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Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 7:06pm On Feb 21, 2015

Certain signs of infidelity are......lipstick on the collars, smell of female perfume and sunday night business meetings.

But there're less obvious characteristics that almost all cheaters share.

He's secretive, especially about his phone
• He's often on it (nd often outside)
• He ignores calls when u're with him.
• He changes password frequently or suddenly start leaving his phone in d office especially on friday night.
• Whenever he pics a call from his partners in sin....he runs outside to receive those special calls..complaining about bad network each time he picks this kinda call tongue

2) He pretends to forget things
• Cheaters commonly pretend to forget things they're actually pretty sure of. He may find it safe to forget ur favorite perfume or even ur birthday.

• If asks lotta questions he should know d answer to...like wanting to know which movie u're seeing when u've told him twice already. undecided

3) He's critical
• It's cheaters way of manipulating u into doubting what u believe and question ur right. angry

• He put unnecessary blame on you.

4) If he doesn't understand self discipline
• He drinks too much, dabbles in drugs, gambles a lot.

•He's a partier by definition hang out, where it's easy to pick up women.
my sister "Take a good emotional care of urself and stop pretending he's ur knight in shinning armor"

Still typing.....

Below are d remaining points

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by vjsmiles: 7:07pm On Feb 21, 2015

AND OVERALL THAT WOMANS SCENT

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Feb 21, 2015

lemme comment first

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 21, 2015

Good job OP. Perfect compilation of points.
Your list is faultless.

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by DuchessLily(f): 7:13pm On Feb 21, 2015

Hhmmmmmmmm.....an eye opener!

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by naijaboiy: 7:14pm On Feb 21, 2015

Errrmmm.....

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by naijaboiy: 7:15pm On Feb 21, 2015

DuchessLily:
Hhmmmmmmmm.....an eye opener!

Wow so all these signs have been oblivious to you since

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 7:16pm On Feb 21, 2015

5) He's too charming[b]...not just to ur sister or mum. If people often observe "He could charm the pant off any1" he may be doing just dat with u too

6) He's a Narcissist...immature nd self centered, like a spoiled child, such guys are primed for serial cheat. (Narcissist lack empathy and view women as objects. Plus they believe they have right to do whatever they want.

"You can't change him nd he doesn't want to be changed" the best thing to do is to get ur butt outta the relationship.

7) He's powerful

Studies shows that men who perceive themselves as powerful are more likely to be unfaithful. "power, it appears, can be a strong aphrodisiac and make men feel invicible"

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by dre11(m): 7:17pm On Feb 21, 2015

But its being proven that women cheat more than men nah

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by ronald4lif(m): 7:18pm On Feb 21, 2015

lanicky:
5) He's too charming[b]...not just to ur sister or mum. If people often observe "He could charm the pant off any1" he may be doing just dat with u too

6) [b]He's a Narcissist...immature nd self centered, like a spoiled child, such guys are primed for serial cheat. (Narcissist lack empathy and view women as objects. Plus they believe they have right to do whatever they want.

"You can't change him nd her doesn't want to be changed" the best thing to do is to get ur butt outta the relationship.

You still dey write more angry

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Nobody: 7:18pm On Feb 21, 2015

lanicky:
5) He's too charming[b]...not just to ur sister or mum. If people often observe "He could charm the pant off any1" he may be doing just dat with u too

6) [b]He's a Narcissist...immature nd self centered, like a spoiled child, such guys are primed for serial cheat. (Narcissist lack empathy and view women as objects. Plus they believe they have right to do whatever they want.

"You can't change him nd her doesn't want to be changed" the best thing to do is to get ur butt outta the relationship.

I dont quite agree with you about the narcissistic tendencies.
Its a trait a general number of men exhibit. It doesn't necessarily have to just be men who cheat that exhibit narcissistic characteristics

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Feb 21, 2015

ronald4lif:
You still dey write more

Lol
Are you scared she is rattling you guys out

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Brugo(m): 7:22pm On Feb 21, 2015

Dem don come again. Can't someone just cheat in peace? angry

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by ronald4lif(m): 7:30pm On Feb 21, 2015

missjenna:
Lol
Are you scared she is rattling you guys out

Lol! But I am a bishop I don't play emotional games wink

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Feb 21, 2015

dre11:
But its being proven that women cheat more than men nah

Hmmm....dunno bout that. Define cheating...

Emotional vs physical cheating. ?

Women engage more in emotional cheating
Men more so physically

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by LogoDWhiz(m): 7:31pm On Feb 21, 2015

Interesting!

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by dre11(m): 7:32pm On Feb 21, 2015

Xiadnat:
Hmmm....dunno bout that. Define cheating...

Emotional vs physical cheating. ?

Women engage more in emotional cheating
Men more so physically

Both.......

That's why the research by Durex say they are discreet about it

You can be their spare tyre and you won't know tongue

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Ksslib(m): 7:35pm On Feb 21, 2015*

lanicky:
5) If people often observe "He could charm the pant off any1" he may be doing just dat with u too

That's why I always advice ladies to stop wearing pant... Cos that way, his charms wont work.

But they won't listen. undecided

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Keketu(m): 9:00pm On Feb 21, 2015

laniky give me tip to woo farano pls. thanks

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 5:18am On Feb 22, 2015

ronald4lif:
You still dey write more

Lol.

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 5:21am On Feb 22, 2015

Ksslib:
That's why I always advice ladies to stop wearing pant... Cos that way, his charms wont work.

But they won't listen.

Hahahaha!

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 5:25am On Feb 22, 2015

Brugo:
Dem don come again. Can't someone just cheat in peace?

No one is hindering u grin

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 5:42am On Feb 22, 2015

missjenna:
I dont quite agree with you about the narcissistic tendencies.
Its a trait a general number of men exhibit. It doesn't necessarily have to just be men who cheat that exhibit narcissistic characteristics

Not all men view women as object

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by lanicky(op): 5:45am On Feb 22, 2015

dre11:
But its being proven that women cheat more than men nah

Women cheat but I think men cheats more dan 'em.

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by JigsawKillah(m): 7:33am On Feb 22, 2015

shittîng/cheating is good.....the loads doesn't need to be dropped in one place only

and yes ksslib....make them no dey wear pants again

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Keketu(m): 8:27am On Feb 22, 2015

lanicky:
Lol.

hello

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Sarimah(f): 8:29am On Feb 22, 2015

Brugo:
Dem don come again. Can't someone just cheat in peace?

dem don open ona nyash tongue

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Brugo(m): 8:44am On Feb 22, 2015

Sarimah:
dem don open ona nyash

Hmmm you look delicious. But today is Sunday. grin

I cannot allow you to shake my faith. grin

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Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Dygeasy(m): 8:47am On Feb 22, 2015

Still wouldn't stop guys from cheating and girls from falling for them.

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by Sarimah(f): 9:30am On Feb 22, 2015

Brugo:
Hmmm you look delicious. But today is Sunday. I cannot allow you to shake my faith.

ur faith will not only shake... it will tumble grin

Re: Suprising Traits Men Who Cheat Have In Common. by dre11(m): 4:58pm On Feb 22, 2015

lanicky:
Women cheat but I think men cheats more dan 'em.

Any proven statistics to show that

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