₦airaland Forum

Sophyrocks:
And that is all you guys can boast of. Nothing else remain. Hehehehehe. too bad.

@Sophy da rocka...r u nt a testimony..don't lie!!!!!

Randy91:
@Sophy da rocka...r u nt a testimony..don't lie!!!!!

Testimony wetin? Na that one go put food for table? Na that one go give us peace of mind and give us happiness? Everything isnt about the D1ckson bikonu. You guys are always quick to use it to boast. Some of una no sabi use am sef. Just to climb woman, rough handle am anyhow, 2 minutes okpari!! E don finish o. Only D1ckson o!! Una no dey shame?

The post isn't a campaign or advert, it is just d ops bid to appreciate the African man but Going thru d comments it is very glaring that most African ladies don't even appreciate African men and vice versa...one bad experience isn't enough for u to condemn so we cannot sit back and blame each other for offences we are all guilty of. Our constant exposure to the exogenous cultures of d west has relegated our african values to d bottom so lets be proud of our roots irrespective of where we marry from! NOBODY HOLY PASS!!!

Also remember: He MUST CHEAT ON YOU








WITH PRIDE, WITHOUT REMORSE

DrGroove:
Also remember: He MUST CHEAT ON YOU








WITH PRIDE, WITHOUT REMORSE

LMFAO

DrGroove:
Also remember: He MUST CHEAT ON YOU








WITH PRIDE, WITHOUT REMORSE

Is there any continent where men and women don't cheat?

Disclaimer: Generalizations to answer generalizations. Not true for all Nigerian men, obviously.

computergenius:
African men are good lovers.
They are the best in bed. Check out medical research if you doubt it.

A big tool does not always make a good lover. Nigerian men are selfish lovers with no finesse or sensitivity to a woman's needs. Also, you shame women for owning their sexuality. That inhibits them from truly enjoying themselves with you, before you start calling her ashawo and slut.

They are not flirts and boob chasers like the western men.

Camman, get out. Nigerian men flirt pass ANYBODY in the world. White men are shy by comparison.

Western men are flirts who prefer to remain unattached to any woman so that they can play around with as many women as possible. This flirty nature of western men is responsible for the high divorce rate in the west.

LMAO. Westerners feel free to divorce because they're not afraid of society like Nigerians are. If Nigerian society was more "mind your business" you would see how high divorce rates would shoot up. Not divorcing doesn't mean your marriage is happy.

African men stay with their women to the end. They believe strongly in "till death do us apart". They don't divorce their women often like westerners.

Unless they get the opportunity to throw you away for something better. I.e. You haven't given him a child, or a son, or he needs a visa, etc. etc.

Many western men get a woman or girl pregnant and then abandon her for another.

Come. On. There is God o, this lie ehn. Nigerians take first for this. How many Nigerian men see nothing wrong with having a child with someone in their youth before they get married? There was one thread here the other day, the guy was saying his not ready for marriage or a wife, he just wants to give some girl belle so he can have a daughter. COME. ON.

African men believe in having children. Unlike many westerners who see children as a nuisance and would rather adopt abandoned babies. A western man once told me that children smell. I was shocked.

Nigerian men need vasectomies. Look at the population explosion in Nigeria. And when the woman wants birth control and family planning, what do you do? "Rather adopt abandoned babies" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THAT Nigerians should adopt more! Look at how many motherless children there are in Nigeria. To the extent that they are always underfoot, and celebrating your birthday at an orphanage is now trendy. You could learn something, instead of sneering at adoption. Stop breeding so much.

African men are strong and can carry responsibilities. Unlike westerners that believe the female should carry a significant part of all the financial burden.

African women are much stronger. Westerners do not believe the female should carry the financial burden. That would hurt the man's ego. They expect 50/50 or 100/0. Meanwhile, the Nigerian man has no problem relying on his wife and using his wife's money, as long as no one knows about it. I have seen multiple instances of this with my own eyes.




I love Nigerian men (usually). But I can't let you lie like this.

