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ebonyeyez:
A woman wont leave for no reason. Unattractive women do more than pretty women. Pretty women use looks to their advantage but how long that will last. Unattractive faithful women and men have more substance than attractive male/ female

Also, you are only speaking from your point of view. Women leave relationships. So do men. everybody adjusts and decides as it suits them. there is nothing special about a woman leaving a relationship or a man and it need not be anybody's fault.

You make it sound like females are these pristine creatures and it's only a man who can do wrong in a relationship.
also a profoundly naive POV

Ok if woman want to leave ok lets keep it moving. Apologies... But am talking about only FAITHFUL UNATTRACTIVE MEN AND WOMEN ONLY THAT DESERVE FAIR CHANCE OMG...we are way off subject

ebonyeyez:
A woman wont leave for no reason. Unattractive women do more than pretty women. Pretty women use looks to their advantage but how long that will last. Unattractive faithful women and men have more substance than attractive male/ female

I quite disagree with you. An unattractive girl won't ditch you when she's dating a very handsome man. Because she knows if she does, it will be a herculean task for another to come around. So she tolerates shit and ensures the relationship even if it's glaring that it's not working. Now imagine an unattractive woman dating an unattractive man and tell me honestly that she can't ditch him at will. Oh please, spare me that. It seems you have a personal vendetta with attractive people.

ebonflex:
Also, you are only speaking from your point of view. Women leave relationships. So do men. everybody adjusts and decides as it suits them. there is nothing special about a woman leaving a relationship or a man and it need not be anybody's fault.

You make it sound like females are these pristine creatures and it's only a man who can do wrong in a relationship.
also a profoundly naive POV

Its not naive you are not going beyond your own comprehension ebonflex. Stay on point stop trying so hard & desperately bashing me...

ebonyeyez:
Ok if woman want to leave ok lets keep it moving. Apologies... But am talking about only FAITHFUL UNATTRACTIVE MEN AND WOMEN ONLY THAT DESERVE FAIR CHANCE OMG...we are way off subject

Well, they can marry themselves can't they?

No one will be happy when they settle without making sure, to the best of their ability, that what they are settling with is the best they could get.
That's just life.

djeezy:
I quite disagree with you. An unattractive girl won't ditch you when she's dating a very handsome man. Because she knows if she does, it will be a herculean task for another to come around. So she tolerates shit and ensures the relationship even if it's glaring that it's not working. Now imagine an unattractive woman dating an unattractive man and tell me honestly that she can't ditch him at will. Oh please, spare me that. It seems you have a personal vendetta with attractive people.

Why would I? What kind of biased shiit is that? I don't discriminate. Seems like the main issue alot of people have when dating an individual, they go off of looks whereas characteristics. This man or woman can be clean looking but facial or whatever features is unattractive but great peraonality. But you turn her down because of one or two flaws that's crazy..

No. Where's the challenge in that? Why would I want to be with someone nobody wants? It actually feels more amazing to be able to keep the affections & attention of someone you know can have his pick of women but chose you instead.

OP. Even unattractive people are ditching fine girls and fine men. That's what happens when you gas them up thinking they can pull any attractive person because they got you. Just saying!

PunkyOh:
No. Where's the challenge in that? Why would I want to be with someone nobody wants? It actually feels more amazing to be able to keep the affections & attention of someone you know can have his pick of women but chose you instead.

so you wanna be with someone everybody wants to be with?

ebonyeyez:
Why would I? What kind of biased shiit is that? I don't discriminate. Seems like the main issue alot of people have when dating an individual, they go off of looks whereas characteristics. This man or woman can be clean looking but facial or whatever features is unattractive but great peraonality. But you turn her down because of one or two flaws that's crazy..

We still have good looking and attractive people with great personality. I am speaking for myself. So don't think it's only unattractive people that posses good personality and amazing qualities. If you say you have no personal vendetta with attractive people so be it. Cheers!

justmag:
so you wanna be with someone everybody wants to be with?

