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Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Dheartless: 12:10pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
if these ladies are blaming the man for his action, I wonder what they would tag him if he was the one that behaved like the Lady! am sure they would have been cursing the government for not taking the man "lady animal " to jail. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by delugadou(m): 12:12pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
reminiscing: I know u wish u were in her shoes......don't worry, u'll get a loving guy too 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:14pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Kimoni:Tell him abeg. I seriously believe op is not telling us everything. When he's ready for the truth, I'll know 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by mcdokwe(m): 12:14pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Amefrica:don't say bro, don't just say |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by greatgod2012(f): 12:16pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
seunoni34: I already have the best man in my life. This is the 10th year of my marriage. Thanks for your wishes. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:19pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
pastorKosiso:10000 likes Though I can't even think of laying a hand on a man but you're a rare breed May God's grace multiply daily in your life. Amen 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by mcdokwe(m): 12:24pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
cococandy:I was going to marry her immediately she took in but she said her dad was still very mad and can't entertain my presence, she it was that advised we take it slow. Her being a good girl doesn't however extend to hauling unwarranted insults at me at will 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:27pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Choi* I nearly cry for comments wey I read... Some dey blame the man, even some guys too dey blame the man say hin no get patience and again one mad man talk say make OP go pay dowry hahahahahahahahaha that's the funniest and silliest comment... Well, OP you did what I would have done. In as much as there is no justification for violence there is also none for verbal abuse. OP I would advice you don't beg her, advice her and make her see reasons but don't beg like you would die if you lose her cos you won't... Safe 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
EggovinMma:why u dey use another handle lynpetra? 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Dheartless: 12:32pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
if you give me a dirty slap I will give you a dirtier slap, period. I wish men will understand that some idiots just want to hide behind being a woman to misbehave all they want I refuse to be a victim of any form of abuse and I won't wait for you to slap me only to return to apologise, for me to be sure you love me, what of if she doesn't love me?, so it means I have giving one fool the opportunity to just give me a dirty slap and get away happily and proudly. THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN! I don't beat women even over verbal abuse, but you raise your hand against me, I gladly return the favour. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:33pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:rare breed ko cassava bread ni una dey like dummy... When I was in school I had a flat mate who had a GF. They were so inlove ehn the guy used to say he has never and will never hit a woman. For where, moths into their relationship this girl wan kill this guy, everytime fight quarel, she even used pot to hit him on the head, abused his family members both his firstborn(about 40yrs old), countless insult and one day the girl frustrated the guy and locked him inside and hid the key. The guy called us to beg her but she wouldn't open up or even allow him rest in the locked room..... Guy got frustrated and beat her up. I happy no be small... Its people like you that will still say "whatever happens to hit a. Woman" #Trash 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by mcdokwe(m): 12:37pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
You failed to grab my point, I avoided a fight while we were locked in because she stood no chance, I hoped the other ladies could stop me from hitting her in their presence, I didn't write all these to absorb myself of blames, but to make people understand others bring upon unfavourable reactions on themselves. Believe me, I love this lady so much and do not intend painting her all bad and for that reason leave out some details. I believe she can read all this, it is up to her to learn from posts here as much as I am learning, hopefully other would learn too GenBuhari: 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Feraz(m): 12:41pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
sweetcocoa:Bless you ma'am! 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:42pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Owliver:Like I acknowledged earlier,A woman shouldn't go physical with a man So you don't want God's grace to multiply in the life of the guy because he could control his temper abi? Do u want to know the truth? I'll tell you Even your sisters n your mom will behave in a way that will make you want to beat them and justify it. Except you beat them also, you can't justify beating your woman. ALL women have times they drive a man(being a bro, father, uncle, boyfriend, pastor etc) So if you chose to be a woman beater, u go beat tire |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:45pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
mcdokwe:Honey quit all these justifications, it's irritating Again I ask, what did you do when she became apologetic? Of course you were unrepentant. U pushed her to her limits too. Has she gotten physical with you before? Has she behaved like to that point before? U sound like u're the only one doing doing Sth U've never done. |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 12:46pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
