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Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by germainediva(f): 2:43pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
With d way thins are going Nigerian marriage may never regain its dignity........as I write ds I weep in my heart 4 marriages of these days....and somehow I blame it on our soceity.....nobody cautions an adultreous man......what happened t d vows dey took b4 god to remainfaithful until death...its so patetic and becos d society closed its eyes to it,women v follow suit(tho not rite)but how do I blame a woman who's huband does not satisfy in bed yet have d strenght t chase oda women,a man who hardly drops feeding money yet v enof t pay 4 hotel rooms etc,a man who constantly kips late nite leaving d wife lonely and veneurable while he's in d company anoda,a man who constanly abuse his wife both emotionally and physically but know how to pet oda women,I can go on and on......what r our religious leaders teaching dem every friday and sunday.....what is happening....its scary t me.........where r we headed to........a lot of women now cheat, it is pitiable(very shameful) and I blame it on d men(tho dere r exceptional cases...some r just born t cheat)most of these women were driven into d arm of anoda.......men pls wake up..you can't eat ur cake n have it.we even now joke wt d word "side chick" as if its a normal way of life.......god is watching us 13 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Fairgodwin(m): 2:47pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
I pray God helps the married and heal their marriages, Amen. 1 Like |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by tintingz(m): 2:53pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Ehyaa... too bad. Men are the great cheaters. |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by DukeNija(m): 3:00pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Well, I hope you are not cheating on your husband and trying to justify it. Married couples should endeavor to be faithful to one another. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by crackhaus: 3:02pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
More women now cheat, and you blame men for it? Ridiculous... 6 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Ab025(m): 3:02pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
so you mean that i and my colleagues are the ones that are even pushing you ladies to cheat....?? Na wa o |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by coogar: 3:06pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
after agreeing men & women are cheating with a reckless abandon, you still heap the blame on the men in your title. why should we take this OP serious? 4 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by thorpido(m): 3:25pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
coogar:Her purpose is to blame the men and the wo-men. |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by coogar: 3:35pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
thorpido: i think her purpose is to pass the responsibility of morality to the men only. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by KBARBIE(f): 3:52pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
crackhaus: What do u expect d woman do in dis scenerio, wud u blame d woman for taking dis step although I dnt advice such. A marriage of less dan 2yrs just crumbled, dis lady's husband last had sex with her six months ago, d husband is adulterous to d extent of bringing in women to d home whenever the lady isn't around even d neighbors could testify to it, twas after marriage she got to know her husband smokes weed (educated guy), sends pix of naked body to ladies, d guy always pickn fights etc. The lady in a bid to get hold of herself got hooked up wit an ex male friend complaining about her man to dis ex friend telln him about situations and when last she had sex et al. D guy in return tryn to pacify her engaged her in a form of on d phone intimacy talk which the lady's husband saw and all hell was let loose. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Chizzy20(f): 4:01pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
hmm at tyms i wonder wat d men see in oda ladies dat dier wives dnt ve...Is it nt beta to jst b single dan gettin married nd givin d poor woman emotional trauma....nd d most annoyin part is dat d society condems a woman wen she cheats on her husband...which i dnt support...bt wen it cums to d man being caught in d act...it is taken as a normal thing.. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by KBARBIE(f): 4:05pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
What do u expect d woman do in dis scenerio, wud u blame d woman for taking dis step although I dnt advice such. A marriage of less dan 2yrs with a child just crumbled, dis lady's husband last had sex with her six months ago, d husband is adulterous to d extent of bringing in women to d home whenever the lady isn't around even d neighbors could testify to it, twas after marriage she got to know her husband smokes weed (educated guy), sends pix of naked body to ladies etc. The lady in a bid to get hold of herself got hooked up wit an ex male friend complaining about her man to dis ex friend telln him about situations and when last she had sex et al. D guy in return tryn to pacify her engaged her in a form of on d phone intimacy talk which the lady's husband saw and all hell was let loose. When dis lady was wit him, d lady begs to put food on the table for her. Child and evn d man to eat. D guy works but d lady doesn't see the effect of his salary has she most times gives him transport to go to work, she doesn't know how he spends his money. Really women bears much in marriages, well men too shaa. 1 Like |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by crackhaus: 4:18pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
KBARBIE:Pitiful story. . . The institution of marriage will be a lot more sane if people just took responsibility for their actions and/or inactions. The lady in this story is an adult, and the first mistake she made was going to seek comfort and sympathy in the arms of her ex. Her husband did not do this to her, she did it to herself. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
DukeNija: Good point. Unfaithfulness in either ways should be preached against. https://www.nairaland.com/2229678/apology-poor-network |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by KBARBIE(f): 4:48pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Chizzy20: Seriously my sis, I jus tire..buh well two wrongs don't make a right. |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Dheartless: 4:59pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
accept responsibilities and consequences of your actions. end of discussion. 1 Like |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Chizzy20(f): 5:03pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
KBARBIE:true... |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by K9blunt(f): 5:04pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
coogar:I don't think so, I believe the responsibility should be both ways not one way but when the woman is known to be more responsible in keeping sexual values the man is known to be a stud that can and should cheat because his gender is polygamous in nature which is total crap. we need to set our priorities right as women by not accepting rubbish and frowning at men who cheat and also to keep ourselves and expect same from our men . cos all our wahala na our (women) fault sha! 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by coogar: 5:59pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
K9blunt: if the women don't consent, there wouldn't be extra-marital affairs. |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by SAMBARRY: 7:11pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
You will whine till thy Kingdom comes 3 Likes
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Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by zeb04(f): 7:17pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Ladies please stop the drama.marriage has never been a do or die affair . Get over yourself men cheat,women cheat too and there is a mature/legal way of handling it.....take a way 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by babygirlfl: 8:14pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Divorce the man if you can't tolerate his cheating. Nobody drives anybody to cheat whether male or female. 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by cococandy(f): 8:15pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
There's no divine assignment given to only women to be the ones protecting the marriage. So if your partner keeps doing things that undermine your marriage and totally humiliates you. Constantly putting you down and expect you to swallow it, you know what to do.......Walk. You're not going to get any special awards for sticking around. Your kids won't turn out better because you decided to accept bad treatment. Na buhari matter we dey on top now. No time for stories that touch. 4 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 9:26pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Na which wan consine me? Abi you no sabi say marriage na "slavery" all to "born pepper-fruit" of womb and blokos? Siddon dia dey wait for love oh? Just PHOCK and BORN! Simple!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by SAMBARRY: 9:34pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
cococandy: |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by SAMBARRY: 9:35pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:you don talk am finish |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by SAMBARRY: 9:41pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
Gbam cococandy: 2 Likes
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Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by KanwuliaJara: 9:41pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Common sense tinz abi? The tin wey awa grand mamas practice tey tey! See wasted education for new generation o! Na wetin consine black PIPO witi loff sef? Dem go cry taya ke! |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by SAMBARRY: 9:43pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by SAMBARRY: 9:43pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
African magic yoruba don tell it all KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by Agrika: 11:38pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
crackhaus:*yawns loudly* abeg make we hear word 4 Likes |
Re: Our Men Are Killing Our Marriage by bennyrazz: 11:45pm On Apr 01, 2015 |
germainediva:don't blame other people for your failures. Blame yourself |
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