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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 7:08pm On Apr 03, 2015

joelenesleek:
abi. I swear he will forget her and don't even miss her exit once I get hold of His number.

NO TIME

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by whocanbewho(m): 7:10pm On Apr 03, 2015

mmsen:
This is most women.

And this is why I tell most men not to do it.

These women are not concerned for anyone else but themselves which is bad enough when it just the two of you but when you factor in children it is a recipe for absolute chaos.

I hope her fiance sees this.

you got it all bro. They all have this me me me attitude. Very self centered species. Bt what exactly do you tell most men not to do. Or you mean you tell most men not to consider marriage atall.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by foliks(f): 7:10pm On Apr 03, 2015

Why don't u postpone d wedding and discuss wth ur husband to be so u guys can work on ur relationship...... let's stop trying to please ppl nd displeasing ourselves...... sit ur hubby down nd let him know what's wrong, he'll understand nd both of u can seek a way to resolve it. Things like dat happens in a relationship even in marriages so just hang on. It's just a phase, even if u meet sumone else, it will stil happen. Forget wat ppl will say, d same ppl will laff at u after they must av kum to wine nd dine wth u den dey hear you r divorced after a year

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 7:11pm On Apr 03, 2015

creepsyme:
you may have a spirit husband, pls go for delieverance asap!

That was too far madam

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by creepsyme(f): 7:13pm On Apr 03, 2015

bosun11:
That was too far madam

I may be wrong but sincerely wrong! it happens I mean no hurt.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 7:14pm On Apr 03, 2015

When clowns fall in love.. no wonder churches like Lord chosen or deeper life do not encourage senseless bf&gf relationships...

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Bwaal(m): 7:19pm On Apr 03, 2015

ERELU OGOGO won ko ru bo meta ni ona meta won ni ko mu ewure wa ki ewu baale re won ni ko mu aguntan wan ki awon mo re ma ba goo won ni ko mu eiye le wa ki ire ko le ba mawa wa le
erelu ni oun o lowo
erelu ni oun o she etutu

who don watch that yoruba movie huh

?

sprinkle u nid to wash ur head i think sometin iz possesin u
pls see ur pastor for deliverance better still yr counsellor

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by bosun11(m): 7:22pm On Apr 03, 2015

creepsyme:
I may be wrong but sincerely wrong! it happens I mean no hurt.

Alright miss.cheers

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by nastydamus(m): 7:23pm On Apr 03, 2015

OP, you sound like you'll have 5 different fathers for four of your kids angry

Your type na jump and pass o.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 7:23pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

you appear to be your only problem.
savvy?

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Teespice(f): 7:25pm On Apr 03, 2015

SagePerv:
[color=maroon]Oh...
Is this a good sign?
Dear, I obviously don't care. And you know that.[/color]

oh well,

the first line in my post was for you.

the rest was for the op.

not like I owe you an explanation anyway.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by drnoel: 7:25pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

While not being interested in the guy u are marrying. Make sure u keep ur legs closed. Then we go see if the guy go still dey gentle.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by kpolli(m): 7:28pm On Apr 03, 2015

The only problem is that he loves and puts you first.... If he didn't, you will be so in love with him.... Women don't appreciate things

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by topemirates(m): 7:31pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

S'ORO NIYEN huh

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by drnoel: 7:31pm On Apr 03, 2015

kpolli:
The only problem is that he loves and puts you first.... If he didn't, you will be so in love with him.... Women don't appreciate things

allow her

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by topemirates(m): 7:40pm On Apr 03, 2015

But my best friend told me....... Dont marry the man u love, marry the man who loves you.

I disagree on that...

It's absolutely wrong!

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by misshoree(f): 7:44pm On Apr 03, 2015

bosun11:
d OP does that

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by NaijaOptimist: 7:47pm On Apr 03, 2015

debolly:
Seriously
How did you get to this stage in the first place? . So you found nothing interesting about this guy & you were with him for 4years?. Haba!!!!!!
All the same a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. It won't be fair on your part to continue with the marriage when you know it @ the back of your mind that you'll divorce him.

One needs God's guidiance before choosing a life patner.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Mekzmoney(m): 7:51pm On Apr 03, 2015

loomer:
no be small thing, i been watch am for cassette small o, but i no go lie na picture i just de watch den, as me no know wetin de happen

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by HARDDON: 7:58pm On Apr 03, 2015

castruccio:
I understand you sha.. but put yourself in dat guyz shoes would not it be better to be lonely than to discover you were not loved all this while and you end up divorced... I am entitled to my opinion so do you... My faith forbids divorce and it is a personal opinion that it is better for me to be single and rich with many friends and adopted childeren than to get married to a sick bitch who will make my life miserable both here on earth and in enternity... I rest my case

Brotherly!
We all know that the guy is in full picture of her not loving him. But there is something that he can't just let go about her: maybe she is a gud home keeper, world class acrobat in ....., maybe she is so darn fine or blessed with some coke botl body all well garnished with huge standing melon n cheerful backyard. Maybe she is enterprising or got some brilliant brains...... That he hasn't found any like her...

U can't tell d guy ddoesn't know. Common

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by mmsen: 8:00pm On Apr 03, 2015

whocanbewho:
you got it all bro. They all have this me me me attitude. Very self centered species. Bt what exactly do you tell most men not to do. Or you mean you tell most men not to consider marriage atall.