MissMeiya:
A big tool does not always make a good lover. Nigerian men are selfish lovers with no finesse or sensitivity to a woman's needs. Also, you shame women for owning their sexuality. That inhibits them from truly enjoying themselves with you, before you start calling her ashawo and slut.

where is your data? we need charts , sample population , bell curves - dont give us arbitrary word of mouth

oyb:
where is your data? we need charts , sample population , bell curves - dont give us arbitrary word of mouth

Lol oyb, not you of course

I'll add a disclaimer.

Chillisauce:
Ladies in diaspora ,

Open your ears....

Pull it wider and listen very attentively.


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Lol!

Hilarious thread with Lots of generalizations

MrCork:
...bro pliss stop actin like a homebase Nigerian...Nairaland is nota market place....bro, is it ma fault u never been to London?

Don't be fooled, no "heaven" like home.

MissMeiya:
Disclaimer:


A big tool does not always make a good lover. Nigerian men are selfish lovers with no finesse or sensitivity to a woman's needs. Also, you shame women for owning their sexuality. That inhibits them from truly enjoying themselves with you, before you start calling her ashawo and slut.





Nigerian men need vasectomies. Look at the population explosion in Nigeria. And when the woman wants birth control and family planning, what do you do? "Rather adopt abandoned babies" WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THAT Nigerians should adopt more! Look at how many motherless children there are in Nigeria. To the extent that they are always underfoot, and celebrating your birthday at an orphanage is now trendy. You could learn something, instead of sneering at adoption. Stop breeding so much.


African women are much stronger. Westerners do not believe the female should carry the financial burden. That would hurt the man's ego. They expect 50/50 or 100/0. Meanwhile, the Nigerian man has no problem relying on his wife and using his wife's money, as long as no one knows about it. I have seen multiple instances of this with my own eyes.

STOP this western culture of backwardness.
I believe in.

1. Sexual chastity as enshrined in our culture.

2. population explosion CANNOT hurt us. (some western men don't need children; that's their culture. it is not ours to follow ) Imagine an African man "Rather adopt" children than having his... Abominable!

As for African women stronger than their men; I reserve my sentiment 4 now.

Lol, yikes. I should count myself lucky...

MissMeiya:
African women are much stronger. Westerners do not believe the female should carry the financial burden. That would hurt the man's ego. They expect 50/50 or 100/0. Meanwhile, the Nigerian man has no problem relying on his wife and using his wife's money, as long as no one knows about it. I have seen multiple instances of this with my own eyes.




I love Nigerian men (usually). But I can't let you lie like this.

I don't know were NIgerians get this idea. Come to middle belt America (the heart beat of America) and you'll find that in most homes the man brings home the bacon and the wife handles the finances. The men do not automatically interprete that as "this is my house" or "I'll send you packing". As for NIgerian men being better lovers........ rotflmao. Please abeg. I can't laugh.

orble:
STOP this western culture of backwardness.
I believe in.

1. Sexual chastity as enshrined in our culture.

2. population explosion CANNOT hurt us. (some western men don't need children; that's their culture. it is not ours to follow ) Imagine an African man "Rather adopt" children than having his... Abominable!

As for African women stronger than their men; I reserve my sentiment 4 now.

SMH. Really? Just keep having kids because you can? Have them and let them die from starvation or lack of health care because their parents cannot afford to pay for healthcare. This is your argument in favor of the superiority of your culture?

Bamz:
Yes marry us o!!!

Ops thanks for the advertisement.

Happy Birthday.

Raiders:
its better to import a woman from Africa than marry an Akata. The most important thing is to make sure you take time to know her before importing her to US. Most African women I know that were brought to the US behave and treat their husband well. I wont advice anyone to marry an uneducated Akata because they are all ghetto with many baby daddy..

Stop lying, just say the girls you hang around are like that.

fesnge:
You're very correct, I was there and won't advise anyone to marry akata either but, African based here (US)

You are a liar also, I guess you know every American girl and every African girl in Amerca to make that statement. SMH

soulglo:
I don't know were NIgerians get this idea. Come to middle belt America (the heart beat of America) and you'll find that in most homes the man brings home the bacon and the wife handles the finances. The men do not automatically interprete that as "this is my house" or "I'll send you packing". As for NIgerian men being better lovers........ rotflmao. Please abeg. I can't laugh.

So so so so true!

khia:
Happy Birthday.

