of her & I won't want anyone who knows me well to see me wt her.I neva really liked her.I felt she was not on par wt me socially,intellectually & other wise.I guess dts the way he sees you.

chimerase2:
*in olu jacob baritone voice* ohh young lady wia is thy sense

*in pete edochie baritone voice* oh old man,where thy sense

ggrin:
*in pete edochie baritone voice* oh old man,where thy sense

*in patience ozokwor wicked voice* u dare insalt me? Wait 4 me dis midnight

chimerase2:
*in patience ozokwor wicked voice* u dare insalt me? Wait 4 me dis midnight

winsh

PrettyEmy:
There is this guy have been dating for two month now.. Have never seen him in the afternoon before, we keep meeting only at night, even when he invites me to his house, it must be at night..
Each time I complain, he says its his work.. M begining to suspect that there is something wrong..
Please what should I do? M really confused right now

I know your type..guymen know your type..there are some girls that are fit to roll with only at night simply because they aren't of the higher standards.

The guy no wan cast..no vex, all join.

ggrin:
winsh

we shal see

PrettyEmy:


Like when I visit him at night,
1. There is a room he claim he doesn't let anyone in, he has his work stuffs in there and some other very private things
2. He put off the light when we had sex and claims he is shy
3. He doesn't kiss

Does it sound normal?

something is fishy her dear. I wish i could place it. let me try

1 Number one is ok. you are not the wife yet. you can't just come in and start jumping in on every room. so that point is not weird to me at all.

2:putting off light. some people do not really like when they are getting down. so that is not weird one bit. but he is a terrible lier on that point. tell him to polish his lying skills.

3 kissing: how much do you know breath? do you brush before going to his house? how is dentition nice or horrible? i am asking this because if you want to eat a meal, presentation matters to every classy guy. eg plate that is used for the food presentation etc. how do you appear to him?

Prixus:
if he's drilling you good then don't bother your head. afterall you are not going to marry him. you are just dating cos you need a bf. abi u think you are in love too like the other fools?!!!

Ohkay...I have seen enough wickedness for today

HopeAtHand:


I know your type..guymen know your type..there are some girls that are fit to roll with only at night simply because they aren't of the higher standards.

The guy no wan cast..no vex, all join.

No, I don't think so...

Okey8122:
I once dated a girl I wanted to see only at nights.I'll make up excuses for her not 2 see me during the day,just because I wasn't proud of her & I won't want anyone who knows me well to see me wt her.I neva really liked her.I felt she was not on par wt me socially,intellectually & other wise.I guess dts the way he sees you.

I don't think so, I think there is more to his strange behaviour

PrettyEmy:


Like when I visit him at night,
1. There is a room he claim he doesn't let anyone in, he has his work stuffs in there and some other very private things
2. He put off the light when we had sex and claims he is shy
3. He doesn't kiss

Does it sound normal?

Flee!!!! Who does that? Seems you are just a bleeping tool, and are you guys ugly?

PrettyEmy:


Ok

Not ok. Someone insists on seeing you only at night, and 'gets weird about it' when you want to see him in the afternoon and you think that's okay? To complicate issues, all your love making is done with the lights off.

He is a doctor, so what? That does not explain why he can't be seen in the daytime. In fact many doctors are more busy at night. Even the side chick story doesn't fly.
Bluntly put, something is wrong somewhere. Insist on seeing this guy in the afternoon. If he refuses, drop him like he is hot. Use your head and not just your heart.

For some reason, this your story sends chills up my spine.

chival:


Not ok. Someone insists on seeing you only at night, and 'gets weird about it' when you want to see him in the afternoon and you think that's okay? To complicate issues, all your love making is done with the lights off.

He is a doctor, so what? That does not explain why he can't be seen in the daytime. In fact many doctors are more busy at night. Even the side chick story doesn't fly.
Bluntly put, something is wrong somewhere. Insist on seeing this guy in the afternoon. If he refuses, drop him like he is hot. Use your head and not just your heart.

For some reason, this your story sends chills up my spine.

Yeah, I am considering dropping him....
M tired already
But the last time I told him am quitting
He begged as if his life depends on it, he is really nice, just that he is weird
So I think its better if I quit

PrettyEmy:
There is this guy have been dating for two month now.. Have never seen him in the afternoon before, we keep meeting only at night, even when he invites me to his house, it must be at night..
Each time I complain, he says its his work.. M begining to suspect that there is something wrong..
Please what should I do? M really confused right now

He must be a ghost

chival:


Not ok. Someone insists on seeing you only at night, and 'gets weird about it' when you want to see him in the afternoon and you think that's okay? To complicate issues, all your love making is done with the lights off.

He is a doctor, so what? That does not explain why he can't be seen in the daytime. In fact many doctors are more busy at night. Even the side chick story doesn't fly.
Bluntly put, something is wrong somewhere. Insist on seeing this guy in the afternoon. If he refuses, drop him like he is hot. Use your head and not just your heart.

For some reason, this your story sends chills up my spine.

Nobody seems to notice the chilling aspect of this story. I totally agree with you, there's something eerie about the guy.

You are fugly and he tolerates you.

That's why he sees you at night or during eclipse.

You take care of a certain need if you know what I mean...but the dude try sha...if you are fugly some dudes would avoid you like a leper.

PrettyEmy:


Is that a good reason to hide his face during the day?
Besides I came here for advice, not to be judged
We are all matured enuf to know what we want
Just stick to the question

I dont knw wats d problem of nja gals you already knew the nature of his job. someone like me too u can hardly see me during d days including Sunday because my job wont gv me time.

you already knew he is nt a disabled and he is a complete man so no panic.
assuming you didn't used to visit him at home, I would av say maybe u dnt worth the kind of lady he wants ppl to him with

nevertheless, insist you wished to pay him a visit at work.

and dont frgt u just met so av it in mind dat he will alws av a break at work. so maybe his break period is nt yer time