Odillz:

evils

Herzumpther:
Lol. TIV's are cool. They know how to prepare sweet indomi.

Herzumpther:


Honestly TIV's cooks sweet noodles.

Why is your mum against deltans? Tell her we are cool jor. my brother must marry you tell your mum. Make I even dey arrange my bro for you.

tchidi:


Indo gini?
Na Wetin I go chop? He has never it since I knew him. But call pounded yam and he'll appear like winch!
Yesterday I spoke with Mumsy, she said I should come home let's talk more..
I wish my Dad were alive. He's the one we'd have bribed to talk to her..

Odillz:

I dunno o .
Especially Agbors.

Herzumpther:
Hehehehehehehe. Agbors? oh no.

Odillz:

She even said she prefers an Hausa inlaw .

Herzumpther:
Hmmmm. What do I do then?

Herzumpther:
Sorry eh.
This is sad sha..........
Sha agbors bad ni? The thing is tiring babe.

ichidodo:
[b] We know you're in love..you got butterflies around your eyes where it concerns lakes....but you must understand that we all must be very practical to matters such as these instead of being carried away.We must have a third party to look out for us inspite of ourselves. And that includes tribal,religious,domestic and financial matters. Example you was to put you daughter on a flight somewhere and it was common knowledge a particular airliner had experienced a spate of aircrashes recently...would you feel safe taking that risks with your daughter,even though your daughter likes the interior decor or attendants of the commercial airliner?....i don't think so....So you must look into yourself and the possibility that things may not work as planned,play it in your mind so you don't get crushed if dad says no...he loves you..wants the best for you...And we believe he will be crushed if his fears are confirmed.You can have so many loves from all tribes if you set your mind at it....but you can't repair the crushed spirit of a broken father.[/b]

Odillz:

Odillz:

She even said she prefers an Hausa inlaw .

Herzumpther:
Mum suggested I do a village square meeting she knows I'm not that kind anyway but my dad is saying no even when she brings up the ish.

I will allow him come surely......hmmm lakes will have to defend his CVE 599 in front of my dad o. I know dad won't shout, he doesn't shout as he is not that kind, he picks his words and listens carefully. I won't tell lakes to prepare but to allow it flow naturally. He is an only son so I believe he should be able to flow naturally.

All I know is I can't start searching for an Igbo man, abi them get Igbo men tree I should go pluck my choice from?

Herzumpther:
Odillz you know how fragile I am . how will I survive if dad stands on his NO.


will call you later dear, I want to take a walk.

delightful1:

Lol, your mum is funny o. But it has to be a strong thing for her to prefer hausa in-law over a deltan. Hausa people are cool sha, the educated ones really know how to take care of their wives

LaRoyalHighness:
What's wrong with waiting for the father's permission/blessings. Its very important ..

Herzumpther:
Na wa. Daddy saying no Yoruba and another saying no Delta, why all this Is this how Nigeria will move forward? Smh.

ichidodo:
That's it then...the knotty issue why your dad won't allow you marry your guy...He's a crime fighter, he's seen horrible stuff on his beat that you wouldn't believe...then there is the small matter of a dear friend's daughter beaten to an inch of her life by her yoruba husband...Its no brainer, your guy wont make a dent on popsie's mind even if he brings his family to beg,we believe it will boil down to the point of "over his dead body"..damn.

halldoran:


No it is not important in this century. What is important is her wish and the love between her and the guy.

Herzumpther:


Speechless.

Herzumpther:
Good morning.

Just like ma'am kimoni suggested I wrote a letter before I slept I then dropped it in his car. He left for work by 4 because he has some suspect he is taking to court this morning. He sent me a text saying "Herz, I don't hate you or your friend, just remove your mind from there and go for a man from the east or somewhere else. I am your father and I want the best for you. You don't know the Yoruba's. I dont want to see him but if you insist I see him then no problem, I will see him but it really won't change anything. We will talk more when I return and please cook banga soup and pounded yam for me".


I think I'm beginning to understand his fears/why he is saying a big NO........now I understand.......well people can't be the same but it will take a long time to make dad see that.

Good morning everybody.

LaRoyalHighness:
Even the constitution which is of this century recognizes parental consent. Don't underrate a fathers' blessing.

Kimoni:



Hmnnnn, I am assuming from your post above, the only bad guys he has seen from his vast experience are from the West, he has never met any criminal from the East and no Igbo man that he has heard of has ever beaten his wife?? Hence, he will never change his mind because of this perception. Really

halldoran:


And don't underrate the power of love and wish. All she needs is courage to marry whom she wishes.
A dad chose to be a tribalist and the daughter must suffer for that. Please!
This is the 21st century for Christ's sake.

ichidodo:
That's it then...the knotty issue why your dad won't allow you marry your guy...He's a crime fighter, he's seen horrible stuff on his beat that you wouldn't believe...then there is the small matter of a dear friend's daughter beaten to an inch of her life by her yoruba husband...Its no brainer, your guy wont make a dent on popsie's mind even if he brings his family to beg,we believe it will boil down to the point of "over his dead body"..damn.

LaRoyalHighness:
That's your own... My point is that she is right to seek the fathers' consent. QED.

(I quoted you because you claimed she doesn't love the guy enough and looking for excuses bla bla) 21st century or not.

halldoran:


I get your point.
And no, she doesn't love the guy enough in my opinion.

ichidodo:
Her father is a policeman...an experienced investigator who has been in the field since we can remember therefore he's in the best position to judge especially in matters that concerns his flesh and blood,his instincts are well honed over the years and it will be mighty foolish to disregard his inputs because of a whimsical, smokey non tangible feeling called love.....screw blind love...Tell that to a mother trying to explain her wailing 10 year old daughter why she can't get into an airline she loves because of its dodgy safety records,tell her that aircrashes happen all the time and anywhere as such puttin her daughter on this particular flight wont make a difference never mind giving her peace of mind....goodluck with that.

Kimoni:


We are still saying the same thing bro, from his vast experience, he has only met criminals and wife beaters from the West and non from the East where he wants her to marry from, every Igbo man is a saint so his stand on her relationship is well justified and should not be questioned. True love doesn't matter here at all!!! Smh

ichidodo:
Not every igbo man is a saint but the old man including his family will rest easier if birds from the same feather flock together...