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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by ireneony(f): 9:28am On Feb 19, 2015
ferdimako:

to proof? chai.
big foool
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by daamazing(m): 9:29am On Feb 19, 2015
so dis tin later enter front page••¶nawa 00°
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by daamazing(m): 9:31am On Feb 19, 2015
what if d bursar sees it...•√√
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by daamazing(m): 9:31am On Feb 19, 2015
abi sha bursars no dey nl
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by FredHandsome(m): 9:37am On Feb 19, 2015
But you woulda obliged him if he weren't 'too old' for you? Huh? See ya life! You must be a learner... Some runs babes woulda shouted hallelujah for such an opportunity from the 'University Banker' himself grin

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Nobody: 9:43am On Feb 19, 2015
my own advice, keep it to yourself until you got an evidence. I'm sure with that some other ladies of such circumstance will roll out to back you up too. good he's not a lecturer though.
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:44am On Feb 19, 2015
Pweetyradiance:
Just feel like sharing this story with you,please if you were in my shoes what would have been your reaction?

Two days ago I went to the bursary department in my school to have my course forms signed, when I got there the bursar was busy attending to other students so he asked me to sit which I did, while he kept on attending to them. He was done attending to everyone I met inside the office and was about attending to me when someone else came in, he left me to attend to that person with an excuse that she is the Secretary to one of the HOD's in the school, I kept waiting patiently little did I know he was up to something. when he was done attending to the young lady and she left I gave him my course forms to sign, he took them, looked at them for a while then stared back at me and called my name. I answered, he asked if I will like to be his friend( deep down in my heart I was like, see this old cargo oh wetin him want sef) then I gave him an abrupt answer "yes" I felt he would do the needful and let me go but the next thing I heard was " can I have your nums" (for my mind I shout say Kai! e don set for me oh) God so bless I wasn't with my phone, this was what I had tried hard to avoid for the past 3yrs I had been in skul. I almost lied that I don't have a phone but had a second thought,so I gave him a wrong nums,that wasn't okay for the mugu oh he signed the course forms thereafter he stretched his hands to touch my breast* shy* I had no option than to slap his hand so hard. I stood up and left his office, he kept shouting "we will talk on phone"

the problem now is :should I keep it to myself or let the school authority know about it? I will sincerely appreciate your opinions.


Hehe, he was just tactless.

Would you say there's never been an older male you found 'cute' - or whatever substitutes you girls use?

If he had been more experienced, and acted differently...there is a high likelihood that Olympus will fall.

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by nwadiuko1(m): 9:46am On Feb 19, 2015
Babe for your own sake, let it go.....do not start what u cannot finish
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Nobody: 9:47am On Feb 19, 2015
hope you did not dress undressed to see him though. I'm trying to figure out what will give him such mind.
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by freecocoa(f): 9:50am On Feb 19, 2015
Hychineson:
. I doubt if you are actually a university undergraduate because as far as university system is concerned, Bursar as a principal officer in the university has nothing to do with course forms and has no direct contact with students. I think u fabricated this story and I don't know why this came to the front page.
I was wondering too, then I decided, I don't know how all universities across the nation operate, therefore....

Btw, bursars do have contacts with students.

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by freecocoa(f): 9:54am On Feb 19, 2015
Dramadiddy:
How can someone just come and touch ur breast, maybe you dressed in a way that would make him do that
What is wrong with you people? Even is she was nakid, how if that a reason to touch her? My god! Y'all better learn to apply self control, lest you die before your time.

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Rexnegro(m): 9:59am On Feb 19, 2015
Pweetyradiance:
Just feel like sharing this story with you,please if you were in my shoes what would have been your reaction?

Two days ago I went to the bursary department in my school to have my course forms signed, when I got there the bursar was busy attending to other students so he asked me to sit which I did, while he kept on attending to them. He was done attending to everyone I met inside the office and was about attending to me when someone else came in, he left me to attend to that person with an excuse that she is the Secretary to one of the HOD's in the school, I kept waiting patiently little did I know he was up to something. when he was done attending to the young lady and she left I gave him my course forms to sign, he took them, looked at them for a while then stared back at me and called my name. I answered, he asked if I will like to be his friend( deep down in my heart I was like, see this old cargo oh wetin him want sef) then I gave him an abrupt answer "yes" I felt he would do the needful and let me go but the next thing I heard was " can I have your nums" (for my mind I shout say Kai! e don set for me oh) God so bless I wasn't with my phone, this was what I had tried hard to avoid for the past 3yrs I had been in skul. I almost lied that I don't have a phone but had a second thought,so I gave him a wrong nums,that wasn't okay for the mugu oh he signed the course forms thereafter he stretched his hands to touch my breast* shy* I had no option than to slap his hand so hard. I stood up and left his office, he kept shouting "we will talk on phone"

the problem now is :should I keep it to myself or let the school authority know about it? I will sincerely appreciate your opinions.
Which school is that sef b4 I can comment .
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Guruboi(m): 10:00am On Feb 19, 2015
OohMpa:
Go back to office, tell him to touch your bwest, pless it hard, veli veli hard with two hands until you take photo while he plessing it. Come back here and uproad the photo otherwise we won't berieve you angry angry
Hahahahhahahahhahhahah!! Idiot boy!
Lolzz