Most guys I know are with women who are not deserving of their time and when asked I advise against marrying these women.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by rx1121: 8:11pm On Apr 03, 2015*

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Laredojohn(m): 8:28pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

hmm your story pathetic , since u never had this inner fulfillment, and your inner voice keeps telling u , u really need counsel , mean serious counsel , try see a counselor u can open up too and tell all and how u feel , try to think of the positives , so the negativity will not weigh u down . but one this for sure is better break a marriage yet to be consummated, thank break a home. the option of cheating on him shouldnt be ur last resort , definitely there is something u have not spelt out in your post, what exactly is the thing not giving u fulfillment

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by VNOS(m): 8:28pm On Apr 03, 2015

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

I feel sorry for you,but most of all I feel sorry for that guy. The absolute best thing you can do for him now and yourself is to seat him down and tell him the truth. If you guys end up sorting things out and being able to go ahead with the wedding plans, fine. If not, you both will absolutely be better off for it anyway! It will hurt like hell but he ll get over it eventually and will actually be happier and thankful in the long run. Trust me, I was once in a similar situation as this with my ex. Don't think she completely stopped loving me per say but she began to have 2nd tots about our relationship and also I think was getting attracted to other guys who succeeded in making her confused. I was devastated when she opened up to me but was grateful. We carried on for a little longer after that but I summoned up courage and finally ended the relationship of well over 5 yrs, when I saw things weren't really improving. And I think she was also okay with the decision.

Today I'm indeed happier for it, a whole lot more happier and even grateful that I was lucky enough to have found out. Unfortunately, shes the one now regretting cos shes found out that good guys are hard to find and she was being immature back then (may I add that i was her 1st ever so she was really naive back then but more mature now, If you can call a 25yr old lady naive...). But I'm now with someone else who's showed me what I was indeed missing and i can't even imagine now, how I could cope back then without the 'real' truth.

My point is this. If you are doing this out of pity for him because you think he ll hurt too much, don't bother. He ll surely move on and may end up being happier without you, than you ruining his life by going into a marriage you already plan to cheat and possibly divorce. You ll only end up regretting even more then, than if you call of the wedding now.
If you guys can sort things together, with EVERY ISSUE laid out and still salvage the wedding plans, that's still fine but PLEASE my dear don't hope on it!

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by castruccio(m): 8:29pm On Apr 03, 2015

HARDDON:
Brotherly!
We all know that the guy is in full picture of her not loving him. But there is something that he can't just let go about her: maybe she is a gud home keeper, world class acrobat in ....., maybe she is so darn fine or blessed with some coke botl body all well garnished with huge standing melon n cheerful backyard. Maybe she is enterprising or got some brilliant brains...... That he hasn't found any like her...

U can't tell d guy ddoesn't know. Common

Bro you are funny lolzz ..... na true sha

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Jannie1999(f): 8:30pm On Apr 03, 2015

wen you know dat he is not in a bad mood tell him d whole truth and you need some time apart but do it wit sense ooo if you run away from him after getting married its pure wickedness

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Destiny4fame(m): 8:37pm On Apr 03, 2015

U are suffering from Orubebetitis........

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by lockupman(m): 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2015

Its normal for MOST ladies. When they're dating/married to an EXTREMELY nice guy, the relationship become boring. Ladies like "badt' guyz. Especially a lady that is RELATIVELY less 'badt'.

sprinkles14:
As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Neplusultra(f): 8:44pm On Apr 03, 2015

Was in ur shoe b4 n I took courage and dismissed him, infact he was loved by all in my family but wot abt me?! Pls dont marry outta pity and dont hurt him by marrying him, leave him. Am also sure it's cos of d 4 yrs dating, its not good sometimes to date dat long

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Neplusultra(f): 8:45pm On Apr 03, 2015

MzNelly:
Why did you wait till after 4 years then?

Dats d question.

Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by Nobody: 8:46pm On Apr 03, 2015

Spirit of mamiwota or worst spiritual husband is disturbing uyou, u stayed with him for four years, accepted his proposal, made marriage plans and now you are making up stories, my dear its not normal, u are possesed and needs serious deliverance, see how it sounds so easy in ur mouth, u will cheat after one year to make yourself happy. I advice u see a man of God, cos I bet u if u walk away from this one and tries to hook up with another same story will repeat.

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Re: Getting Married Next Month And Nothing Interest Me About My Hubby To Be! by precisionindepth: 8:52pm On Apr 03, 2015

Roland17:
Please spare this just man and his future kids this punishment you are pushing him into, your acts and thoughts are borderline SELFISH.

The man is oblivious and innocent, the future of a human is what is being deliberated here, I mean show some maturity, don't lead him any further, approach him and end this relationship, believing love would grow is a hypothetical permutation that is not guaranteed, it has no place in mutual relationships.

"The worst thing that can ever happen to a man, is getting married to woman who is not ready for marriage"

there was a thread smtimes ago on a man who dumped his fiance of 11yrs a day to wedding,; d funniest was more male on d thread said d lady must v done D's or that and so on. 50% of d guys didn't condemn d guy's behavior BT blamed d girl for waiting DT long and all dt

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