Godvilla:
Sex on 1st date?
Young lady, u need Christ in your life right now

Nubian113:
Ok I have a dilemma. I have been talking to this guy for a month now and we real got on. He told me all the things I need to hear and I told him how I felt. Now we live in two different cities so for our first date he came to my city. We've been talking every night on the phone so we really bonded. He came down and our chemistry was on 100%. I did my rituals all fresh and proper thinking me and him was gonna do the blessing of our new relationship (sex). Anyway come night time we're in bed just cuddling and kissing and I'm hot and he's hard but.... He tells me he really likes me and he wants to get to know me so we can't have sex because it's our first date. I asked him if he meant all those things he said and he replied "yes! but I want us to have at least five dates"wtf!!!

People please help me. Could he be serious and he wants to take things slowly or is he just not into me. Or maybe he has issues in the bedroom department. I laugh nervously because NO man has ever said no to me in bed so.... what do you think happened. I really need the men's honest opinion.

tohpahz:
for me, i think d guy is a gentleman. He doesn't wana rush things..
Nd since u said he had a hard on.. that means he's attracted to u..

Just give him time and see how it goes.. 5dates aint that much na..
Maybe he's following the book (think like a man) Thank ur God say no be the 90 day rule im use. U for wait tire!!

Bobopupa:

lol @ think like a man. A stiffy doesn't necessarily mean he has a thing for her, it's natural for a virile man in that circumstance. But if his mind isn't open to that with her, shiiit ain't gon' happen (or so i think :-/).

illiad:


Oga pls let people be themselves for once please. We musnt all to the clergy, and neither are we computer programs that we must function mechanically

illiad:
He might really like you and what's to keep you and so do not want to rush into your pot because there are two kinda men;

1. the ones who you mean little to after sex.
2. the ones you would only mean something to after they've tested you.

...that's all but if you're not satisfied ask him directly. He would tell you.

softysparky:
What are you waiting for girl

Rape him............

tohpahz:


A stiffy doesn't mean so.. but it can also mean so.. so lets leave it in the middle.

I like the way u think..

ronald4lif:
Which guy has a hard on and with a babe right by his side and comes up with such talk. Could he be a 2mins man who doesn't want you to be conscious of his sexual weakness or he didn't like what he saw after you've pulled off your wears? Hmmm

jacksparrow1207:

tohpahz:
@op.. or Maybe he's the type that thinks.. sex complicates issues..

Bobopupa:

Thank you. I agree we shud live it in the middle. Especially not knowing where they're both coming from or what points in thier lives they're each at...

GhostProtocol:


Lol, dude I've done that b4.

She was under 18 and I was like, it's not me that's going to spoil this girl.

PervyByNature:
people shud learn to be christ-like.

tohpahz:


What year was that please??

softysparky:

You heard me.

GhostProtocol:


Like 2 years ago, why?

tohpahz:

Just wanted knowing if guys still think like this.. as in. Can refuse a gal ..

Kudos tho..