mcdokwe: Why not? There's nothing in this world that isn't controllable. I'm so sure you could have controlled yourself if you wanna. Girls can be really annoying sometimes, agreed - but they don't deserve beating. You giving her deadly blows sounds so un-manly. Anyways, the deed is done. Just try not to hit your next girl. All the best. |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:48pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:Pls I beg you in God's name don't give me that trash. I believe my mom won't do such and If my sister behaves anyhow and gets beaten I won't do nada if she deserves it... There are justified reasons to beat a woman. If you lock me in a room and refuse to let me go out and cool my head off am sorry you leave me with no choice. And if you want to end the f^cking marriage be my guest You don't do nonsense and expect to be pampered that's stupidity. I hate violence and also get angry when my brothers beat our sister but sometimes she deserves it even when I fight for her. Everyone has limit and mayb she has no met mine. Abeg dey go no quote me again I hate that "don't beat a woman talk"""" Don't ABusE A maN 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by logica(m): 12:50pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Owliver:Ha. You don't want the multiplication of God's grace? You prefer division? Me I want exponentiation o! |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by mcdokwe(m): 12:52pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Vikky014:well atleast your message got her to send me one too, only that she said all I was doing was pulling stunts. I still appreciate your effort though |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:53pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:see the bolded... You make me mad and you want me to just forgive and forget immediately you say "sorry honey""" is that not it? The man tried to go out to cool off she stopped him you people are just impossible. That was how a woman opened a thread complaining her husband is still angry and didn't buy her gift even though she apologised before her birthday. Can you imagine how you people think. You want to rub my chest and say "honey pls forgive me" and expect everything to die down immediately? That can be done only magical.... If you aint married yet I ray you don't jam someone like me. Mtcheeew* 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Dheartless: 12:55pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:are you saying that women can't control themselves? if that's what you mean,you are indirectly saying women are lesser being, after all it is the brain that controls your body so if a woman's brain can't keep up with her emotions it means she needs brain upgrade. my mom never went physical on my dad, my dad never went physical on my mom my mom only rarely went verbal but that was early in their marriage and same did my dad. because of some sane ladies here I will only tag "a lesser being" any girl that feels her brain can not restrict her misbehavior but a mans brain must restrict his anger in all situation and against all odds YES that kind of lady is a lesser being. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:56pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Owliver:Congratulations!!!!! Did you ever think about what could push the woman to such limits? Or is it because you're stronger? Ask the op what he said that made the woman flare up that much(even while she was being apologetic) My conclusion is that the op verbally abuses her because she had a baby for him outside wedlock and op throws it all in her face cos he lacks respect for her. Ever thought of what could make her get to that point? No!!! Just beat her It takes two to tango and op needs to quit playing saint. Pls Don't quote me again either |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 12:57pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:Being a woman doesn't give you the right to drive anyone mad.. Try driving your dad or elder brother mad and see if you won't receive a dirty slap in return. Your theory is the very problem with Nigeria, hypocrisy and self entitlement. If a lady wants respect, she has to give it, I would have rooted for the lady in this story only and only if she had allowed the man an escape route. I once tried to stop a friend from hitting the wife, the blow ended up on my face instead, yet the lady I was protecting from being beaten was still running her mouth. I simply removed myself and became a.spectator, before I suffer for the sins of another person. Bottom line, is everyone knows that the power of a woman is in her subtlenes rather than her mouth. For the unpteenth time, every action requires an equal and opposite reaction, otherwise the equilibrium is tampered with and the system will fail. 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:57pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
logica:f^ck any pastor or priest who say that to me in issues like this. I won't die or trade my happiness just to be in a marriage or relationship. I want to leave long and peaceful and any f^cking daughter of a madaf^cker who tries to tamper with that is gonna have to face me head on. After I dismantle you and have my way out. I call you to order you misbehave. I give you leave go your papa house, you no behave we divorce I continue playing pes. I want to live in peace 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by mcdokwe(m): 12:59pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:I am not justifying anything, like I said people shouldn't be pushed to do things they would regret later. I didn't do anything special and for the records I still believe I owe her a lot whether or not we end up together, I know there are men who could be more tolerant than I was but there are also some who couldn't take an inch of all I took. My wish is that she overcomes that so that she wouldn't find herself always saying sorry to the tolerant man or ending up with black eyes from the less tolerant one. 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by mcdokwe(m): 1:05pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:lol, like I already said, I am not about spilling everything about the relationship here, but believe it or not, her having that child more than anything earned her not just more of my respect and that of my friends, but was enough for me to overlook everything. Better put, I loved and respected her and with the child in our lives, I loved and respected her even more than I believed I could. 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 1:05pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Dheartless: I'm happy you admitted your mom went verbal sometimes. That's women for you. Why didn't your dad beat her in revenge? You see your dad(bless his heart) was able to deal with it without everything degenerating into a fight Physical abuse is a no no for me. A woman should never ever raise her hand on a man. But also a man should not push a woman to such limits and come here to justify beating like op is doing now. I maintain that the op's role before going physical doesn't add up |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Owliver(m): 1:07pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Rose2014:oh you just concluded on your own. Smh read his story again and again and assume and conclude with that. Don't make up something in ur head. There's no reason to abuse a man or a woman but if it happens. Do not lock me in I will run mad inside. Lemme go out and take 3 bottles of star and come back for hot f^ck but do no f^cking block my way. If you do I will dismantle you. If you say you women are created to talk we men are also created physically stronger. Respect is reciprocal 1 Like |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Nobody: 1:08pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
EggovinMma:no fear lol. Just playing with you. Wetin you do your boyfriend Wey make am.pursue u? I hope him no blow you like the op |
Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by Rose2014: 1:10pm On Mar 01, 2015 |
Owliver:But when u say sorry to your woman, she accepts and you're happy ba?. Anyway Men and women are not programmed the same way. Yes we do expect u to let go when we're sorry |
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