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| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Redlips22(m): 7:58am On Mar 01, 2015 |
@op.. according to ur writeup, I dnt think u guys r married, so first thin first. Go nd pay her dowry. It's very important and dat must b wen u hv pleaded wit her to com bak.. It's very important.. Best of luck.. Marriage is a world of its own |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dkronicle(m): 7:59am On Mar 01, 2015 |
I just hope u dont try sth like dat yinkus4u2c: |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 7:59am On Mar 01, 2015 |
zeb04:Stop supporting an evil woman who wants to destroy the OP through verbal, emotional and sometimes physical abuse! Learn to be fair, it will do you good. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 7:59am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Moana:You know that's not possible |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by homesteady(m): 8:00am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Someone please pass me a tissue! What a touching story! |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 8:00am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Redlips22:I need some from what you are smoking |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by MARKone(m): 8:03am On Mar 01, 2015 |
yinkus4u2c:Women will always be women abi ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by GentleToks(m): 8:03am On Mar 01, 2015*. Modified: 11:10am On Mar 01, 2015 |
zeb04:Lol!!! It's easy said than done; I ll pray that you never find yourself in this situation. If you are well brought as a man in a healthy and loving married environment, you ll be determined to give your wife d best just like d way your father was doing while you are growing up but if you are unfortunately married to a wrong woman, you ll realise that those promises and dream of giving your wife d best is being broken by you as result of bad wife attitude and that is where your sadness in life ll continue to come from......... I pray for u not to see d other side of a woman |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by NemzySeries(m): 8:05am On Mar 01, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:u jst made ma morning by asking a sensitive question to d blind......pls manage dis ma "Happy New month"..ure d 1st getting it 4rm me ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Aystarz: 8:05am On Mar 01, 2015 |
EggovinMma:Funny but true. Nice perspective you brought in here. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by ElFenomeno1: 8:07am On Mar 01, 2015 |
She was apologetic and then insulting again ....... ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 8:08am On Mar 01, 2015 |
zeb04:Hey shut your rotten puccy! Attacking the OP to hide your profound feelings of personal inadequacy? Yaba left beckons if you don't remove your dishevelled head from your ass! How dare you attack a quintessential gentleman like the OP? Can you stomach what he has borne being with that woman? Do you even know what self control entails? Pls carry your own juju comot for here... ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by MARKone(m): 8:09am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Redlips22:OP is just lucky that they were just live in partners when the lady start showing her true nature and how the OP can react when push comes to shove. Paying her dowry is not advisable now, maybe in the near future when and if the agree to live peacefully together. Let the child for now, be the only binding factor between them. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by zeb04(f): 8:10am On Mar 01, 2015 |
dinachi:you sound like a child ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 8:11am On Mar 01, 2015 |
zeb04: |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Amazo: 8:12am On Mar 01, 2015 |
mcdokwe:@OP: I didn't write this story, you did and likely without any coercion. Firstly, stop lying! You didn't "hit" her, you BEAT her up, gave her knockout blows multiple times. This blatant lie is enough for me to reason that girl isn't the "rebel" you depict her to be. Until her side of the story is known, yours remains unbelievable, questionable and very doubtful. From your story, all I see is a man looking for fools to massage your ego, and desparately seeking public acceptance to justify your barbaric act. Even if it's assumed she is as guilty as you claim, still it doesn't justify your reckless behavior. The energy you used in making this narrative would have been better off used to pacify your victim. And clearly you don't "regret" beating her. If you truly regretted it, you would be speaking with shame and remorse, and not with the arrogance you're displaying that will encourage others like you feel good with themselves beating up girls anyhow they like. Every right thinking individual will denounce your actions. We all should SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE! Go find a man your size if you want to test your boxing skills, or you can come spar with an alpha male like me. I'll be glad to knock you out for free ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by NemzySeries(m): 8:12am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Ladies are jst sumfin else..weneva d issue of physical abuse in a relationship or marriage cums up dey all feel d man is a beast,demon,devil's cousin and all dat but dey all fail to understand dat everyman has a LIMIT u can stretch him to and datz wat d lady failed to understand and i bliv she wuz misled by her fellow goose........av neva touched a lady ma whole life and i dunt wish or pray to but honestly d guy tried bkos if na me i 4 don use petrol and fire turn her to burnt offering or living sacrifice.....happy sunday and happy New month |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 8:12am On Mar 01, 2015 |
