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Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 23, 2015

sweettease:
she deserves the benefit of the doubt, that text message isn't really incriminating.

in other words it's nothing to be worried about right. anyway I understand your POV. most girls will usually jump to defend the girl first. so I'm not surprised at this. it's a girl thing that I've noticed here.

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by harlos: 8:00am On Feb 23, 2015

sweettease:

once in a while.

Uhm... Ts been a long time.

Happy new year

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by johncreek: 8:05am On Feb 23, 2015

Just ask her a simple question " Are you a virgin"?
And btw wetin u wan use virgin do?

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by iliyande(m): 8:24am On Feb 23, 2015

chidi2pus:
The content of the inbox does exactly say he had sex with her.

Yo, get your facts right.
He could have attempted to have sex with her while he was drunk and felt sorry in the morning when she refused the offer.

IMO, you don't apologize when you have sex with a girl, you only apologize when it's a hit and miss.

Not true guy, you can apologize when you have it against her wish.

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Nobody: 8:51am On Feb 23, 2015

Guy best thing to do is just change the channel of ur mind to something else and concentrate in ur relationship. If I shld tell u what I saw in my girl fb inbox u will run mad nii and commit suicide one hand. But I keep it to my self #na mind o!#

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Nobody: 8:57am On Feb 23, 2015

sinaj:
u jux av to confront her buh xpect more lies nd xcuse...jux saying sha...

u gat to b smart

Why don't you just tell the poor guy the truth instead of using sarcasm

Hey Mr. Man, you girlfriend is no Virgin, you already know the truth(the message) you should just confront her to see how big of a liar she is angry

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by DuchessLily(f): 9:08am On Feb 23, 2015

@OP dont conclude yet...

Maybe d Chuks tried but didn't succeed and he is apologizing for attempting.

Ask her first

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by JoeCutie(m): 9:12am On Feb 23, 2015

Ah ahn, it's just only one round. Get over it, it's nothing. grin

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Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by akinsadeez(m): 9:40am On Feb 23, 2015

One, she never told you expressly that she is a virgin, you are the one who is assuming. Two, the text doesn't conclusively show that there was sex between her and chuks. If you confront her, you would lose her trust for being able to go they her phone and also she can even deny it and even lie if she wants to.
In my opinion, the best thing is to ignore and forget it. If you are going to marry the girl as you have claimed then there will necessarily come a time when you have to talk about whether she is a virgin or not and you can decide whether to go on with the relationship based on her answer. Wait until then. alternatively ask her directly if she is a virgin but don't bring up the chuks text no matter her answer because she can easily explain it away.

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Syphax(m): 9:44am On Feb 23, 2015

Ejimike:
I met this beautiful young girl mid last year but stated dating January this year.
Pls Ur Advice

OP,if you don't add the words "Beautiful Young Girl" will you die?

We don't care whether she is beautiful,old or ugly.

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by MisterLongman(m): 9:53am On Feb 23, 2015

sweettease:
Really? How is this hurting him, so far it shows a guy that was supposedly obsessed over her and did something she didn't like, didn't even say anything about them dating.

If I'm her, you bring this up and you lose some part of my respect for you, especially if it's a false alarm.

And what if its not false, do you expect her not to deny it.
I believe you skipped the part where she told the Op that he's the first date she's having since birth (She lied)
Like chris brown said and I quote "This hoes aint loyal".......... Trust no one

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Ignatio(m): 10:20am On Feb 23, 2015

Why don't you start a no secrets relationship since you wanna serious? Start with a game of read my text message and know the story behind it.

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by drkay10: 10:25am On Feb 23, 2015

PREMATURE EJACULATIONN IS OVER!!!

Do you have problems with premature EJACULATIONN ?

Are you unable to last more than a few minutes in bed?

Have you ever felt embarrassed after having sexx?

Has a woman ever made fun of you because of your poor "performance" in
bed?

Has a woman ever dumped you because you didn't satisfy her in bed?

Do you lack sexual confidence when you are around women?
...
IF YES, Then Logon To W W W. E N D P E . T K

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Nobody: 11:04am On Feb 23, 2015

Op assumes shes v
Inbox suggests otherwise
Babe never told you she was v
Whats her crime then?

An attempt to gain canal knowledge of her
Does not depict he succeeded
And even if he did
Were you marrying her virginity or her person

Christian brethren indeed

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by sweettease(f): 11:45am On Feb 23, 2015

harlos:
Uhm... Ts been a long time.

