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For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by tammmy(op): 5:35pm On Mar 19, 2015
Even though its called unwanted because we might not be physically and mentally ready for it, as for me i would keep it anyway......
...............What would you do?
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by cozy7(m): 5:39pm On Mar 19, 2015
Fast and pray!
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by PunkyOh(f): 5:46pm On Mar 19, 2015
It depends on the circumstances around the pregnancy. For instance, I wouldn't keep a pregnancy that resulted from ràpe. I think it would always serve as a reminder of what took place. That'd be awful to live with.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 5:47pm On Mar 19, 2015
PunkyOh:
It depends on the circumstances around the pregnancy. For instance, I wouldn't keep a pregnancy that resulted from ràpe. I think it would always serve as a reminder of what took place. That'd be awful to live with.
But that's awful. The child has done nothing wrong. He/she doesn't deserve to die because of the rape.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 5:48pm On Mar 19, 2015
I would encourage the girl to keep the pregnancy, after delivery ill kill him or her with my bare hands grin
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by PunkyOh(f): 5:51pm On Mar 19, 2015
YourMain:
But that's awful. The child has done nothing wrong. He/she doesn't deserve to die because of the rape.
Ah well. I still wouldn't keep it.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by tammmy(op): 6:02pm On Mar 19, 2015
Bluestarry:
I would encourage the girl to keep the pregnancy, after delivery ill kill him or her with my bare hands grin
thats inhuman bro
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by tammmy(op): 6:04pm On Mar 19, 2015
PunkyOh:
Ah well. I still wouldn't keep it.
wen ur pregnant u would feel the bond between you and that child . it would be monstrous to eliminate the bby
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by ronald4lif(m): 6:06pm On Mar 19, 2015
YourMain:
But that's awful. The child has done nothing wrong. He/she doesn't deserve to die because of the rape.
God forbids you get rape and pregnant in the process, keep the pregnancy you hear. undecided
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 6:06pm On Mar 19, 2015
tammmy:
thats inhuman bro
it a disaster
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by PunkyOh(f): 6:16pm On Mar 19, 2015
tammmy:
wen ur pregnant u would feel the bond between you and that child . it would be monstrous to eliminate the bby
The "bond" is a myth. Not every woman takes well to pregnancy, hence there's even things like postnatal depression etc. Some women are instantly maternal, while some may need a bit of time to connect to their maternal side, with the help of medication & therapy of course.

I'm sure you've seen/heard of those terrible mothers that either drink or smoke during pregnancy, where's the so called "bond" in cases like that? Like I said, it's instant for some & not so much for others.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 7:09pm On Mar 19, 2015
ronald4lif:
God forbids you get rape and pregnant in the process, keep the pregnancy you hear. undecided
I would 100%. Its my child too.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by julietchic(f): 7:55pm On Mar 19, 2015
I will keep it, God hate abortion and i will never try it in my life.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:08pm On Mar 19, 2015
No disrespect to Op or any1

Buh this question will not be asked if we stayed away from adultery and fornication
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by tammmy(op): 8:13pm On Mar 19, 2015
MuhdG:
No disrespect to Op or any1

Buh this question will not be asked if we stayed away from adultery and fornication
wat about rape victims. is rape fofornication?
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by englishmart(m): 8:16pm On Mar 19, 2015
every pregnancy is wanted
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 19, 2015
tammmy:
wat about rape victims is rape fofornication
No. Buh trust me. Them gurls play a big role in "rape"
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by 25omega(m): 8:24pm On Mar 19, 2015
MuhdG:
No. Buh trust me. Them gurls play a big role in "rape"
Like what role would a girl play in her being raped huh

what if it was your sister or mom who got assaulted? you can't blame a victim. Rape is wrong even if the girl is walking around naked you can't grab her and fnck her because you think her being naked automatically invites you to have sex with her. Think before you respond
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by 25omega(m):
julietchic:
I will keep it, God hate abortion and i will never try it in my life.
Where did you meet God? and where in the bible was abortion mentioned?