At least some of them must find him attractive. I have a competitive nature so..
It just wouldn't do anything for me if nobody thought my man was attractive. I want them to say, "Gurl, you picked a hot one". It does strange things to my ego

djeezy:
We still have good looking and attractive people with great personality. I am speaking for myself. So don't think it's only unattractive people that posses good personality and amazing qualities. If you say you have no personal vendetta with attractive people so be it. Cheers!

Why is it that when a thread is posted, you personalize the subject like its all about you. Stop that please. Attractive people do possess some good qualities but I just feel like give a person a chance...I have never had issue with beautiful people but beautiful people with good looks are not the only people who possess good qualities.

ebonyeyez:
Why is it that when a thread is posted, you personalize the subject like its all about you. Stop that please. Attractive people do possess some good qualities but I just feel like give a person a chance ... I have never had issue with beautiful people but beautiful people with good looks are not the only people who possess good qualities.

So you came here to solicit support so as to garner reasons why you should date an unattractive person asking you out. If you read my posts very well I didn't say unattractive people are bad and should not be given a chance. Your post was an outright generalisation on the attractive people. It's a thing of choice. If someone likes an attractive person, that's what they want and same applies with respect to unattractive people too. So if you wanna go ahead to give an unattractive person a chance. That's your choice. Go ahead. This thread is even pointless.

djeezy:
So you came here to solicit support so as to garner reasons why you should date an unattractive person asking you out. If you read my posts very well I didn't say unattractive people are bad and should not be given a chance. Your post was an outright generalisation on the attractive people. It's a thing of choice. If someone likes an attractive person, that's what they want and same applies with respect to unattractive people too. So if you wanna go ahead to give an unattractive person a chance. That's your choice. Go ahead. This thread is even pointless.

Stop getting upset its not even that serious...smh godammit

ebonyeyez:
Stop getting upset its not even that serious...smh godammit

lol......I'm not getting upset hun Enjoy your day.

PunkyOh:
At least some of them must find him attractive. I have a competitive nature so..
It just wouldn't do anything for me if nobody thought my man was attractive. I want them to say, "Gurl, you picked a hot one". It does strange things to my ego

i think u can be attractive but not necessarily wanted by everyone. But i see what you mean. I would want people to know I have a dime by my side...

djeezy:
lol......I'm not getting upset hun Enjoy your day.

kool u too. Nice infiniti tho

ebonyeyez:
kool u too. Nice infiniti tho

Thanks

justmag:
i think u can be attractive but not necessarily wanted by everyone. But i see what you mean. I would want people to know I have a dime by my side...

Yeah it's true, nobody is everyone's cup of tea no matter how gorgeous they are. But the few that salivates counts

Anyway, to me it'd be a sign of low self esteem to be with an unattractive person just because I fear being cheated on. Hell, I wouldn't even trust his faithfulness because I'd often wonder if he'd be the same person if he weren't so fugly. I think I'd wish he was hot for just a day so I could observe him carefully.

lol @ your last line. Troof. I think everyone wants a partner they can be proud of. He doesn't necessarily have to be Mr Galaxy but he mustn't be a Swamp Thing either.

Please see it in this perspective for me please.... So people wont think I'm generalizing attractive people. I hate to throw myself into this story but this is true story. Im from North America. Memphis, Ten. Me and several of my friends went bowling. Its one girl in my click she has the sweetest personality and kind of shy n timid, almost every guy turned her down. At first told her those guys were no good anyway even if she was attracted to them. Few guys approached me n my other friends except her. She cried one day because she started to feel insecure. She dress nice, very independent, and intelligent. I was mad as hell because this is my friend/sister. She is happily dating someone now. This is why I posted a thread because d way some attractive people act and some things they say are lowdown. Im all about self empowerment this is why I posted to see what people say about it..

djeezy:
Thanks

uw dear

All I see is some girl hating on attractive people

"Unattractive people have more substance than attractive ones."

What the hell is this one saying?

MzNelly:
All I see is some girl hating on attractive people

"Unattractive people have more substance than attractive ones."

What the hell is this one saying?

How d hell I'm hating on attractive ones? Really? What d hell are you smoking? You hate my post gtfo

ebonyeyez:
How d hell I'm hating on attractive ones? Really? What d hell are you smoking?

