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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by funluvy78(f): 8:51am On Mar 30, 2015

ITbomb:
Cheating started when some white skin guy came on shore and claim that we are supposed to marry only one wife.

Our fathers married as many as they could, all righteous men in the Bible married more than one, there is even a verse that says that whenever you see a pretty damsel in any of your ventures, you should do the honourable thing and marry

Ehen now! O ya go and marry all d women u see,very soon ur house will turn to a harem. Infact u may need to rent a bigger place, Lol!

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:53am On Mar 30, 2015

Wow see our men! Smh

*sighs*

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:53am On Mar 30, 2015

it takes two to play the game.
men cheat. women also cheat.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by kamikaze2458(m): 8:54am On Mar 30, 2015

It is a natural phenomenom for men to cheat. It doesn't neccesarily mean there is a cause for cheating. Men are born cheats.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by kingGoldust(m): 8:55am On Mar 30, 2015

stevikenna:
MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE
ITS JUST CIVILISATION THAT HAS TAMED US

You are right.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by onoja12: 8:55am On Mar 30, 2015

Good question

TheSonOfMark:
Exactly! If we could explain why , we would have dealt with it long ago.

Women, why do you manipulate men?

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by kliq(m): 8:57am On Mar 30, 2015

SmartChoices:
I'll try.. But why should I? Its a statement of fact!

You have made a smart choice

Good luck!

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Headlesschicken(m): 8:57am On Mar 30, 2015

If only women cld stop lying mayb we men cld actually reduce our rate of cheating,buh cmin 2fink of it,its actually easier 4men 2stop cheating dan women,cos @ d end of d day we do come 2find out dat all holes r d same,buh try telin dt 2a ho whom has gon wild....

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Afam4eva(m): 8:57am On Mar 30, 2015

The same reason why we switch our cable television from CNN to National Geographic. It's not because we don't like CNN but because we love variety and want to explore elsewhere after which we will return to CNN.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by vickylala239: 8:57am On Mar 30, 2015

DarkAngel86:
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat. If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings:

www.m.webmd.com/men/.../why-men-ch..

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex:

Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says

These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated

I would like us to discuss this issue in a matured manner.

My question is if you've experienced being the cheater or cheated on why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship. This is of course if both parties love each other.

Pls no insults or derailing.

Notin Mre Dan sex.

Am a man any man who said sex is not A1 his pretending.

Ladies beware,guys n sex u cn Neva separate dem.
Wen u climb on ur man Dnt gv mi space till he beg u,else u will lose him.

U see does Dat guys Dat,if u touch n Dey say no.Jst watch dem on u eventually.

Jst Lik Sum guys will quote mi Nw n pretend is Nt sex.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by FitnessNigeria: 8:57am On Mar 30, 2015

Men cheat for no reason.

Just because they wanna have a taste of that hot girl.

Not because they don't love their partners.

Love have nothing to do with cheating.

I once believed that you can't cheat on someone you love, but something happened that changed my views.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by beloved2000: 8:58am On Mar 30, 2015

SpeedyConnect:
Cheating doesn't mean there is no love

its very simple... Wot goes around def comes around..if u cheat on ur woman.. There is no way another man won't bleep her..its cald reapin wot u sow...men cheat as well as women,so don't tink u r smarter..my point therefore is...BE FAITHfUL

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by asekomejohn(m): 8:58am On Mar 30, 2015

Yes

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by beloved2000: 9:00am On Mar 30, 2015

Afam4eva:
The same reason why we switch our cable television from CNN to National Geographic. It's not because we don't like CNN but because we love variety and want to explore elsewhere after which we will return to CNN.

and ur woman too can as well switch...law of reapin wot I sow.. No b only u dey smart

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Damikevin(m): 9:00am On Mar 30, 2015

If a man cheats a great deal that resulted to the action is from his partner. Am not trying to excuse cheating. No one says he wants to be a thief, thug or drug trafficker when they are asked what they wanna become in the future. Same way nobody goes into marriage or a relationship with the intention to cheat. But then again some men cannot just be committed to one person hence the believe that most men polygamous naturally. If u r not emotionally secured or safe in a relationship one might cheat. Most times is not sex, u just want someone diff to talk to, someone u can crack a joke with that's gone laff, someone who really accepts ur compliments as true. Because with time, all what u tell you partner start to look like a lie cos u have said it over and over. That's why I tink the option of a 'short brk' from each oda should be used once in a while.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Eberex(m): 9:01am On Mar 30, 2015

Its applicable to both genders. If we all have the fear of God, no one would dare to cheat even when the partner is not giving. Maybe it is when brimstone will rain down from heaven, then will the fear of God enter.

