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Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by soulglo: 5:53pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: It makes for a horrible partner. Continuing to have sex outside the marriage is simply a refusal to do the right thing. It is a choice. A choice to keep hurting the person who has vowed to stay with you. 4 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
You can postulate all manner of reasons why people cheat but when you cheat you are a horrible person. I would not wish a cheating partner on my worst enemy is all I can say. 2 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by ajuwarhodes(f): 6:36pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Childish replies all the way... 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by hermesprogidy(m): 6:41pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
What are you expecting to hear? An2elect2: |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by anwo247: 7:19pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: For a woman, it is the most shameful act but for men, I guess more than 90% of men do have extra marital affair at least once in the first 10yrs of their marriage. More than 70% continue with it until they are very old. I am talking about African countries. Yet, they are considered as good spouse as most wives are not ready to divorce for that purpose. Mem are polygamous in nature while women are contorlled by hypergammy. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Kingsasian(m): 7:24pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi:nice one...I concur 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by LordReed(m): 7:29pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: If a business partner likes to dip his hand in the till and deny you of some of the profits of the business would you like to continue such a partnership knowing he is excellent in every other area? 5 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Crixina(f): 7:44pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ammyluv2002:Kai!the mentality naija women carry these days. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: Yes. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by jaybee3(m): 7:45pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
chaircover:No |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by jaybee3(m): 7:46pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
jaybee3:Yes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by ammyluv2002(f): 7:46pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Crixina:mentality ko |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Hollyb(f): 7:48pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
EOOJ:Amen o. I don't pray to experience that and I pray u won't experience it too |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
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Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by mutter(f): 7:58pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
sam13: We are saying the same thing. Perhaps you should try to understand before lashing out. What I was trying to bring across is that no matter what you invest in a marriage, no matter how much love and effort you give, if you are not faithful it is all useless. Because everything you build or invest will go lost and because you are exposing your family to danger coming into the home in all forms. Just like leaving y house full of treasures open. God these young people do not understand proverbs |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Bigsteveg(m): 8:08pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Setaje: Which one is except a few useless men, don't women cheat also? Shioor |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by EOOJ(m): 8:15pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Hollyb: I say a big amen to that... |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by An2elect2(f): 8:30pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
hermesprogidy: What is good for the goose is good for the gander. Both sexes should be held responsible for infidelity equally anywhere in the world. Simple.That was what i was expecting to hear o. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by generalissimo(m): 9:27pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Setaje:E ma gbo oro buruku lenu eye. Stop calling a spade a spoon. It takes only a cheater to see the act as circumstancial. There is more of B'ITCH than HUMAN in most of cheaters. They only express it. Shikena! |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by generalissimo(m): 9:44pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Human beings in their wildest dreams always try their best to make others reason along with them on how some acts deemed by everyone as dirty and immoral can be reconsidered just because they indulge in them. @ Op, the answer to ur question is YES! YES!! YES!!! U can choose not to listen though 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
crackhaus: I must be a narcissist then. I would wager that it actually did have something to do with it, the infidelity (under the surface of it all), but I'll take your word for it. Cheating doesn't make an otherwise electric and 'wholesome' personality an altogether terrible person, but it does a fine job at making that same individual terrible to live with. It's why it's rather easy to be/remain good friends with a so-called cheat, not so to continue being their loving, trusting, and faithful BF/GF/Spouse, i.e, insignificant other. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
YES. Cheating is a deliberate choice. Some people will never cheat no matter how bad it is; others will cheat no matter how good it is. 5 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Setaje(f): 10:35pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Bigsteveg: Is it that u just rushed to quote me or u did not read my post well. Didn't u see the part that I said it's d same for women. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Setaje(f): 10:39pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
generalissimo: Please if u cannot address me well do not quote me. What do u mean by oro buruku lenu eye. Eyin omode won yi. E kan ma la enu yin ma soro anyhow. If u don't accept it, u either move on or give me reasons. Emi o kin soro buruku sogbo!. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Ewuro4: 10:57pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: YES.. Why is this up for debate? It's immoral and rude to cheat on your Legal spouse. It's a promise that MUST be kept For the rest of your life. Bros.. You seem scared, marriage is not for everyone you know? How's the house help search going? |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Ewuro4: 10:59pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
generalissimo: Setaje: E ma ja oh. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Of course I am scared! Marriage is scary! |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Ewuro4: 11:07pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: So double dealing isn't? all the STIs you bring home to your spouse? I'm not up for Marriage epistle this ( checks time) afternoon... Marriage is not for selfish minds. You must be ready to put others need before yours.. Learnt this the hard way myself. Being Selfless and Patient. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by sam13(m): 12:14am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Guidette: Are you for real?do you mean to say if your husband is frolicking about and you know about it 'you will be like i dont care' weakling man chai i am a man |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by rotimilax(m): 1:18am On Feb 17, 2015 |
Well,the worst things to do in a marriage are beating your spouse and cheating. I personally will never forgive a cheating wife,except God intervenes. It is so bad that that's the only ground for divorce in the bible. The trust won't be there anymore,u go dey get the feeling say ur wife fit even poison you at any time. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by rotimilax(m): 2:18am On Feb 17, 2015 |
freecocoa:Exactly. He didn't slip into d vag neither did she fall on the D |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by soulglo: 2:29am On Feb 17, 2015 |
anwo247: I am monogamous by choice. It's not because there are no fine ass men walking around that are willing to have sex. It would be easy to cheat. I make the choice not to. The fact is that it is actually easier for a woman to get sex than a man. This idea that animalistic behavior in men is just some biological flaw that they cannot help is ridiculous. Being a LovePeddler is a choice. |
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