I got over a hundred email this week from guys who want to know "how to talk to a girl"...

...and today i am going to address that question..

These 3 ways of talking to girls that i am about to pour on your laps always work like magic, every single time. with just these three ways of talking to girls you can get them to become addicted to you, always come around you and basically love to be around you like crazy. Turn it up just a bit, use it on your dream girl and you will have her sending you love texts like her life depends on it

Go through these strategies then ask any girl around you weather they work and my guess is that they would give you a resounding yes.

Before i go into the strategies let me quickly tell you why these strategies work.

stay with me

Here is the thing;

- One; girls always get guys coming around them - every single time. walk through a girl's Facebook inbox and you will be marveled at the tons of unread messages in it. In real life, same thing happens - they get approached by guys all the time. an average girl gets approached by at least two guys every week or two guys everyday if she is pretty (that's 4 guys every week)

This attention gets to a girl's head, she starts feeling like a prize and when that happens shakara steps in.

- Two; Girls are bombarded by loads and loads of boring guys everyday. it can be tiring, trust me - what they do is to filter away the boring guys and focus on the more interesting ones.

If girls don't like talking to you long in real life and in social media then it means you are not communicating with them in these three ways i am about to reveal. If girls always give you "k" and "lol" on social media, it is not because they are rude - it is because you are plain boring (that is the painful truth). but here is the good news, you can change how you communicate with girls and become a more attractive guy by using this 3 strategies

here they are -

1. Teasing
2. Sarcasm
3. Bedroom talk

#1. Teasing:

Some guys can be a big nightmare to girls. what girls hate like crazy is a guy who keeps asking tons and tons of question when they discuss with them. questions like: "how was your day", "have you eaten", "hope your day was good", "hope you are fine"

all in one chat/conversation.

This is boring, it bores the hell out of girls.

You have to be more interesting than that if you want that girl to find you interesting. You have to flirt with her using the teasing strategy.

how does this work?

simple - teasing basically means to make fun of a girl in a playful way.

let me give you practical examples - Instead of coming to a girls Facebook Picture and commenting with "Beautiful Picture" (which is boring - every guy does it), You could flip this around and comment instead with - "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."

To a guy, a talk like this is silly (i know) but to a girl it works like magic. (Try it right now, go on Facebook and try it out under a girl's picture and watch her reaction).

More examples - You could call up a girl and instead of asking her "did you think of me?" (which is as boring as hell and makes her feel like you are begging to be thought of), the best way to start the conversation is to playfully say - "I know you've been thinking about me all day so i am here to free your mind" *smile* "how are you". The reason why this works on girls is that it:

- makes you different from other guys who are boring
- Makes you appear confident.
- Makes you more attractive because by making fun of her you give her the impression that you are not trying to impress her like other guys do (and nothing is as attractive to girls as a guy who doesn't try to impress them like a puppy)

Now note; it doesn't matter what you say but how you say it. someone can say the above things and it will seem like he is arrogant while another person would say the exact same thing and it would work like a magnetic magic on a girl. so the right way to tease a girl is to always make fun of her with a smile. it doesn't mean saying nasty things to her; the right way to tease is to always make it seem like you are playing around with your little sister.

for more on how to tease a girl and the right ways to go about it so as to make her see you as a potential boyfriend in minutes, that is where my e-book comes in (see my profile for a picture of it), in it i went into very deep details on how to tease your way into a girl's heart - no matter how tough or hard to get she is (to get the e-book you can add the number above on watsapp and send your messages to it or call the number on my profile).

PS: will continue with the other two strategies in my next posts on this thread. stay tuned. meanwhile you can visit my website (see my profile)

Stay tuned.

Op you are correct.
These points you stated are for winning the hearts of girls, not women

Nneka123 "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."




i hope it works

if it doesn't.. op, you are fired

try harder

kilokeys:
Nneka123 "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."




i hope it works

if it doesn't.. op, you are fired

Lol. *smiles*

I was here.


Following.

mtchewww

kaycexx:
I was here.


Following.

*smiles*

welcome, bro

Nyc

EroticAngelina:
try harder

lie lie...

e go work

Note: Most girls that reply with "kk" or "Lol" are unintelligent and boring.

Give a girl attention, money and display some materialistic stuff, she's all yours.

Lol. Impressive i must say. Well done Op

kilokeys:
Nneka123 "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."




i hope it works

if it doesn't.. op, you are fired

Lmao! Someone just got fired.

Hmm. Dis points may not be perfect sha but dem make sense sha.

tintingz:
Note: Most girls that reply with "kk" or "Lol" are unintelligent and boring.

Give a girl attention, money and display some materialistic stuff, she's all yours.

*smiles*

My brother; yes - money can attract girls but still, a boring guy is still a boring guy. the money can't take that away, even with the money we all still need to learn some social skills or the girl will dump you for another rich guy with a better personality. If a girl like you for your money she will leave you when a richer guy shows up, so it is always better to make her attracted to you as a person rather than to get her attracted to your pocket.

secondly, Sure, giving a girl attention is nice but when you do it too much it will make her loose interest in you (ask any girl). You have to make her miss you sometimes (i explained all that in my e-book)

Mprex:
Lol. Impressive i must say. Well done Op

Ekamba nma, afo kay sinay kay nmo?

kilokeys:
Nneka123 "Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can't date someone like you."




i hope it works

if it doesn't.. op, you are fired

guys like you make girls feel extra special, you may think its for the fun but it harms, it makes them feel on top of the world, just like the fellow you just mentioned will be feeling on top of the world after she reads that

Mprex:
Lol. Impressive i must say. Well done Op

Thank you dear; *smiles* Now get out of you - you are too sexxy for ma liking *big grin* If you tell me that line didn't work on you i will have 2 bite off ya lips for you.