So thoughtful of you, Khia.

Many thanks.

Bamz:
So thoughtful of you, Khia.

Many thanks.

You are very welcome.

khia:
Stop lying, just say the girls you hang around are like that.

I am not lying and I am just talking from experience. I think most African women make a better wife than most African American. Some are good tho but are in the minority. Anyway, what city in California do you stay at?

baybeeboi:
African wat?
here in Cleveland,we see African Men as Terrorists and Fraudsters

I see u as a jail bird
Jobless
Looking for handout
Looking for a woman to take care of u
Living in mama basement
Gang members
Crack head

soulglo:
I don't know were NIgerians get this idea. Come to middle belt America (the heart beat of America) and you'll find that in most homes the man brings home the bacon and the wife handles the finances. The men do not automatically interprete that as "this is my house" or "I'll send you packing". As for NIgerian men being better lovers........ rotflmao. Please abeg. I can't laugh.

Big L

Raiders:
its better to import a woman from Africa than marry an Akata. The most important thing is to make sure you take time to know her before importing her to US. Most African women I know that were brought to the US behave and treat their husband well. I wont advice anyone to marry an uneducated Akata because they are all ghetto with many baby daddy..

Good luck with your import
You better look for a woman that will be your ride and die
Just a good woman
AA girls are well educated have goals and dreams
I know about 10 AA girls around 25 to 32 old with college education and no kids

tpiaP:
true.

however, there are actually quite a lot of diasporan ladies on nl and also quite a lot of African men on nl.

unfortunately, this mistrust and reputation of Nigerians for 419 and other unsalacious activities, is making the ladies keep their distance.

but I think non-Nigerian ladies don't mind taking the risk sha.

Lot of Nigerian women love the 419's

jadelyn007:
Abeg op na which african men u dey talk about. Is it not the one we read on nairaland who patronize prostitutes, turn their wives to punching bag, do not take full responsibility for their family, expecting their wives to share bills with dem 50:50, take care of domestic chores 100percent n still treat them like a god. Which ones r open to learning? These one with overbloated egos who want their asss kissed all the time. Op all these lies you are telling, chai!!!! Diaris godoooo!!!

Please I want to understand you
You have a college education and your husband have a college education
Your husband make $90,000.00 and you make $85,000.00
You live in a house that is $450,000.00
so your husband should pay all the bills?
My sister, you are not apart of family Right?
What should happen to your $85,000.00?
Your husband should be struggling to pay the bills

GoodFaith:
I see u as a jail bird
Jobless
Looking for handout
Looking for a woman to take care of u
Living in mama basement
Gang members
Crack head

is that a song?
Poor lyrics

Raiders:
I am not lying and I am just talking from experience. I think most African women make a better wife than most African American. Some are good tho but are in the minority. Anyway, what city in California do you stay at?

The lie is when you said that most African women make better wives than AA women which is an untrue statement unless you know most African and AA women which you do not.
Some AA women make wonderful wives and some African women don't and vice versa.
Stop generalising. I live in Palm Springs. Francizy this is what I'm talking about with your brothas.

khia:
The lie is when you said that most African women make better wives than AA women which is an untrue statement unless you know most African and AA women which you do not.
Some AA women make wonderful wives and some African women don't and vice versa.
Stop generalising. I live in Palm Springs. Francizy this what I'm talking abot yours brothas.

"Some AA women make wonderful wives"-- lot of AA wives are better than your Nigeria import

baybeeboi:
is that a song?
Poor lyrics

Ur life story

khia:
The lie is when you said that most African women make better wives than AA women which is an untrue statement unless you know most African and AA women which you do not.
Some AA women make wonderful wives and some African women don't and vice versa.
Stop generalising. I live in Palm Springs. Francizy this what I'm talking abot yours brothas.

I am not generalizing. I live in Oakland which has the highest black population in CA so I see a lot of AA women. A typical African/ Caribbean woman make a better wife than a typical black American woman. Black American women have the highest abortion rate in America. They also have the highest single mom rate with about 70% having kids out of wedlock. African/ Caribbean women don't usually act like most African American women. However, like you said there are also good AA women that I have met but those are in the minority. Even some black American men complain about AA attitude.