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What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 8:59am On Apr 04, 2015 |
#You will never see things through your partner's eyes because you are two entirely different people. You are genetically, physiologically, psychologically and historically different. #You will not solve your relationship problems by becoming more alike in your thinking. Men and women are wired differently. Attempting to blur your fundamentally different viewpoints is unnatural and even dangerous. #Recognize that a relationship is far more enjoyable when you're with someone who enriches your life, not simply reflects it. Appreciate your differences. #Yes, your life with your partner should include plenty of romance. But don't kid yourself and expect an unrealistic nollywood fairytale. The truth is that in the real world, being in love is not like falling in love. #lastly and MOST IMPORTANT, Don't fall into the trap of believing that you and your partner can't be happy if you can't resolve your serious disagreements. Ninety percent of problems in a relationship are not solvable. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Nobody: 9:03am On Apr 04, 2015 |
FTC, mods frontpage please cc: farano |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by mirexxx(f): 9:04am On Apr 04, 2015 |
really? |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Nobody: 9:06am On Apr 04, 2015 |
noted |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Nobody: 9:07am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Op, in addition to the points stated above, let us also bare cognizance that in every relationship, there will always be ups and downs. There would be times when it would seem like the relationship is plunging like the titanic into the depths of the atlantic. There would be times when lovers will have their feuds, there will always be set backs, but they shouldn't let this come between their union. Remaining together despite all this, is what makes the relationship grow stronger. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Nobody: 9:08am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by xynerise: 9:09am On Apr 04, 2015 |
It all depends on the type of relationship you want to start. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Tallesty1(m): 9:12am On Apr 04, 2015 |
There is one thing you forgot to add. You forgot to add that "It has no happy ending." It is either you breakup with them or you marry them. If you breakup, GOOD, if you marry them nah another problem. It is either you divorce them or you are stuck with them until you die Then the one alive will be heart-broken. 1 Like |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by dharay99: 9:13am On Apr 04, 2015 |
only applicable to some rltnshps falcney... |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 9:16am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 9:17am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by vizkiz: 9:19am On Apr 04, 2015 |
nah...I didn't attend the class relationship 001 before I started one. I learnt most of what I should from my first relationship then got better in my 2nd relationship. Wait, number what am I now sef |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 9:25am On Apr 04, 2015 |
vizkiz: 356, with 350 heartbreaks,6 coitis. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by FLAWLES(f): 9:41am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Tallesty1:.DADDY m getting scared;( (boyfriend wahala,Marry trouble,Divorce gossip,Single spiritual Husband/wife go de find u) |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by dharay99: 9:43am On Apr 04, 2015 |
falconey: hw can u say 90% of problems in a rltnshp aint solvable? u are yet to hear abt d past & present 0f mine tho... |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by topaaz(m): 9:44am On Apr 04, 2015 |
This explains why i'm single, because my ex-gf failed to understand that i don't have to be a reflection of her for us to be compatible but that what made us different was suppose to compliment our relationship. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Tallesty1(m): 9:44am On Apr 04, 2015 |
FLAWLES:Why ladies here Family-zone me is what I still don't understand. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 9:48am On Apr 04, 2015 |
dharay99: because you let her win to stop the logomachy doesn't mean the problem is solved. In most cases is just tolerance,love and commitment that keep us going |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by FLAWLES(f): 9:49am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Tallesty1:.lolz; you know some women call der huzband DADDY |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 9:49am On Apr 04, 2015 |
topaaz: single and proud! |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by dharay99: 9:51am On Apr 04, 2015 |
falconey: bcuz I let her win? Like u know abt it well? Yhu seriously wrong, its of no need telling u more. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 9:54am On Apr 04, 2015 |
dharay99: Am sorry I take that back........tell me I wanna learn. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by topaaz(m): 9:58am On Apr 04, 2015 |
falconey:Single And Very Proud! |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by dharay99: 10:05am On Apr 04, 2015 |
falconey: atymz u av to let sleeping dogs lie, buh dat doesnt av to happen always. Ohk, a misunderstanding occurs btw two lovers, along d way of arguing d mata, one party realizes his/her mistake and decides to apologize, plz telme isn't dat issue solved already.? Do u call dat tolerance, commitment.? Naaa. They realized where d mistake came from and decided to give it a solution, I tell u dat ish is dead solved already. Its not always until ida d boy or girl decides to accept d blame(tolerance) even wen d person aint at fault. I dunno if im making sense.. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 10:40am On Apr 04, 2015 |
dharay99: you are super right! and when same argument start again or another, either of them will dig the old wound to remind him/her , he/she tolerated it last time. This makes the issue unsolved but leting go. We never forget we just forgive. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Nobody: 10:42am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Do you believe in love?? |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by falconey(m): 10:48am On Apr 04, 2015 |
Tallesty1: this write-up is not encouraging. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by dharay99: 11:03am On Apr 04, 2015 |
falconey:yea, we only forget. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Tallesty1(m): 3:43pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Tallesty1(m): 3:44pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Nobody: 3:56pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Nice points op. |
Re: What You Must Know About Relationship Before You Start One. by Vivly(f): 3:57pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Sometimes, it can get really boring and monotonous you'd just want to put your head under a pillow and die. |
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