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The is this gal I like and wanted to date from my church, after we became friends she told me she had some financial problems for her project work and asked me to borrow her 10,000 (10k).
Well it Ben over two months now and I need my money back, I don't know how to ask her because I like the gal, but if i ask her will it spoil my relationship of intention to date her? Or I should forget about the money and ask her out at once?
I need advise because 10k no be small money, my pocket don dry now

Why you go fund babe project


You be scholarship manager...

iceberylin:
Why you go fund babe project


You be her papa...

I no fund her project she say make i borrow her dt she will pay back, but she never pay am and I need my money

what do you want us to do

Justmeandu:
I no fund her project she say make i borrow her dt she will pay back, but she never pay am and I need my money

if you need your 'money' go meet the girl na or did we borrowed you any money
See us ..see wahala lol

''Hey babe, I need that money wey I been borrow you. I wan use am'' should do it perfectly.

Hazardd:
what do you want us to do

advise on how to get the money back n still date her

ronald4ever:
It appears you're more interested in a relationship with her than your money. Fact is, whether there will be a relationship or not you've to ask for a reimbursement. A relationship with her shouldn't stop her from keeping to her part of agreement.

Ask her for your money and still go ahead asking her out later. Should you not ask her the money and she agrees to your advances it'll send wrong signals. Like you being her money bag or a maga.

It's not too advisable for a guy to borrow money to just any girl, especially the one you have a crush on. A lot of them think they can have their way of not paying back. No offence meant.

thanks alot, so let me collect the money first abi? Before I think of anything else

Vivly:
''Hey babe, I need that money wey I been borrow you. I wan use am'' should do it perfectly.

I wish is dt easy as u said

oga, d matter nor get part 2.....

ask her for it....chill for a while, then ask her out

sarmiie:
oga, d matter nor get part 2.....

ask her for it....chill for a while, then ask her out

or ask her out, if she says no... then chill for a while and say; Babe hw far my money now I need am....

lygn19:
or ask her out, if she says no... then chill for a while and say; Babe hw far my money now I need am....

so if she come agree na, it means my 10k don waka I really dy confused

ronald4ever:


Yes collect your money first. Then give it some weeks and ask her out. If you don't ask for the money, when you two ever kick off a relationship she is likely to start "borrowing" some more money from you.

When she pays you back you could just drop her 1 or 2k or whatever you can part ways with. This is so she doesn't think you are the stingy type and can pave a smooth way for you when you ask her out.

Even if she doesn't pay back at the end of the day you must ask, or she could take you for a fool and come up with spurious money claims when a relationship sets in.

Well said. Op pls collect back ur money

lygn19:
or ask her out, if she says no... then chill for a while and say; Babe hw far my money now I need am....

hehehe.....dat advice get k-leg o
the gal fit think say na because she nor gree date am na y him wan collect d money back
she fit spoil him reputation like dat...

my guy,
na so one of dem take chop my 4k, love i no see, toto i no see,
abeg even na police use am collect your money oh,

Justmeandu:
so if she come agree na, it means my 10k don I really dy confused

u wud still ask her now...lol''' no look sm gals face o, if u re trying to please her wen she says no after doing ur best for her d heart break wud be extreme, so just tell her watsup... tell her u need ur cash for sth dat u re broke...

ebamma:
my guy,
na so one of dem take chop my 4k, love i no see, toto i no see,
abeg even na police use am collect your money oh,

Justmeandu:
The is this gal I like and wanted to date from my church, after we became friends she told me she had some financial problems for her project work and asked me to borrow her 10,000 (10k).
Well it Ben over two months now and I need my money back, I don't know how to ask her because I like the gal, but if i ask her will it spoil my relationship of intention to date her? Or I should forget about the money and ask her out at once?
I need advise because 10k no be small money, my pocket don dry now

oga 4get dat money it don waka go........ Asking her the money is not good enuf for a guy. She said she will return it ryt? then take her for her word.

lasstropinky:
oga 4get dat money it don waka go........ Asking her the money is not good enuf for a guy. She said she will return it ryt? then take her for her word.

she has not shown a sign that she will return 2 month don waka am already feeling I did d wrong thing helping out

Justmeandu:
she has not shown a sign that she will return 2 month don waka am already feeling I did d wrong thing helping out

Make i ask "did you lend her with free mind or bcus of the relationship u hope for?

go and tell her parents

lasstropinky:
Make i ask "did you lend her with free mind or bcus of the relationship u hope for?

free mind hoping to collect it in a month time

Call 112 for any complain

Justmeandu:
free mind hoping to collect it in a month time

if someone take away your cloak do not ask him again.......... God go refund you...Just let it go

sarmiie:
hehehe.....dat advice get k-leg o
the gal fit think say na because she nor gree date am na y him wan collect d money back
she fit spoil him reputation like dat...

na ppl like una gal dae use shine... u go form gentle man, tomorrow she wud say dat guy na one of my Maga dat year...

One chance money and love. Just take one. How u they lend money to smbody u want tell say u lovd am? If care îs not taken u no see any of them. Pele. Doo.

op this one strong o, if say i talk same make you give me 1k make i carry do bis sub u no for gree

Stinggy and simdam500 see your brother here o

marv1:
One chance money and love. Just take one. How u they lend money to smbody u want tell say u lovd am? If care îs not taken u no see any of them. Pele. Doo.

money first o make love wait first

asdfjklhaha:
Well said. Op pls collect back ur money

Tautology

Please What can I do to get my money back you guys r not saying anything concerning dt