I knew some people will get in a tizzy over the above statement. Calm down churchy and stop quoting me over some bs
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by 25omega(m): 8:25pm On Mar 19, 2015
englishmart:
every pregnancy is wanted
grin grin grin grin
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 19, 2015
25omega:
Like what role would a girl play in her being raped huh

what if it was your sister or mom who got assaulted? you can't blame a victim. Rape is wrong even if the girl is walking around naked you can't grab her and fnck her because you think her being naked automatically invites you to have sex with her. Think before you respond
A rapist checks for the greenlight.
If a woman dresses decently, knows her footstep well, than probability that she would get raped is very small compared to a woman who dresses any how, revealing a lot of "skin". In that scenario the rapist becomes motivated to explore the whole "skin".

Its just like a thief or robber. If u r reach and u secure your house/property properly with watch dogs, sophisticated security guards do you think the theif/robber will think of coming near ur house or property??

Now let another rich man leave his house nd property unsecured and see whether the thief/robber won't come and "rape" his properties!
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:14pm On Mar 19, 2015
tammmy:
Even though its called unwanted because we might not be physically and mentally ready for it, as for me i would keep it anyway......
...............What would you do?
"Keep it."
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by 25omega(m): 3:54pm On Mar 20, 2015
MuhdG:
A rapist checks for the greenlight.
If a woman dresses decently, knows her footstep well, than probability that she would get raped is very small compared to a woman who dresses any how, revealing a lot of "skin". In that scenario the rapist becomes motivated to explore the whole "skin".

Its just like a thief or robber. If u r reach and u secure your house/property properly with watch dogs, sophisticated security guards do you think the theif/robber will think of coming near ur house or property??

Now let another rich man leave his house nd property unsecured and see whether the thief/robber won't come and "rape" his properties!
you are obviously not paying attention. A rapist or a thief has an agenda. It doesn't matter if you are dressed like a nun or even if you were cement underwear. A motivated rapist will rape so will a motivated thief irregardless of whatever type of security they might have. The point here is your first statement of "them girls play a role in rape" your point of view is really scary and you should change that thought. Because God forbid if your sister gets raped, would you say it's her fault? or would you say because she was wearing a skirt then she was inviting the rapist to assault her?
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 5:38pm On Mar 20, 2015
25omega:
you are obviously not paying attention. A rapist or a thief has an agenda. It doesn't matter if you are dressed like a nun or even if you were cement underwear. A motivated rapist will rape so will a motivated thief irregardless of whatever type of security they might have. The point here is your first statement of "them girls play a role in rape" your point of view is really scary and you should change that thought. Because God forbid if your sister gets raped, would you say it's her fault? or would you say because she was wearing a skirt then she was inviting the rapist to assault her?
I understand you but I don't think u understand wat am trying to say.

In few words what I want to say is

The way a girl dresses CONTRIBUTES to d probability of her getting raped. And it may be high or low!
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by angrybird007: 9:00pm On Mar 20, 2015
Abort it
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by justdivine: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Ok
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Abortion.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Kentrasso(f): 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Keep it!
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by VickyRotex(f): 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Nothing like unplanned or unwanted pregnancy undecided

Except one is raped, then it becomes unforseen undecided


Il keep any pregnancy
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by KingsleyCEO: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Dial 911 and follow the instructions.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by steppin: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
Hypocrites are gonna storm this thread.
Instead of having a child you can't take care of, it's better not to have one.
Use of condom and birth pills is always advised but when it fails, abortion should be the next step.
It's easier to say it's wrong to have an abortion, but also difficult to take care of a child without solid financial backup.
Re: For The Mature Mind. What Would You Do With An Unwanted Pregnancy by Nobody: 9:01pm On Mar 20, 2015
YourMain:
But that's awful. The child has done nothing wrong. He/she doesn't deserve to die because of the rape.
Who asked you

Holier than thou

If you are tough enough to overcome such traumatising event does not mean everyone is

Please keep God out of this
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