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Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by igbsam(m): 4:06pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
durocity: no vex, I no know say your category go join 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Reference(m): 4:07pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom: Said it. Some sick a.s.s. fetish. Buy her black leathers and a horse whip to formalise matters. Hahaha. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by sholikay(m): 4:07pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
missjenna:you no even fit order liquid to take step it down.. You no like me oooo. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by lonngmann(m): 4:08pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
igbsam:u gerrit but we are both on d same team. I only cine to nairaland to do all the things u wrote am not a tailor. .so I dont ave any thread to open |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom:Are you kidding me? Are you a prisoner in your marriage? Please stop making excuses for her. Only you and her kwa, how possible is that? Hmmm. Anything is possible sha. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom:...I like your initial response of not responding to her. Stop engaging her in any physical combat. Be the cool man, work away anytime there is disagreement... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by onadana: 4:12pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Commit suicide... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Babs24: 4:12pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
searching4love: Guy, U wicked gan an ooo... And you dey search 4 Love, wc woman go come love wen she know say if she mess up with you na die.... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Mynd44:...you are really a naija man... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Babs24: Guy i was once a nice guy. Na woman turn me to wild beast. So no blame me |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Babs24: 4:13pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
yorex2011: Is it a must to marry from your nation? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by igbsam(m): 4:14pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
lonngmann:Ma Niqqa...... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by pretydiva(f): 4:15pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
searching4love:y don't u come 2 my street n verify d story urself nitwit |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by M4gunners: 4:16pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
gilmaro:Bros only 10% of Oyibo will listen to any reason you will give her for giving money to your family. The guy is not the first person going through this at all. The reason it that they are not brought up that way . Everybody has his or her money. They are not used to giving. Op just divorce her before you kill her. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Reference(m): 4:16pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Iamsynord: Hahahaha. I concur. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Eluwilussit(m): 4:18pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Bro, agree with your wife and fix an amount that each of you will get monthly as spending money. That way it will be in your personal account and you can do whatever you want with yours. We are Africans and thus carry out relatives, friends and even our enemies along. As per the beating, I can't advice you. If I get slapped, I slap back as many times as possible. If you can't take it, don't give it. Your wife is just a typical Oyinbo girl. She loves you, no doubt. Appreciate her. She's a good woman. In their culture nowadays, guys receive slaps for breakfast, lunch and supper. 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
10 years older than you. You be Gold digger? Haba!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by pretydiva(f): 4:19pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
searching4love:keep on searching4love..dis is how u will search 4 love till jesus comes 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
try this. when she's angry try to make love to her. let her beat u then rape her. she might end up enjoying it. I had a girl who was like that. each time we quarrel I'd be her then she'd calm down n we'd have set but one day I held her hands and got hard and then forced her to have sex surprisingly she came like never before and I realised it was a fetish for her. she loved being raped especially when we had a fight... |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Ishilove: 4:20pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bushdoc9919:The nigga was a one-hit wonder 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by klark3: 4:21pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Op u're d cause. U gave her room to misbehave & become this recalcitrant. U're not even ashamed to create this kind of thread, ur wife beat u! U were looking @ her, ignoring her nasty, officious attitude hoping to be a good man. Probably u were one of those dat confided in specious notions like 'real men don't beat their wife', whereas d converse is d case. Like I always tell men, there is what I call corrective beating, is part of discipline, & should be implemented @ d initial stage of any vestige of disrespect on her part. Don't forget u're d head, if anything goes wrong, u definitely will be held accountable. U should learn to fix things early enough, because of ur passivity u can now see she is trying to turn u against ur family, which is unacceptable, because of ur being to quiet to a fault. Women are wired like children, they need iron hand, because they are illogically inclined. Don't be deluded by what they say, u often hear them saying any man that hit a women is less than a man, they say this to enable them do things with impunity. My advise; put it bluntly, let her know ur family is very important to u, any further interference from her may change her skin, & if she persist with her unruly behaviour, divorce her. Don't feel bad when they call u a wife beater, corporal punishment can sometimes be d only way to redress a woman's wrong. Don't be a slave by love, never allow her or any other woman to come between u & ur primary family, u knew them before her. I know the joint account thing must have been her initiative, so she can use it as a manipulative tool @ times like this. Any kids? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by redsun(m): 4:21pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Be an African and throw her out. She doesn't love you if she wants you to abandon your real family that obviously helped you were nobody. She needs to go back to Europe with the nuclear and selfish system of family. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by pretydiva(f): 4:22pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
searching4love:pained? In ur wildest dream |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by dinachi(m): 4:23pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
@OP stop making excuses for the violent beast you married. I am sorry I have to refer to her thus. When I said 90% of domestic violence cases are perpetrated by women, some mofos will be arguing with me! Now I have to appreciate you as most men are unable to speak out because of societal expectations. Your violent abusive wife have no excuse for raising her hand against you. Even if you sort out the money issues she will still find another reason to hit you. Divorce her immediately. She is evil! |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:23pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
He shud tie otapiapia round his waist him wife no go fit beat am again lol |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Reference(m): 4:24pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Dragonking: Sure. You'd have heard, he's just the beast from the east, or a pest from the west or a grouch from the south or the real hurt from the north. Corruption is widespread you know. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Dragonking: 4:26pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
TrishaP: If the man decides to use the strength to solve the problem, people like you would be the first to call him a beast, monster etc...you can see why I called you a hypocrite... Now the woman beats the man, she is not a beast or monster and divorce isn't the best option..mtchheeeww. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by Reference(m): 4:28pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
Justfollowit: Caring with uppercuts abi. Ma'am, 60% of the text is about domestic violence. Is this all you can say. See blatant kwarraption. |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by olu77(m): 4:29pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
igbsam: In a nutshell you need job abi? 1 Like |
Re: Help! I Am Being Physically Abused By My Wife! What Will I Do? by quickly: 4:29pm On Feb 28, 2015 |
bokom: Simple tell her ur a repaying loan u took for your studies. Women prefer lies |
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