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Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:28am On Apr 05, 2015
I know the guys won't be happy about this, well truth must be said even when is bitter
Sex has turned many ladies into a mystery
of thinking what they feel for a particular
guy is true love.

You meet a guy, he takes you out;
He had a great sex with you,

it was like heaven to you.

He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him
so much you start assuming both of you are meant
to be together as husband & wife.

You start dreaming of your future with
him while

he's just having fun.

Your feelings for him has blindfolded you from
seeing things from the reality point of view.

You find yourself infatuated with him just because
you don't want to feel used & dumped.

Sometimes,

you need to sit down & ask yourself;

What do i really love about this guy?

Do I see Christ in him?

Is he a guy I can boldly take to my pastor?

Can I introduce him as my husband to people
who are responsible?

You know the guy is not capable of being a good
husband & father;

yet you want to kill yourself because of him.

But sometimes you need to differentiate between
what you just feel and what you really deserve.

Don't start dreaming of your future with a guy
who is just catching his fun.

Don't attach a permanent feeling to a temporal person.

Don't open up your heart to a guy who
doesn't open his bible.

Stop chasing after a guy who doesn't chase
after God. My dear!

‪#‎ladies_please_be_wise‬

There will be enough time to engage in sex after
you are married.

Don't make yourself cheap!

Men generally don't have respect for ladies who so
easily give in to sex request.

They may pretend to value you,
but in their hearts,

men don't really hold such ladies in high esteem.

Happy easter all
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by 42n8dzydoo(m): 11:29am On Apr 05, 2015
End or earn?
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:30am On Apr 05, 2015
what is this one saying undecided ?
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Fairgodwin(m): 11:30am On Apr 05, 2015
42n8dzydoo:
End or earn?
He meant 'earn.' Typo, I guess.
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:30am On Apr 05, 2015
42n8dzydoo:
End or earn?
earn
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:31am On Apr 05, 2015
I know a girl dat had sex on the very first date ..
N shes married now with two kids .. 7 years ... So it depends ..
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by lirusehn(m): 11:32am On Apr 05, 2015
AmALilgodSoDontQuoteMe:
blabbing on a Sunday morning sad
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Fairgodwin(m): 11:33am On Apr 05, 2015
Op, what makes you even think the lady in question doesn't want that sex too and just having fun too? It's a two way thing, bro.
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:34am On Apr 05, 2015
Orijin101:
what is this one saying undecided ?
Lol he made mistake u guys
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Tashaamania(f): 11:35am On Apr 05, 2015
Just like I know of a senior colleague who did abortion 7times while she was in school and now happily married with three kids..
Life is funny
Lala247:
I know a girl dat had sex on the very first date ..
N shes married now with two kids .. 7 years ... So it depends ..
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:36am On Apr 05, 2015
So if one should open and close his bible, he's suddenly Mr. Right, right? Guys, get a bible, open and close it ASAP. Thank me if that babe falls in love with you; but shoot the OP if she doesn't.
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:37am On Apr 05, 2015
Lala247:
I know a girl dat had sex on the very first date ..
N shes married now with two kids .. 7 years ... So it depends ..
fortunate for her, percentage speak better, to keep your chances alive follow the high percent
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:38am On Apr 05, 2015
Orijin101:
what is this one saying undecided ?
don't nail me, i know it looks unfair to the guys
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:39am On Apr 05, 2015
Tashaamania:
Just like I know of a senior colleague who did abortion 7times while she was in school and now happily married with three kids..
Life is funny
Abi ohh

Lol they base this on one girl .. Like they know how all girls operate ..

Trust me even one had baby age of 14 she don marry oh

Lol
But i get wt op is saying there are dertain guys u know ... Lie lie u no go even collect hug cc
But trust me when u meet the one whether is same day or wedding night they do it .. They are still together happily married smiley
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:39am On Apr 05, 2015
Fairgodwin:
Op, what makes you even think the lady in question doesn't want that sex too and just having fun too? It's a two way thing, bro.
to keep their prestige they have to learn to deny us that
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:41am On Apr 05, 2015
harrysterol:
fortunate for her, percentage speak better, to keep your chances alive follow the high percent
Yh i get u smiley
But its like in America they would think ur crazy walahi
When i went to atlanta with my brother come n see girls toasting guys any hiw .. Some even gave him their oant self to take home ..
So i guess its mostly an african thing undecided
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:41am On Apr 05, 2015
RickRichards:
So if one should open and close his bible, he's suddenly Mr. Right, right? Guys, get a bible, open and close it ASAP. Thank me if that babe falls in love with you; but shoot the OP if she doesn't.
don't open it when your not making use of it, open it when in sincerity you want to use it
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by njuwo(m): 11:41am On Apr 05, 2015
harrysterol:
I know the guys won't be happy about this, well truth must be said even when is bitter
Sex has turned many ladies into a mystery
of thinking what they feel for a particular
guy is true love.

You meet a guy, he takes you out;
He had a great sex with you,

it was like heaven to you.