Unattractive women do more than pretty women. Pretty women use looks to their advantage but how long that will last. Unattractive faithful women and men have more substance than attractive male/ female

You sound insecure, IMHO.

No one's against dating so-called "unattractive" people.

But don't just go all out and generalize on shii you aren't even sure of.

MzNelly:
You sound insecure, IMHO.

No one's against dating so-called "unattractive" people.

But don't just go all out and generalize on shii you aren't even sure of.

No babygirl that's a fact, but not for all, just some. Stop taking my quotes and twisting it around your barbaric brain. Insecure?? LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO you don't know me and I don't know you. Lets just stay on topic IM not in the mood dealing with young children.

ebonyeyez:
No babygirl that's a fact, but not for all, just some. Stop taking my quotes and twisting it around your barbaric brain.

Okay, we're done here.

PunkyOh:
Yeah it's true, nobody is everyone's cup of tea no matter how gorgeous they are. But the few that salivates counts

Anyway, to me it'd be a sign of low self esteem to be with an unattractive person just because I fear being cheated on. Hell, I wouldn't even trust his faithfulness because I'd often wonder if he'd be the same person if he weren't so fugly. I think I'd wish he was hot for just a day so I could observe him carefully.

lol @ your last line. Troof. I think everyone wants a partner they can be proud of. He doesn't necessarily have to be Mr Galaxy but he mustn't be a Swamp Thing either.

I agree. Sometimes chasing unattractive people may just be as bad as dating an attractive person. The danger is still there. It's all about knowing who you are with at the end of the day. Hey! Trust is a thing of the past these days. People cheating like it's a normal life style.

Lmaooo @ fgly...true dat! If he wasn't so ugly he maybe twice as bad.

justmag:
I agree. Sometimes chasing unattractive people may just be as bad as dating an attractive person. The danger is still there. It's all about knowing who you are with at the end of the day. Hey! Trust is a thing of the past these days. People cheating like it's a normal life style.

Lmaooo @ fgly...true dat! If he wasn't so ugly he maybe twice as bad.

Do you believe in true love? "Meant to be" kind of thing
That came out of the blue but I'm just curious.

PunkyOh:
Do you believe in true love? "Meant to be" kind of thing
That came out of the blue but I'm just curious.

I believe in true love. Oh yes i do. But she is hiding under a rock right now and she is not tryna come out.

justmag:
I believe in true love. Oh yes i do. But she is hiding under a rock right now and she is not tryna come out.

Haha. Good luck finding her. Last question, do you think you'd know when you finally meet her? I sometimes wonder if there are signs when soul mates meet.

I was once with someone that I thought was a soul mate but obviously I was wrong about that, so now I tend to doubt a lot of things about love & my own feelings. Anyway, it's always good to hear other people's opinions on these things so I hope you don't mind the quiz lol

PunkyOh:
Haha. Good luck finding her. Last question, do you think you'd know when you finally meet her? I sometimes wonder if there are signs when soul mates meet.

I was once with someone that I thought was a soul mate but obviously I was wrong about , so now I tend to doubt a lot of things about love & my own feelings. Anyway, it's always good to hear other people's opinions on these things so I hope you don't mind the quiz lol

I believe in true love but soul mates? I don't know about that. Someone may love you in the way you want but not in the way you are supposed to. To understand that you have to believe what you want may not always be what's right for you. Someone may have disappointed you at some time but chances are it's because you thought he was everything you wanted. For example, at 20, you probably wanted a tall handsome man but at 25, you start to believe a man with a job, and hubby material is all you need to get by life. True or false?

justmag:
I believe in true love but soul mates? I don't know about that. Someone may love you in the way you want but not in the way you are supposed to. To understand that you have to believe what you want may not always be what's right for you. Someone may have disappointed you at some time but chances are it's because you thought he was everything you wanted. For example, at 20, you probably wanted a tall handsome man but at 25, you start to believe a man with a job, and hubby material is all you need to get by life. True or false?

LOL, I married young so it never quite got to that so I don't know. So, what's true love to you?