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Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by pich4real(m): 12:27am On Apr 09, 2015 |
There is a correct time for everything, and before that, you must not overwhelm her by saying ‘I Love You’. Here are 8 reasons why you must never say those three words too soon. 1. It Kills The Excitement Believe us, the best parts of a relationship are the early beginnings where this is a certain amount of uncertainty in the minds of both partners. Going weak in the knees just looking at her, getting goose bumps every time she touches you, spending nights talking to each other over the phone – all this, once lost may never come back. By saying ‘I Love You’, you put a full stop to this excitement. 2. Your Obsession Is On Display It makes you look like a possessive, obsessive, desperate fool who wants nothing but a girlfriend in life. If you plan to spend your future with her, she better be impressed by your personality. Don’t come across as an insecure guy greedy for love. 3. You Fail To See The Reality There’s a difference between infatuation and love – a difference only time can make clear. By confessing your so-called love for her, you force your mind to believe that you actually love her. Your feelings may die down with a few more dates, but you’d be forcing yourself too hard to believe that she really is the one. Not just that, it puts immense pressure on the girl too. You’re better off without it, man. 4. It Could Lead To A Heartbreak Like men, a lot of women too are commitment phobic. While you may be all set to take the plunge without even thinking about it thoroughly, it might put the girl in question in a dilemma. And you know how it ends when a woman isn’t sure of her own feelings. You may end up losing what could have been yours, had you given it some more time. 5. You’ll Be Judged Even if you mean it, wait for the perfect time to say it. It’s not hard for men to fall in love in just a few days. But most women, my friend, are judging every move of yours. You may come across as vain and immature to a woman if you say ‘I Love You’ too soon. This ruins your chances totally. Do you want that? 6. What You See May Not Be Real To love people, you have know them very closely, if not inside out. Chances are, you were trying really hard at being ‘courteous’ and so was she. That might not be the real her. You must spend enough time with your date in order to know them personally, beyond their job descriptions and favourite drinks. 7. It May Result In A Disastrous Relationship Saying ‘I Love You’ could also make the girl believe that she loves you too. And once the words are exchanged, there’s no damage control possible. A half baked relationship where the partners are clueless about how they really feel and yet, commit to each other for life is the worst set up ever. It will only end in bitterness. 8. It May Draw You Two Apart Once awkward around each other, there is only little you can do to make up for it with your girl. Even though she may go on to love you in the near future, rushing in to commitment may just ruin your chances. She might get creeped out by your ‘love’ and decide to move away. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Tattooboy: 12:28am On Apr 09, 2015 |
I dont say those three words except when asked to. #nowplaying. 'I Love You' by Celine Dion |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 12:32am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Agreed. I love you don't move women that much anymore. They hear it everyday from sissies. Those 3 letter word can be said by just anyone with no sense of seriousness to it meaning. You show it, act it, not just say it. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ovaRAYted(m): 12:37am On Apr 09, 2015 |
true that |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by yemstok(m): 12:43am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Love your self first before you love any other person. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by jamex93(m): 12:44am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Oh I See... |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 12:58am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Your mouth will shrink |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:03am On Apr 09, 2015 |
dovelike: Ka nukwa... |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:06am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Owu ashi? |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:13am On Apr 09, 2015 |
dovelike: Ezigbo asi. Na gwa umu asa na furu fa na anya mana onu mu ga di ofuma, ogalo shrink ohh. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:16am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Odika I wu onye Anambra. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:19am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Why do some guys say it so early in a relationship? It can't be the real thing if you say it the first week you date. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:19am On Apr 09, 2015 |
dovelike: Gbam. Anambra ga mu si eje. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:20am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Chiam55: Even first month isn't so appropriate. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:21am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I think it's bs to say it before the first three months (honeymoon period) |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:24am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Ok. Mu a bu onye Imo. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:25am On Apr 09, 2015 |
is this nairaland or igboland 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:26am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Chiam55: Well, maybe. When one love they don't necessarily have to say it, their actions tell. Though saying it reassures the person but it goes more than just saying it. Those words have been seriously abused, already. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:26am On Apr 09, 2015 |
GhostProtocol: Help me ask dem |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:28am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I absolutely agree. Men have abused that word for entry to the holy land |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:28am On Apr 09, 2015 |
GhostProtocol: Chiam55: You both should calm down please. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:29am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Chiam55: Women are also complicit. They use it to gain favours. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:29am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:30am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Hmmmmm I hear ya |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by ronald4lif(m): 1:30am On Apr 09, 2015 |
dovelike: Onye Imo na Yank. Biko je'be ogbodo gi ga biri. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:33am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Chiam55: don't mind those igbo lovers, forbidden love |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:34am On Apr 09, 2015 |
I shouldn't have told rokiatu I love her soo quickly, now she won't return my calls |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 1:54am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Lol. Nsobu adi ri |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by philtrum(m): 2:02am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Perhaps |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by MrBasketball: 2:13am On Apr 09, 2015 |
GhostProtocol:That is the worst derail ever on Nairaland. He derailed this sensible thread for the (op) very bad. |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Nobody: 2:21am On Apr 09, 2015 |
MrBasketball: Very serious derailment! This thread must be somewhere in Enugu by now, smh |
Re: Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Say ‘I Love You’ Too Soon by Glowstone(m): 2:24am On Apr 09, 2015 |
shits again on this thread and move on without cleaning anus ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬ |
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