yinkus4u2c:And men will always be men so??the fact is that both the OP and the lady in question both caused it,the lady verbally abused him and he physically abused her...they both have fault so stop putting more of the blame on the guy because no one has the monopoly for violence.....NEXT!!!!,am not supporting domestic violence but what am saying is that both men and women are guilty of domestic violence and so do unto others what you would love others do unto you......when the lady is abusing the guy they will keep quiet and tell the guy to hold on even when the guy is already dead inside his body but when the guy abuse the lady back you start saying "oh she is a woman"women will always be women bla bla bla,....**angrily tears his boxers and scream "good morning miss yinka" ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by GentleToks(m): 8:13am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Pls and pls @all, don't ever believe that marriage should be managed like a secular companies. You all deserve the best after going thru that stressful primary education to tertiary institutions; searched for jobs in labour market for months and eventually got one. Pls don't entertain their idea of managing a wife, you all deserve the best and go for the best. The least ting you deserve after stressful day at work is peaceful home but if you allow a bad lady to cajole u into marriage under d pretence of "Bride price", hmmm!!! I pity u and unborn children who ll grow up to see a miserable life. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 8:13am On Mar 01, 2015 |
zeb04:Take your drugs next time and check with your handler before you contribute in a public forum. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by zeb04(f): 8:13am On Mar 01, 2015 |
[quote author=dinachi post=31189928][/quote] ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by zeb04(f): 8:15am On Mar 01, 2015 |
dinachi: |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 8:17am On Mar 01, 2015 |
fairygeh:Tell her to discard such useless friends and she would say you are possessive and controlling. I have seen countless times when friends where hitting on their friends bf and would try as much as possible to detroy such relationship by givig bad advice but most ladies are just gullible and would continue feeding on such till things go cabut. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 8:19am On Mar 01, 2015 |
zeb04:No be only that one. You sound like a curse! ![]() |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by zeb04(f): 8:20am On Mar 01, 2015 |
dinachi:I am tired of your games. Pls kindly stop the mentions. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by GentleToks(m): 8:21am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Redlips22:Lol!!!! I pity people with this mentality of bride price. A bride price ll never change a bad lady to a good wife. Have you asked yourself why marriages are failing at alarming rate despite the fact that bride prices have been paid? Marriage are failingly and falling as result of silly things that are deemed to be important which are not. If you find a good lady who is in love with you without hiding her attitude while you are dating, bride price become d least thing in her mind, all she would be looking for is your happiness. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 8:22am On Mar 01, 2015 |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by LAGATA(m): 8:24am On Mar 01, 2015 |
@op, are we neighbours? had the same bitter experience last night. We have bn married for Seven years and i have never imagined i cld ever raise my hands on my woman. No matter to what extent she provokes me, i still tru find a peaceful way of resolving issues. Mine is even a bit challenging coz of cultural differences (am yoruba and shes hausa). The past seven years has bn so challenging. we have lost 2 innocent kids so u can imagine the frustration and challenges. What is it abt our women being 'misled' by their unmarried and divorced friends? The height of provocation was ystday. Imagine my woman exchanging luv msgs wt an unknown man. Confronted her wt all the proofs bt she was still denying to the extent of creating a fight. Had to land her a slap on her face. So sad i have never done such. Realising i shldnt have done that and controlled myself, spent the whole night pleading wt her to forgive me for my actions and not even wt wat was on ground. Even wt the sleeping pills i swallowed, i jst cldnt slp. Rather i was feeling so bad and full of regets for raising my hand on her.... To all the ladies out there (single and married), pls forgive us. Appologies too for the long gist |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by dinachi(m): 8:25am On Mar 01, 2015 |
dinachi:I was actually trying to get you to reason with me. I mean no harm. I just want you ladies to try and be fair in you observations. That's all. |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by boik(m): 8:27am On Mar 01, 2015 |
Op you gave her some blows because she smashed your phone on the ground? I'd be disappointed in you if I knew you. Inasmuch as there's NO REASON whatsoever to hit your female partner, this your own reason is very pathetic. If your baby or little child or mum smashes your phone on the ground would you give them some blows too? A phone you could even misplace or could get spoilt and no blows would be given to anybody. The good side of your post is that you've come to realize you were wrong and regret it. Please don't try to console yourself by saying she deserved it. Just be sorry and never repeat that again... Its beastly! |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Moana(f): 8:27am On Mar 01, 2015 |
ollah1:well i guess we will never know the reason why she would get angry with him then |
| Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by charismaticdave(m): 8:29am On Mar 01, 2015 |
mcdokwe:After reading your story, am sure the lady truly deserve it. I knew a lady then, anytime we had a misunderstanding , she beats and slapsme 11 times , and she did it for 6 months, when I striked back, some people just called me a beast, if am a beast, then what was she? |
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