Most cases, is not really their character dat is d issue, but i think two major reason are responsible for their bn single as they cant marry them self, 1 reason is economics situatn and 2, high cost of marriage

StealthIdeals:
Now let me jump to ur side of the fence. These assaults are getting to much on ur person. If u wil reward me, I nw pledge my allegiance to thee!

Tell me something, majority of prisoners are male, right?

So this is also a proven reason why there are many women than men in the society. Most people don't get this. The truth is not always far fetched.

Na Jonathan naa... when he's busy feedin' us wiv lies n false promises of transformation. I guess he's already transformin' dia lives naa. Economy no gud, hw marriage wan take sweet?

dovelike:

Many many more. But those flooded prison are mostly males, right?

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True, but what's total prison population in 9ja? Totally insignificant.

In any case many people in prison are already married. Some even spend months or a couple of years and resume normal life.

Finding a man is easy as hell. They everywhere and it's not that hard to get them marry you!

Finding a man who you are compatible with is another story. I take being single and happy over being in a shaky marriage any day.

dovelike:

Don't you think am handling them well?

It seems u like wars. Attack and retreat, they say, is a philosophy in combat; those who subscribe to attack tactics alone are the ilk that never returned frm fiercest wars.

Teespice:


can you do me a huge favour and shut up.

haba.

in your warped and twisted mind you sabi yarn.

smh.

Don't mind the illiterate. If he had read the surrounding verses of that particular chapter very well, he wouldn't wish such an event on his own future son. Males that use such bible verses are not only broke with dull future(s) but lack comprehensive skills. That's why they foolishly misinterpret anything.

dovelike:

Scarcity of men na. I'm not insulting you guys o. Just my opinion.

Beta

Yareey:
Finding a man is easy as hell. They everywhere and it's not that hard to get them marry you!

Finding a man who you are compatible with is another story. I take being single and happy over being in a shaky marriage any day.

dis hijaab wey dey ur head no go allow me talk wetin dey my mind for u

Yareey:
Finding a man is easy as hell. They everywhere and it's not that hard to get them marry you!

Finding a man who you are compatible with is another story. I take being single and happy over being in a shaky marriage any day.

And that is the basic truth...good for you!

AreaFada2:
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True, but what's total prison population in 9ja? Totally insignificant.

We are not talking about only Nigeria. Are we? Have you been to a prison before?

Yareey:
Finding a man is easy as hell. They everywhere and it's not that hard to get them marry you!

Finding a man who you are compatible with is another story. I take being single and happy over being in a shaky marriage any day.

Finding a responsible man is very difficult

StealthIdeals:
It seems u like wars. Attack and retreat, they say, is a philosophy in combat; those who subscribe to attack tactics alone are the ilk that never returned frm fiercest wars.

True words. I'm watching a movie on my phone. I believe I've retreated.

MRMICKMEN:


leave her na small girl dey worry her,she is preparing for junior waec.pple dey talk basket dey open mouth.see ur mouth

Lol. Bruh you have a wicked tongue. Lmao!
But to be frank, the good lady was just speaking from a lighter perspective. I'm surprised u chose to see an insult instead of having a good laugh. Cos her comment was crazy funny. I laughed. Hard.

butanep:
So many humble and harsh opinion about the women above 30 that are still single...

Majority of them are the cause of their problems...

1. Finding a man that is dark, tall and cute like me. When they practically know men like us don't easily give into the marriage philosophy. We have mission to accomplished before finally settling down. I laugh when some, still prove stubborn that they will wait. They don't know there is another younger n fresher lady we are interested inn...

2. Some keep on finding the " already made men in street". You still see a lady @ her late 20's stating that her husband "must" have a car, house and earning a fat salary. I am not saying having standard or taste is bad but when they are not forth coming, it is better to forgo the standard and get someone that both of you can get to that standard. It's only girls of 17 to 20 that normally sing those songs.

3. Some have nothing to offer except sex. Bullshit to that woman that can't contribute meaningfully to the welfare of a man except to the welfare of his bed. He will take you as someone that don't have goals in life.

4. Some girls always claim they are not single, whereas deep down in their heart, they are bloody single. They keep scaring the serious guyz, that they have somebody. Whereas there is nobody on ground or the person does not even care.

5. High cost of marriage ceremony. Why will I spend my hard earned income on that so called multi-marriage. Will do introduction, traditional marriage, white wedding, reception and honey moon. A man with an average earning can hardly afford this, hence will decide to be single for sometimes thereby making some ladies remain perpetual single.

6. Harsh economy. The economy is not easy my brother. Unemployment everywhere. Even the ladies get better jobs now than the guyz because of that thing( you know the thing). Guyz are in the street hustling to get daily bread for themselves and family. Marriage become least in their priority.

7 Some ladies problem on being single is spiritual. Some might have offended that womam in the village or their mother or parents have done something evil in the past. So they need deliverance from a good prophet.

8. Some ladies lacks manners. They don't know what courtesy demands hence people see them as uncultured ladies.

9. Some ladies are liability. They didn't go to school, or learn a trade or handwork or even know how to cook. They used their early youth life finding the d!ck that is bigger or sweeter. Karma now showing itself now.

10. Some ladies are meant to be single because no body can tolerate their attitude.

My humble opinion.

From your epistle, I can only agree with number 6. The rest are simply bull shiit.

dovelike:

True words. I'm watching a movie on my phone. I believe I've retreated.

Lol. I gbadun u.

dovelike:

We are not talking about only Nigeria. Are we? Have you been to a prison before?

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Lol, a very close family member was a senior police officer. Many things you get to know through that.