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Smoj(m): 10:04am On Feb 19, 2015
OohMpa:
Go back to office, tell him to touch your bwest, pless it hard, veli veli hard with two hands until you take photo while he plessing it. Come back here and uproad the photo otherwise we won't berieve you angry angry
U MUST BE OKON RIGHT?
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by christancey: 10:09am On Feb 19, 2015
If you father Is a noble man and has a high status in that school push it some one must stop that nonsense.
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by obstead200(m): 10:09am On Feb 19, 2015
Hychineson:
. I doubt if you are actually a university undergraduate because as far as university system is concerned, Bursar as a principal officer in the university has nothing to do with course forms and has no direct contact with students. I think u fabricated this story and I don't know why this came to the front page.
may God bless u richly for this piece of wisdom. In any govt owned higher institution in naija, the Bursar is a god, feared almost as much as the Rector or the VC. He is a principal officer with offical vehicles, security details and other paraphenalia of office. he can never be be-littled to the extent of signing course forms of miserable students.

I work in a bursary and even I myself is way above attending to mere students not withstanding that i am very very much below the rank of a Bursar.

I believe the OP is in a secondary school

OR
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students sometimes have dis stupid habit of referring to anyone, even the security man they meet in the bursary building, as the Bursar. It happens often in my organisation.
The bursary messenger who sits in the bursars file room and receives memo from staff and students was often mistaken for the bursar by most students. such was their level of ignorance.

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by blackfase(m): 10:11am On Feb 19, 2015
Dont bother yourself, let it slide. Your word against his. He'll most certainly deny it as thers no hard proof to that effect. This kinda thing has been happening time immemorial....
#ShameonaBursar
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by kandiikane(m): 10:12am On Feb 19, 2015
Pweetyradiance:
sorry man, with the confusion in my head. didn't know where best to post it
my post wasn't referring to you but the title itself on frontpage. It should be sexually assaulted, I don't understand why it says romantic even if it's in quotes.
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by obstead200(m): 10:13am On Feb 19, 2015
freecocoa:
I was wondering too, then I decided, I don't know how all universities across the nation operate, therefore....

Btw, bursars do have contacts with students.

@ the bolded; very big lie. except on very special and peculiar circumstances.
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by crackhouse(m): 10:14am On Feb 19, 2015
school staff and students na wa oooo. they always like to get into the female students' pants since 1960. girl run like tom and jerry oo. my hand no dey oo.
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by DoTheNeedful: 10:17am On Feb 19, 2015
Pweetyradiance:
Just feel like sharing this story with you,please if you were in my shoes what would have been your reaction?

Two days ago I went to the bursary department in my school to have my course forms signed, when I got there the bursar was busy attending to other students so he asked me to sit which I did, while he kept on attending to them. He was done attending to everyone I met inside the office and was about attending to me when someone else came in, he left me to attend to that person with an excuse that she is the Secretary to one of the HOD's in the school, I kept waiting patiently little did I know he was up to something. when he was done attending to the young lady and she left I gave him my course forms to sign, he took them, looked at them for a while then stared back at me and called my name. I answered, he asked if I will like to be his friend( deep down in my heart I was like, see this old cargo oh wetin him want sef) then I gave him an abrupt answer "yes" I felt he would do the needful and let me go but the next thing I heard was " can I have your nums" (for my mind I shout say Kai! e don set for me oh) God so bless I wasn't with my phone, this was what I had tried hard to avoid for the past 3yrs I had been in skul. I almost lied that I don't have a phone but had a second thought,so I gave him a wrong nums,that wasn't okay for the mugu oh he signed the course forms thereafter he stretched his hands to touch my breast* shy* I had no option than to slap his hand so hard. I stood up and left his office, he kept shouting "we will talk on phone"

the problem now is :should I keep it to myself or let the school authority know about it? I will sincerely appreciate your opinions.




