Need an advice...im in a relationship but i jst dont feel the spark in it. The girl in question...we knew ourselves since secondary school days. we were quite close..talked alot..played innocently. i jst loved her company. And i must add that she was extremely caring to me.

Everything started one and a half year ago....i left the state without informing her...it was a last minute thing so there was no time. we lost contact somehw..afta abt six months i got her contact thru a close frnd..we started chattin n all n she told me hw she cryed when she heard i had left...jst like that.

lets jst say one thing led to the other and feelings grew stronger n there were exchange of 'i love you!'

Altho we havent met again...but we sustained our relationship even tho it was a long distance thing.

but sincerely right nw i think d feelin i av for her is more of a brotherly feeling...i knw i care abt her a lot..i even get jealous when some other guy engages her on facebook. still i feel its jst a brotherly feeling and i want to break up with her but i jst cant imagine myself telling her that.

Send her the URL of this sermon you've just written.

That should do the trick.

@Op, I think you are in love with her. Nothing wrong with that.

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Why don't u two meet..then u would know.


Simple as a.b.c

send her an email. sounds cruel i know but your are too chicken to tell her so send her an email and change your number.

i bet poster found a new girl he is crazy about and now he is trying to cut ties By the way since its long distance and you haven't seen her since you moved, how do you know what she has been up to?

sourbutsweet:
Send her the URL of this sermon you've just written.

That should do the trick.

exactly what i was gonna say.

For u to get jealous..shws u still luv her...jst dat d luv nids to b rekindled...so u try nd see her physically so u can b certain...

is she on NL?

sourbutsweet:
Send her the URL of this sermon you've just written.

That should do the trick.

She wud knw indirectly...tellin her indirectly is even worse

major466:
@Op, I think you are in love with her. Nothing wrong with that.

I dnt tink so..i mean i lov her...bt i dnt tink its d type dat warrant being togeda. if u kw wat i mean...

ahsekeena:
Why don't u two meet..then u would know.


Simple as a.b.c

Yh we wud meet...her sis is gettin married n i av to attend..

Mattkent:
...i knw i care abt her a lot..i even get jealous when some other guy engages her on facebook. still i feel its jst a brotherly feeling and i want to break up with her but i jst cant imagine myself telling her that.

Do you think she is beautiful? Are you physically attracted to her?

25omega:
send her an email. sounds cruel i know but your are too chicken to tell her so send her an email and change your number.

i bet poster found a new girl he is crazy about and now he is trying to cut ties By the way since its long distance and you haven't seen her since you moved, how do you know what she has been up to?

hey...im not too chicken to tell her....its nt like i avnt done it b4. its diffrnt this time cos we r too close.

Well i dunno...bt she always tell me everytin dat happens everyday..she sometimes tell me abt d stalkers n so on...bt if she happens to fall for someone else dat wud b a relief to me.

Tymax:


Do you think she is beautiful?

Beyonds words...her fada is fulani while her mom is hausa...so u can imagine d combination.

Chizzy20:
For u to get jealous..shws u still luv her...jst dat d luv nids to b rekindled...so u try nd see her physically so u can b certain...

Well we r meetin soon anyway...so mayb i shud wait n find out...

Mprex:
is she on NL?

No she isnt

Mattkent:


Well we r meetin soon anyway...so mayb i shud wait n find out...

ok dats gud.

Just close your eyes and do it.

She won't kill herself na

I would have called it true love had it mean the story is true...

Wait till you guys meet.

kitnah:
Just close your eyes and do it.

She won't kill herself na

happy baiday!!

jaykaylegend:
happy baiday!!

Thank you so much sir