I've opened this thread to address a repugnant behaviour I've observed in here. I'm just so annoyed with many guys who spend almost their whole day bashing ladies on Nairaland, calling them all sort of names. And one is left to wonder the reason behind this distateful culture.
I'm not a feminist nor do I entirely support all the drama women do create sometimes that comes back to haunt them. All I'm pleading for is that guys should put the brakes on in doing the bashing. Many of us have sisters and I wonder whether we have ever cared to put ourselves in their shoes or thought of how they feel about the bashing going on here on daily basis, if they are on Nairaland. I feel it makes many girls feel bad about themselves. Imagine if a guy had told your sister some of these nasty things you say to and about girls on this forum. Just imagine it! I love my sisters and won't say such ugly things about them. So why should I say it to other girls? If a girl cheats on you or breaks your heart, I feel it is no good reason to come here and bash all the ladies. It is purely a case of displaced anger and a huge sign of immaturity on your part. Face the problem squarely and don't write volumes about it. Simply ask for advice and those knowledgeable and competent ones in our midst would no doubt help you out. After all, the choice is still yours to move on with your life. If she decides to object to your woo or request money from you to that end, the ball is still in your court to meet her demands or not. So there is no reason you should crow it for the whole world to hear. You won't solve your problem by so doing.
To be candid, men also engage in some of these notorious acts that are even worse than things girls have done to us. But as usual, we tend to play the saint and see the female as the unholy side of the union. It's not cool and portends danger for future marriages. Imagine your child calling your wife (his mother) or your sibling terming your girlfriend a hoe!
The bottom line is that, we should try to keep it nice even when we want to lacerate the flaws of women. Stop calling them hoes or other ugly names. For Christ's sake, these are future wives and mothers. And I believe no one would feel happy if his wife or sibling or mother is called such detestable names.

you can clearly differentiate between a bitch and a responsible lady.

you never tot of opening the tread for ladies bashing guys , seems u wanna be nice.

op, do you need a job to kill your time?

Even Guys are fed up on behalf of women. lmaoo

tosyne2much:
Thank God I don't bash ladies

Lemme book this plot of land and watch female bashers derail this thread

Tosyne is a good boy!!

Pls tell them yeye bashers!!




#bash me and die!!

Op tell them!!! nice thread,thumb up.

Pinkiedearie:
Pls tell them yeye bashers!!




#bash me and die!!

Chisos...

walks in with my orijin and popcorn.*abeg who who get black berry charger*.


Cc:sinaj

Op watch them decend on you calling you all kinds of names like woman wrapper

what are the other issues?...coz the first seem irrelevant

prettythicksme:
Op tell them!!! nice thread,thumb up.

Crosses legs and orders for a bottle of sprite.

# when will these guys grow up? #

Spaxon, get me one bottle.

TAKEN... In case

A.ss licker

what of ladies bashing guys?

op clap for yourself, welldone

Pinkiedearie:
Pls tell them yeye bashers!!




#bash me and die!!

mtcheeew

prettythicksme:
Tosyne is a good boy!!

Wristwatch is a gud boy too

wristwatch:


Wristwatch is a gud boy too

hmmmm really,that nice tho.I like Tosyne oooo his my very good friend

prettythicksme:
hmmmm really,that nice tho.I like Tosyne oooo his my very good friend

Aww. Lovely. U don c am with ur korokoro. Eyez?

tosyne2much:
Thank God I don't bash ladies

Lemme book this plot of land and watch female bashers derail this thread

.shey u dinnor see my shout awt?u cannor say tank u?

dharay99:


if e reach front page make naked maself put for naira land.

Lol. U dey mind some monikers. Post whey e make sense and otherwise, their own nah FP worthy.

dharay99:


if e reach front page make naked maself put for naira land.

And it will enter front page insha Allah

wristwatch:


Aww. Lovely. U don c am with ur korokoro. Eyez?

no but we do chat off nl

chibwike:
what are the other issues?...coz the first seem irrelevant

this is epic