Why do I find this difficult to believe NLders will quickly believe this because they like stories revolving around lust and romantic adventure sad.
You went to sign a course form with a bursar Do you know that a bursar is a principal officer in a university together with the librarian,DVC,registrar and the VC. You as a student may not see him for up to 3 times befor you graduate.
Maybe you were just harassed by one account officer like that or you are a student in one mushroom college of education or a private university.
There is something definitely wrong with your story angry

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Dramadiddy(m): 10:19am On Feb 19, 2015
freecocoa:
What is wrong with you people? Even is she was nakid, how if that a reason to touch her? My god! Y'all better learn to apply self control, lest you die before your time.
my friend shutup and go and sleep.. You women think you're one kg of gold heavier than men.. Better think through ur empty skull or seek advice on what to say before spewing the trash in your mouth.. Anuofia
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by obstead200(m): 10:20am On Feb 19, 2015
DoTheNeedful:





Why do I find this difficult to believe NLders will quickly believe this because they like stories revolving around lust and romantic adventure sad.
You went to sign a course form with a bursar Do you know that a bursar is a principal officer in a university together with the librarian,DVC,registrar and the VC. You as a student may not see him for up to 3 times befor you graduate.
Maybe you were just harassed by one account officer like that or you are a student in one mushroom college of education or a private university.
There is something definitely wrong with your story angry
please help me tell the M.O.FO

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Nobody: 10:20am On Feb 19, 2015
Why are bursar's old and heavily bearded?

This government seff
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Nobody: 10:20am On Feb 19, 2015
Pweetyradiance:
Just feel like sharing this story with you,please if you were in my shoes what would have been your reaction?

Two days ago I went to the bursary department in my school to have my course forms signed, when I got there the bursar was busy attending to other students so he asked me to sit which I did, while he kept on attending to them. He was done attending to everyone I met inside the office and was about attending to me when someone else came in, he left me to attend to that person with an excuse that she is the Secretary to one of the HOD's in the school, I kept waiting patiently little did I know he was up to something. when he was done attending to the young lady and she left I gave him my course forms to sign, he took them, looked at them for a while then stared back at me and called my name. I answered, he asked if I will like to be his friend( deep down in my heart I was like, see this old cargo oh wetin him want sef) then I gave him an abrupt answer "yes" I felt he would do the needful and let me go but the next thing I heard was " can I have your nums" (for my mind I shout say Kai! e don set for me oh) God so bless I wasn't with my phone, this was what I had tried hard to avoid for the past 3yrs I had been in skul. I almost lied that I don't have a phone but had a second thought,so I gave him a wrong nums,that wasn't okay for the mugu oh he signed the course forms thereafter he stretched his hands to touch my breast* shy* I had no option than to slap his hand so hard. I stood up and left his office, he kept shouting "we will talk on phone"

the problem now is :should I keep it to myself or let the school authority know about it? I will sincerely appreciate your opinions.
Next time u aving dealings with him, pack like two of ur female friends and two guys wit u when going. He won't do shiit.

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Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Pweetyradiance(f): 10:31am On Feb 19, 2015
prettyboi1989:

Next time u aving dealings with him, pack like two of ur female friends and two guys wit u when going. He won't do shiit.
okay dear tanx
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Pweetyradiance(f): 10:35am On Feb 19, 2015
DoTheNeedful:





Why do I find this difficult to believe NLders will quickly believe this because they like stories revolving around lust and romantic adventure sad.
You went to sign a course form with a bursar Do you know that a bursar is a principal officer in a university together with the librarian,DVC,registrar and the VC. You as a student may not see him for up to 3 times befor you graduate.
Maybe you were just harassed by one account officer like that or you are a student in one mushroom college of education or a private university.
There is something definitely wrong with your story angry
And why do you think you are right? in my skul there's a space provided for the bursar's signature under every course form. so I ain't begging u to believe what I am saying I will rather pick the reasonable opinions of people who understand my plight and leave. tanx
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Pweetyradiance(f): 10:36am On Feb 19, 2015
FredHandsome:
But you woulda obliged him if he weren't 'too old' for you? Huh? See ya life! You must be a learner... Some runs babes woulda shouted hallelujah for such an opportunity from the 'University Banker' himself grin
really? I am happy you said some runs babe. I am not one of those call gals okay? tanx
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Pweetyradiance(f): 10:38am On Feb 19, 2015
BuddhaPalm:



Hehe, he was just tactless.

Would you say there's never been an older male you found 'cute' - or whatever substitutes you girls use?

If he had been more experienced, and acted differently...there is a high likelihood that Olympus will fall.
not everyone is like u think okay? probably if u were a lady, u would fall
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by 100Cents: 10:41am On Feb 19, 2015
The man wants boys to beat him up.

Just forget it. Before the man use your career shine..

My experience with reporting a lecturer was very grave. So don't try that. These people like protecting themselves like anything unless you have a video and voice evidence
Re: My Experience With My School's Bursar by Pweetyradiance(f): 10:41am On Feb 19, 2015
Hychineson:
. I doubt if you are actually a university undergraduate because as far as university system is concerned, Bursar as a principal officer in the university has nothing to do with course forms and has no direct contact with students. I think u fabricated this story and I don't know why this came to the front page.
Yep I am mr doubter, and I am glad u ain't a moderator. in my skul a space is being provided below every course form for the bursar's signature to be appended. I ain't forcing u to believe my story, they are people who believe and are ready to be of help. tanx

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