In any case, as a boy, during holiday, I used to sit among the audience in the High Court. Such interest inform you about crime in society. Now people play video games and ping away at that age.

nzeaji:
The problem is, marriage is not for everyone.

Our culture just makes it seem that way.

The same bible that says multiply and be fruitful (in genesis) also says in 1 Corinthians 7:9 "if they cannot contain, let them marry....."
This means marriage is optional. If you can "contain", why worry about marriage?

liess our women are too unloving, ooo, they dont care,they use and dump men like tissue paper in their youth years, claiming they dont need men, now kassala don burst...

Enegod:
That's because men are scarce
Polygamy can solve the problem

very scarce my man

dovelike:
I think the main reason is that most of the men are in prison.

and many are being shot dead on daily bases..

wristwatch:


Finding a responsible man is very difficult

I'm not sure about that. I have seen a lot of responsible men but responsibility alone can not hold a marriage. There has to be a genuine click and that's the hardest part.

koyyess:
And that is the basic truth...good for you!

tcalc:
dis hijaab wey dey ur head no go allow me talk wetin dey my mind for u

English pls

walexGodson:
Girls self too like shakara

kassallah don burst , shakara time is over...

AjaoMT2:


Sorry if I sound a little harsh, but it is this kind of thinking that has gotten many ladies in trouble and still keeps getting them in trouble. Somebody close to me lost her life recently because she felt she was getting old and made a wrong choice of which she was strongly warned not to. I have noticed that our women, given a choice between not getting married and living a rich and fulfilling life and getting married and suffer and even die there will prefer the latter because of the pressure our society put on them to marry at all cost. Why are we not talking about 30+ unmarried guys? Why are we not concentrating on these ladies achieving personal fulfillment first? Many ladies because of societal pressure would get married to the wrong person just for the sake of being married. We normally groom our girls for marriage first and in so doing make them sell out their own personal desires and aspiration. We directly or indirectly encourage them to settle for anything in the choice of their career since "they will eventually end up in a man's house. We treat them like second class citizens and brainwash them right from birth that their entire life purpose is for marriage. Yet marriage is not an end but a means to an end. It is a journey that two people have decided to undertake as a team as equals with the man as a functional leader. It is a relationship based on synergy, i.e., the idea that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. For such to happen, we need to move from dependence as children and teenagers into independence before we enter into interdependence(relationships). Only a truly independent person should enter into interdependent relationships of which marriage is one. Let us encourage our girls (I am raising up my daughter that way and I am a man) to develop themselves to the highest level first and continue to enjoy their lives until the person they believe is right for them comes.

Damn!!!! This guy is so intelligent.

eagleeyez:
I believe most of you will understand what I mean

Its really saddening when you see ladies over the age of 30 still single. I don't feel its about character as I have seen many ladies with terrible characters get married.

Most these ladies are accomplished. Even with the programmes for singles in churches, stilll no show.The muslims also have programmes where they assist singles in getting married,still no show.

Please, don't state that they want rich men as we all know what is going on now,our women are practically becoming bread winners. Some earn higher than their husbands

These single ladies don't mind getting married to men who are of a lower earning capacity.

What is then the problem?!?

Most ladies believe that due to technological advancement, a lot of things have changed and therefore abandon the tenets of marriage which were obeyed by our great grand mothers in Africa which secured early and sustained their marriages until death, and have resorted to copying and implementing white man culture in African soil, what a display of lack of wisdom! No marriage is visible until the rules are obeyed in character and utterances.

StealthIdeals:
Pride and 21st century syndrome.

you talk am finish ma guy.,

A lot of reasons are responsible for this problem: Materialism, poverty, unemployment, modernism, influx of Western culture and corruption. Materialism has really contributed in this problem because majority of ladies today are after rich guys or a guy from wealthy family whether he has a good character or not. Moreover, poverty has not help matters too, why? the answer is not far fetched because unemployment has become the order of day in our society today. Modernism and influx of oyinbo culture contributed immensely in this problem too, i.e porns sites, social media etc. All the above boils down to corruption in our society, corruption entails bad governance, by bad leaders, this translate to bad society.

AreaFada2:
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Lol, a very close family member was a senior police officer. Many things you get to know through that.

In any case, as a boy, during holiday, I used to sit among the audience in the High Court. Such interest inform you about crime in society. Now people play video games and ping away at that age.

Yeah. It's such a waste now. Even our president says he fears for the future of Nigeria when he looks at the young ones.

Edusouls:
and many are being shot dead on daily bases..

Yesss. And that's really bad.

dovelike:

Lol. Nahh. He is too dumb.

Yup ur right

dovelike:

If I have a low IQ like you said, with what I have now, and who I am, I gladly embrace it. Not you with a very high IQ but just a body in Nigeria, constituting nuisance to the country. Make your self useful please and help the damn country.

Piece of advice,
Not every statement deserves a retort,
Returning people's insults only brings u to their level,
NL may be a "faceless" forum, but trust me, people take note.

dovelike:
I think the main reason is that most of the men are in prison.

true not only that... what about the men they once dated?
it could be due to many reasons ranging from economic conditions, attitude, personal decision, the kind of men they have come across,unrealistic expectations etc

the fact is that women are tormented by the evil deeds of their past, these women have done all sorts of things in their past,wicked deeds,multiple abortion, multiple sex partners, multiple boyfriends,dating of married men, business dating, using and dumping men anytime, anyhow they like, bankrupting men in the name of luv, wickedness, rude ways,daily liars,deceit. What goes around comes around, u dont just do things noo,u must pay for it, these women are paying for their life full of wicked deeds..