Happy new year

Same to you

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by nairabetguru(m): 12:15pm On Feb 23, 2015

Ejimike:
I met this beautiful young girl mid last year but stated dating January this year. We have been so nice to each other, Wishing she could be my wife because of rare virtue she possess. She have told me many tin about herself. She told me dat am the first date she's having since birth. I belivd her because she always truthful (deeper life girl) in her early 20's 300 level Unversity student. I too also a true christian seeking for a Godly woman for marriage, I made my intention know to her (marriage relationship) not Worldly girl friend/lover though took me time to convince her.Though She havnt told me she's a virgin but everytin around her suggest she is,(born again, born into deeper life church, never have a male friend talkless of lover or sex) But to my greatest surprise today as I was going her Fone, collecting some nice pics, muzik, vedio. I just decided to go tru her SMS inbox I saw an sms from one CHUKS( de msg was sent almost 1yr now) it reads thus

"am so sorry for wot I did last night pls forgive me. I cudn't sleep last nite because of wat happened. D truth is dat I was obsessed over u, wen am wit u I can't contol myself, and with d tot of u travelling I got confused n deverstited. AM SO SORRY"

Am so confused now. I don't know how to ask her without being offended dat I checked her inbox, so dat she can tell me wat really happened, who is chuks to her, if she really a virgin as am made to tink ETC.
I really love her, wish to marry her but confused, now
Pls Ur Advice

Listening to[i] Gollibe[/i] by flavor grin

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by deanoffaculty: 12:27pm On Feb 23, 2015

Checking your babe's inbox kills faster than AIDS............
If you want to live long and see your grandchildren, ignore the inbox thingsssss...

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Droidbot: 12:50pm On Feb 23, 2015

Yours is better. My own is my wife and gateman exchanged texts for a month now under my roofs

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Samyj247: 12:58pm On Feb 23, 2015

Ejimike:
I met this beautiful young girl mid last year but stated dating January this year. We have been so nice to each other, Wishing she could be my wife because of rare virtue she possess. She have told me many tin about herself. She told me dat am the first date she's having since birth. I belivd her because she always truthful (deeper life girl) in her early 20's 300 level Unversity student. I too also a true christian seeking for a Godly woman for marriage, I made my intention know to her (marriage relationship) not Worldly girl friend/lover though took me time to convince her.Though She havnt told me she's a virgin but everytin around her suggest she is,(born again, born into deeper life church, never have a male friend talkless of lover or sex) But to my greatest surprise today as I was going her Fone, collecting some nice pics, muzik, vedio. I just decided to go tru her SMS inbox I saw an sms from one CHUKS( de msg was sent almost 1yr now) it reads thus

"am so sorry for wot I did last night pls forgive me. I cudn't sleep last nite because of wat happened. D truth is dat I was obsessed over u, wen am wit u I can't contol myself, and with d tot of u travelling I got confused n deverstited. AM SO SORRY"

Am so confused now. I don't know how to ask her without being offended dat I checked her inbox, so dat she can tell me wat really happened, who is chuks to her, if she really a virgin as am made to tink ETC.
I really love her, wish to marry her but confused, now
Pls Ur Advice

Wat is her name? Onyinye?

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Phboy1(m): 1:03pm On Feb 23, 2015

If I were you, it won't bother me because it happened before it came on board. Being a virgin does not mean the person is a good lady. I my opinion you should contiune with her

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Sugahylz(f): 1:30pm On Feb 23, 2015

@ OP, just one favour please; come back and tell us how everything went. (that's if u decide to talk to her about it)

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Ejimike(op): 1:36pm On Feb 23, 2015

Phboy1:
If I were you, it won't bother me because it happened before it came on board. Being a virgin does not mean the person is a good lady. I my opinion you should contiune with her

Tanks

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by ElFenomeno1: 1:41pm On Feb 23, 2015

Ejimike:
I met this beautiful young girl mid last year but stated dating January this year. We have been so nice to each other, Wishing she could be my wife because of rare virtue she possess. She have told me many tin about herself. She told me dat am the first date she's having since birth. I belivd her because she always truthful (deeper life girl) in her early 20's 300 level Unversity student. I too also a true christian seeking for a Godly woman for marriage, I made my intention know to her (marriage relationship) not Worldly girl friend/lover though took me time to convince her.Though She havnt told me she's a virgin but everytin around her suggest she is,(born again, born into deeper life church, never have a male friend talkless of lover or sex) But to my greatest surprise today as I was going her Fone, collecting some nice pics, muzik, vedio. I just decided to go tru her SMS inbox I saw an sms from one CHUKS( de msg was sent almost 1yr now) it reads thus