CharlesNneji1:


*smiles*

My brother; yes - money can attract girls but still, a boring guy is still a boring guy. the money can't take that away, even with the money we all still need to learn some social skills or the girl will dump you for another rich guy with a better personality. If a girl like you for your money she will leave you when a richer guy shows up, so it is always better to make her attracted to you as a person rather than to get her attracted to your pocket.

secondly, Sure, giving a girl attention is nice but when you do it too much it will make her loose interest in you (ask any girl). You have to make her miss you sometimes (i explained all that in my e-book)

Your second point is key, guys need to learn this, in short this is a 6 unit load project!

story for the gods! the gods are listening

obongproff:


Ekamba nma, afo kay sinay kay nmo?

lol. Mba ke lowkey idagha mi oh. Mkpo abadie?

CharlesNneji1:


Thank you dear; *smiles* Now get out of you - you are too sexxy for ma liking *big grin* If you tell me that line didn't work on you i will have 2 bite off ya lips for you.

lols. It didnt work for me

Mprex:

lols. It didnt work for me

It's a lie jare, u are only saying that because i said i would bite ya lips if u say it. go joor, i won't give u what u are looking for

CharlesNneji1:

It's a lie jare, u are only saying that because i said i would bite ya lips if u say it. go joor, i won't give u what u are looking for

were.....dey dre dey feel yaself... bera hold break..all this kpomo gals for NL

Mprex:

lol. Mba ke lowkey idagha mi oh. Mkpo abadie?

Iyanmi! Nsuto lowkey ade mi naha? May afo bah kay sabathical?

Ami nsong ba ba naha. Nko afo usu pickay calls, afo abah kay government house idahami, so owo apay kode fien ubugu pick.

Mfana ibaga!

Ehn ehn

Nice one op... Thumbs up

To an extent the op is right,well except for the bedroom talk(don't know about that). A little teasing and sarcasm gets attention but then it takes a lot more to keep it.

You definitely get a smile and the girls interest even though she doesn't like you. If the case is otherwise then your case gidi gan....village people at work

TIP #2 SACARSM

This is another powerful way to communicate with girls that will make her find you interesting. But before i go into this strategy proper, let me first tell you why it works.

Every single minute a girl gets attention from dozens upon dozens of guys struggling real hard just to impress her. During a girl's teenage years, she finds this interesting and she might even fall in love with you if you show her enough interest than other guys. But as she grows older she gets used to it and it starts to bore her. A teenage girl might fall for sweet talk but a grown girl won't - as a matter of fact she has heard it all.

two; girls are never attracted to guys who always try to impress them - they prefer free guys who they cannot control.

If you join dozens of other guys who are saying the same sweet things and acting in the same sweet way then how do you intend to stand out?

That is where "Sarcasm" comes in...it makes you stand out, It gives a girl the impression that you are not like the next guy who will only say what she wants to hear just to please her, it shows her that you are in control, it shows her that you are DIFFERENT - and girls find that attractive.

so how do you apply sarcasm in real life?

Again i will give you real life examples - let me use Facebook again; Take for instance a girl puts up a new profile picture you could inbox her and say - "Thank God for that profile picture, no guy will look at it two times and that means there is no way they will take you from me - keep uploading those kinda ugly picture"

if she gets angry don't apologizes (assuming she is the dull type that doesn't understand a joke - a smart girl will understand a joke when she hears it).

Also, for instance; if a girl says hi to you on social media you could reply with: 'You want to snatch me from my girlfriend abi, alright, if i must cheat on her for you then i need 2 sons from you"

You get the gist?; mixing a little sarcasm with a little humor is the key.

It makes you appear like you have options, but when you run around trying to impress a girl like your life depends on it it gives her this impression that you don't have much choices (that could turn a girl off big time). Girls love guys who have self worth and not ones who jump up whenever they (the girls) says jump.

For more of how to use this strategy plus other powerful secrets of getting your dream girl to fall for you, contact 08158068422 on watsapp to get a copy of my e-book "The Bang Rule...Ultimate Seduction Guild For Nigerian Guys"

PS: In my next month i will cover "Bedroom Talk", in that post i will cover how to make a girl see you as someone she must kiss and have intimate relationship with (don't read that next moth if you are not above 19, please). Meanwhile you can read my other articles here on nairaland by going to my profile or to my website (See my profile for the web address)

stay tuned...

beau49:
To an extent the op is right,well except for the bedroom talk(don't know about that). A little teasing and sarcasm gets attention but then it takes a lot more to keep it.

You definitely get a smile and the girls interest even though she doesn't like you. If the case is otherwise then your case gidi gan....village people at work

*In DJ kahlid's Voice* "You are smart, and you just won the sum of one kiss from me *big smile* put on ya bluetooth - i'm sending the kiss over"

What I hate about Naira land is forcefully reading the full topic and all the underlying awful comments. Worst still I don't care to comment..

CharlesNneji1:


*In DJ kahlid's Voice* "You are smart, and you just won the sum of one kiss from me *big smile* put on ya bluetooth - i'm sending the kiss over"

Lol...