All i am saying is, if the couple build their marriage solidly under God's love. Cheating would be a foreign language to them.

Peace!

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by achieving(m): 9:03am On Mar 30, 2015

cheating doesn't really mean there was no love b/w d two spouse. dis infidelity started rty from d way N manner our youthful age growth started. u can imagin dating more Dan one lady in a relationship often nd often times. meaning different sexual experience nd satisfaction. dis lady will satisfy u lik dis nd d other will satisfy u lik d oder way round nd now u got married having one daily satisfaction from same woman same Virginia. how will u control ur sef. we men r d biological cause of infidelity. so grow up

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by beloved2000: 9:04am On Mar 30, 2015

kamikaze2458:
It is a natural phenomenom for men to cheat. It doesn't neccesarily mean there is a cause for cheating. Men are born cheats.

really

Funny enough, women these days r born cheats as well... U cheat, she finds out n cheats on u too even without let in u know dat she knows u cheated.. Cheating garlour...sighs

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by lacreamieboie(m): 9:04am On Mar 30, 2015

Men are born cheaters... You just can't take it away from us! I ain't no cheat... and it hurts that I ain't one!

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by mmsen: 9:06am On Mar 30, 2015

Why don't we ask why it is that women will willingly engage with (and often chase) men that they know to be married.

That would be a far more interesting discussion.

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by beloved2000: 9:09am On Mar 30, 2015

Afam4eva:
The same reason why we switch our cable television from CNN to National Geographic. It's not because we don't like CNN but because we love variety and want to explore elsewhere after which we will return to CNN.

ok naa,continue changing until u see u Kant come bak no more... Meanwhile u no say women Sani change channels too without u even knowin n u dey dee dey play smart...wot wil it take u to b faithful..smh

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 9:09am On Mar 30, 2015

Wait o!!!!!! Is it wrong to poo? Women no dey go toilet? Abi Na another cheat dem dey talk about?

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Afam4eva(m): 9:10am On Mar 30, 2015

beloved2000:
ok naa,continue changing until u see u Kant come bak no more... Meanwhile u no say women Sani change channels too without u even knowin n u dey dee dey play smart...wot wil it take u to b faithful..smh

I'm not talking about myself. I'm only highlighting the reason why some men cheat. Same goes for women who cheat. But for women this does not always ring true.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 9:18am On Mar 30, 2015

kliq:
You have made a smart choice

Good luck!

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by GodblessNig247(m): 9:19am On Mar 30, 2015

DarkAngel86:
Ok but isn't polygamy a choice? So if one woman refuses then it's back to square one.

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Akasha(f): 9:20am On Mar 30, 2015*

Emotional factor is a major reason both sexes cheat, if u are in a very good place emotionally with ur partner u wont even really see d temptations except wen dere are gaps or u dnt really love ur partner, and if at all d temptation comes to ur face and u know u love ur partner and are extremely satisfied emotionally, d guilt u'd feel wud minimise ur chances of succumbing to such

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 9:20am On Mar 30, 2015

PLEASE, what is CHEATING..?

WHY do people ALIGN this same CHEATING with men

What about LADIES ,ain't they CHEATS among them..?

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by pomsky: 9:22am On Mar 30, 2015

DarkAngel86:
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat. If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings:

www.m.webmd.com/men/.../why-men-ch..

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex:

Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says

These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated

I would like us to discuss this issue in a matured manner.

My question is if you've experienced being the cheater or cheated on why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship. This is of course if both parties love each other.

Pls no insults or derailing.

[size=20pt].......i once asked a randy colleague why he was so much into women even though he was married, he just simply replied me, "my brother, it is greed".
So i guess that there's such a thing as sexual greed[/size]! undecided

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by igweanambra(m): 9:24am On Mar 30, 2015

Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by XwhY(m): 9:25am On Mar 30, 2015

This is why men have to patiently know the their spouse before marriage. Even beyond sex, men need emotional satisfaction. As a man you will always see more beautiful and attractive ladies as we are moved by what we see. It is the love of the wife in the heart of the man and the respect he has for her that can make him not to yield to such temptation. So I think men cheat because they are not satisfied emotionally with their spouse.

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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by tintingz(m): 9:26am On Mar 30, 2015

Men are polygamous by nature.

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