"am so sorry for wot I did last night pls forgive me. I cudn't sleep last nite because of wat happened. D truth is dat I was obsessed over u, wen am wit u I can't contol myself, and with d tot of u travelling I got confused n deverstited. AM SO SORRY"

Am so confused now. I don't know how to ask her without being offended dat I checked her inbox, so dat she can tell me wat really happened, who is chuks to her, if she really a virgin as am made to tink ETC.
I really love her, wish to marry her but confused, now
Pls Ur Advice

Are you a stark illiterate?

Can you read back to yourself, the crap you have typed above.....

Let me know when you finish and if it makes any sense to you!

Dimwit

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by idu1(m): 2:35pm On Feb 23, 2015

U dare not ask her huh

The sms was sent a year ago for God sake.
That's her past long ago before u know her.
Did she tell u she b saint?

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by 2goodbobo(m): 2:48pm On Feb 23, 2015

You keep mentioning Virgin! Virgin!! is that a sin-qua-non to you getting Married to her?Between we all have history and
like you said, the message was dated one year ago.So let sleeping dog sleep.

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by baralatie(m): 3:05pm On Feb 23, 2015

freshness2020:
Guys these days are just looking for cheaper ways to suicide!
Checking bae's inbox? Mbanu!
I want to live long!

chaii!!!! I bust laf

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Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by baralatie(m): 3:13pm On Feb 23, 2015

in okonkwo voice!!!
op! op! op!
u are seeing the breeze that blew in the early afternoon,you saw you are confused!
the same breeze expose the fowl yansh,you say you are confused!!
lafing in okoro voice!!
hian!is alright
don't worry,what can a chick do!!!
you shouldn't be confused!

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Reallymilky(f): 3:19pm On Feb 23, 2015

Ejimike:
I met this beautiful young girl mid last year but stated dating January this year. We have been so nice to each other, Wishing she could be my wife because of rare virtue she possess. She have told me many tin about herself. She told me dat am the first date she's having since birth. I belivd her because she always truthful (deeper life girl) in her early 20's 300 level Unversity student. I too also a true christian seeking for a Godly woman for marriage, I made my intention know to her (marriage relationship) not Worldly girl friend/lover though took me time to convince her.Though She havnt told me she's a virgin but everytin around her suggest she is,(born again, born into deeper life church, never have a male friend talkless of lover or sex) But to my greatest surprise today as I was going her Fone, collecting some nice pics, muzik, vedio. I just decided to go tru her SMS inbox I saw an sms from one CHUKS( de msg was sent almost 1yr now) it reads thus

"am so sorry for wot I did last night pls forgive me. I cudn't sleep last nite because of wat happened. D truth is dat I was obsessed over u, wen am wit u I can't contol myself, and with d tot of u travelling I got confused n deverstited. AM SO SORRY"

Am so confused now. I don't know how to ask her without being offended dat I checked her inbox, so dat she can tell me wat really happened, who is chuks to her, if she really a virgin as am made to tink ETC.
I really love her, wish to marry her but confused, now
Pls Ur Advice

I think u shld ask her directly wat she feels abt premarital sex nd proceed wit asking her if she ever had sex...this ar normal stuffs u shld talk abt if u av plans for each oda witout her takin an offence..nd dnt mention d txt msg bt its allowed to ask abt past relatnship,mayb chucks wil come up...

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Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by eckersley: 5:41pm On Feb 23, 2015

2goodbobo:
You keep mentioning Virgin! Virgin!! is that a sin-qua-non to you getting Married to her?
Between we all have history and like you said, the message was dated one year ago.So let sleeping dog sleep.

If virginity is his prerequisite for marriage, how is that ur biz
that u r screaming out ur lungs?
It's even ur type that will take to their heels on discovering ur
fiancee was a pro pros.titute

We all have history
No we all don't.
That u might have a chequered past doesn't mean u shd lump everyone into
that subset
Misery indeed loves company

Leave the man alone to marry whoever he deems fit

Re: Advice Pls: Saw This SMS In My Girl-friend Inbox by Nobody: 5:43pm On Feb 23, 2015

If u dey find, u go see plenty

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