₦airaland Forum

Dalai:
I am a 27 years old male living and working in the London. Many of my friends back home in Nigeria are now married. I desire something as such as well, but the issue is that, it is pretty difficult - if not near impossible - to meet the type of person I will love to date and probably go on to settle down with, here in London. The type of person - career focused, family aware, strong Nigerian roots- but not stereotyped, religious- but not crazy about it, desires the basic fun things in life like travelling, salsa, adventure - is almost non-existing here in London. I do socialize a lot, and it drives me nuts that you only ever meet a Nigerian lady once in every 20 or 30 social outings. I know in the UK, there is a tendency for people to withdraw and live a convenient but antisocial 9-5 lifestyle. Which brings me to the crux of my entire rant, two questions for UK folks:

1) What is your experience with meeting and dating other Nigerians in the UK
2)How best does one improve his chances of meeting and dating other Nigerians in the UK

SAMBARRY:
This poster sounds like coogar or Pickabeau
those are my prime suspects

coogar:
which part of london do you dwell?
dating in london is the easiest activity i know although i agree you may not necessarily get what you require cos some of the available dates are damaged goods.

to meet & date nigerian chics....you would have to spread your tentacles. target social events. be open to your friends, colleagues & acquaintances. somebody usually knows someone that needs a boyfriend.

goodluck, bro....



sambarry, repent....the kingdom of heaven is nigh.

coogar:
which part of london do you dwell?
dating in london is the easiest activity i know although i agree you may not necessarily get what you require cos some of the available dates are damaged goods.

to meet & date nigerian chics....you would have to spread your tentacles. target social events. be open to your friends, colleagues & acquaintances. somebody usually knows someone that needs a boyfriend.

goodluck, bro....

SAMBARRY:
Confess. Is that not you . quoting yourself

Abeg I'm off for an owanmbe .
#logs out#

Dalai:
cheers bro.
I live in the London suburbs but work in central. The problem i think i have is that my Nigerian circle of friends is pretty thin, and that is putting it mildly. Most of my friends are either current colleagues from work or friends of colleagues. I am looking into improving this going forward, but i am not too sure on the best way to go about things.

What are examples of some of the social events that you will recommend in this case? or how best can i go by finding them?

coogar:
one of these days, you would catch the ebola virus from your owambe outings.

glutton!



start with the few friends you have.
there are small get-togethers every now & then. in another few months, there would be loads of BBQ parties - a lot of single chics tend to patrol this kind of events.



•wedding receptions
•churches
•general get-together parties
•family/friend link-up
•etc etc

SAMBARRY:
Ebola is no longer in lagos meanwhile I am not going for food . I'm going there to catch my fun

coogar:
......or to catch a boyfriend.

swaggzo:
Dating here in Afghan can be extraordinarily difficult too!

SAMBARRY:
since you don't understand English I'll be right back

this is what I do at owanmbes

coogar:
who is the ebony lady beside you? isn't that bukatyne?

coogar:
who is the ebony lady beside you? isn't that bukatyne?

SAMBARRY:
orisirisi

who is bukatyne again?

SAMBARRY:
who is bukatyne again?

bukatyne:
You dreamt of me last night abi?

coogar:
no!

bukatyne:
Then why the mention?

Or you want to name your baby bukatyne?

coogar:
you mean you dunno bukatino? NL's official mother-in-israel? the most spiritual one?

sambarry, are you kidding?
then again.....you need to start hitting the gym. you are getting too fat. if you had gone one inch lower, your skirt would have torn at the sides.

bukatyne:
I am

coogar:
no!

SAMBARRY:
Okkkkkkk I know her oo.i remember her. It's been a while I saw her on nl that's why she skipped my mind. The lady always wasting her time arguing with you. I remember her o

SAMBARRY:
all liars will perish in the Lake of fire, remember that o

coogar:
don't mind that bukatyne & her one-sided argument. if the whole world sees legs, she sees arms.



sambarry, go to the gym.

Dalai:
I am a 27 year old male living and working in London. Many of my friends back home in Nigeria are now married. I desire something as such as well, but the issue is that, it is pretty difficult - if not near impossible - to meet the type of person I will love to date and probably go on to settle down with, here in London. The type of person - career focused, family aware, strong Nigerian roots- but not stereotyped, religious- but not crazy about it, desires the basic fun things in life like travelling, salsa, adventure - is almost non-existing here in London. I do socialize a lot, and it drives me nuts that you only ever meet a Nigerian lady once in every 20 or 30 social outings. I know in the UK, there is a tendency for people to withdraw and live a convenient but antisocial 9-5 lifestyle. Which brings me to the crux of my entire rant, two questions for UK folks:

1) What is your experience with meeting and dating other Nigerians in the UK
2)How best does one improve his chances of meeting and dating other Nigerians in the UK

SAMBARRY:
This poster sounds like coogar or Pickabeau


those are my prime suspects

coogar:
which part of london do you dwell?
dating in london is the easiest activity i know although i agree you may not necessarily get what you require cos some of the available dates are damaged goods.

to meet & date nigerian chics....you would have to spread your tentacles. target social events. be open to your friends, colleagues & acquaintances. somebody usually knows someone that needs a boyfriend.

goodluck, bro....



sambarry, repent....the kingdom of heaven is nigh.

Ishilove:
What do you mean by 'damaged goods'?

coogar:
women with extremely low market value.

Ishilove:
Can you please expantiate?