He makes you feel happy because you enjoyed him
so much you start assuming both of you are meant
to be together as husband & wife.

You start dreaming of your future with
him while

he's just having fun.

Your feelings for him has blindfolded you from
seeing things from the reality point of view.

You find yourself infatuated with him just because
you don't want to feel used & dumped.

Sometimes,

you need to sit down & ask yourself;

What do i really love about this guy?

Do I see Christ in him?

Is he a guy I can boldly take to my pastor?

Can I introduce him as my husband to people
who are responsible?

You know the guy is not capable of being a good
husband & father;

yet you want to kill yourself because of him.

But sometimes you need to differentiate between
what you just feel and what you really deserve.

Don't start dreaming of your future with a guy
who is just catching his fun.

Don't attach a permanent feeling to a temporal person.

Don't open up your heart to a guy who
doesn't open his bible.

Stop chasing after a guy who doesn't chase
after God. My dear!

‪#‎ladies_please_be_wise‬

There will be enough time to engage in sex after
you are married.

Don't make yourself cheap!

Men generally don't have respect for ladies who so
easily give in to sex request.

They may pretend to value you,
but in their hearts,

men don't really hold such ladies in high esteem.

Happy easter all
Them go still hear. Wetin dey vex me for all these kind post be say all these girls go come hear hail you finish for bringing am but at the end them go fail to use am for real life.
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Fairgodwin(m): 11:41am On Apr 05, 2015
harrysterol:
to keep their prestige they have to learn to deny us that
The last time I checked, they still remain humans, just like us.
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Enegod(m): 11:44am On Apr 05, 2015
Lala247:
I know a girl dat had sex on the very first date ..
N shes married now with two kids .. 7 years ... So it depends ..
Tashaamania:
Just like I know of a senior colleague who did abortion 7times while she was in school and now happily married with three kids..
Life is funny
see them!
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:44am On Apr 05, 2015
Lala247:
Yh i get u smiley
But its like in America they would think ur crazy walahi
When i went to atlanta with my brother come n see girls toasting guys any hiw .. Some even gave him their oant self to take home ..
So i guess its mostly an african thing undecided
we're in Africa precisely Nigeria so we act like one, integrating our culture and believes
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Tashaamania(f): 11:44am On Apr 05, 2015
I get it op too.. thing is, it is overrated
just stick with whichever your heart wants and dont try to think abstinence is a guarantee to happy marriage
Lala247:
Abi ohh

Lol they base this on one girl .. Like they know how all girls operate ..

Trust me even one had baby age of 14 she don marry oh

Lol
But i get wt op is saying there are dertain guys u know ... Lie lie u no go even collect hug cc
But trust me when u meet the one whether is same day or wedding night they do it .. They are still together happily married smiley
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Tashaamania(f): 11:45am On Apr 05, 2015
Enegod:
see them!
what now?
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:46am On Apr 05, 2015
njuwo:
Them go still hear. Wetin dey vex me for all these kind post be say all these girls go come hear hail you finish for bringing am but at the end them go fail to use am for real life.
many are called but few are chosen
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:46am On Apr 05, 2015
harrysterol:
don't nail me, i know it looks unfair to the guys
I shouldn't nail youhuh Are you a pvssy undecided ?
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:48am On Apr 05, 2015
Tashaamania:
I get it op too.. thing is, it is overrated
just stick with whichever your heart wants and dont try to think abstinence is a guarantee to happy marriage
well best in life are for free
Give a rage of five guys in your street a sample of the kitty and tell me what you get the next week
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Enegod(m): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2015
Tashaamania:
what now?
is she your role model? the girl that did 7 abortions grin
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Tashaamania(f): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2015
harrysterol:
well best in life are for free
Give a rage of five guys in your street a sample of the kitty and tell me what you get the next week
mtcheeww didnt know I was wasting my time in a dumbskull's thread
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 05, 2015
Lala247:
Lol he made mistake u guys
yea. . . I'm not talkin about his mistake, i jez don't get the message he iz tryin to pass undecided
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by Tashaamania(f): 11:51am On Apr 05, 2015
Enegod:
is she your role model? the girl that did 7 abortions grin
very funny, I'm not in the mood. If you must know, I've seen worse and that's coz it's along my field of study. I even have friends who call me up for advice.. so abeg I use God name beg you, no make me vex
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by harrysterol(op): 11:51am On Apr 05, 2015
Tashaamania:
mtcheeww didnt know I was wasting my time in a dumbskull's thread
no you dint waste it, i only tried making my point look practical and realistic, that staying with a guy and starving him of sex will make him adore you more and more
Re: Ladies How To Earn Your Respect From Guys by TheChosenOne1: 11:52am On Apr 05, 2015
Tashaamania:
Just like I know of a senior colleague who did abortion 7times while she was in school and now happily married with three kids..
Life is funny
Those are Exceptions Dear!....The fact it worked for Miss A doesn't Mean Miss B will be spared!...Life is Funny as u've earlier said!...Happy Easter!
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