So I dated this girl Quite sometime ago

She lost her virginity through Rape when she went to visit a guy in his place just like that
(Doubters Union that will say it's not true and that she lied to me, Hold your peace, I know why i believed her)

She is young and she has only been with me after the guy
She was very naive then, hence the willingness to just go to the house of a guy she barely knew.

One year after we started dating, on what was supposed to be our anniversary,
She called me and said she was almost raped by another male friend, this one she had told me about before,
That she screamed and neighbours started knocking, and that was how she was able to make it out of there
The guy was already holding her down by the neck choking her and ready to penetrate.

She was shaken up and it was her room-mates that consoled her.
She even had nightmares in the days after.
That incident would make it her third near rape experience, the first happened before she was actually raped and started her depression issues.

The thing is, she still likes to go to guy's houses where she will be alone with the guy!
She is a student.
One incident actually baffled me was when she just met some guys and within two weeks she was spending time in their rooms, watching movies and all.
it baffled me because anything can happen and she still risks it..

Last Week after some serious thoughts
I confronted her that she goes to guys houses because she liked the attention she gets from guys. She likes the attention she gets from guys that she knows want to sleep with her.
She then said that she knows it will sound stupid but she feels powerful when she is in those guys' rooms, and some she can control even though she can't control others and in those moments She doesn't feel vulnerable.
(She has an issue with vulnerability, she is afraid of getting hurt emotionally).

Pardon the long Post..
But i want to ask the wise and insightful people in the House..

What do you make of this?
Is the reason she gave all there is to it, or in your experience is there more?
Is she an addict?
Have you had any experience with girls like this?

Thanks for the matured comments.

My two cents.

Either she wasn't raped in the first place and she's boboing you, or she wants the rape.

Cough!!!

Dj oya bring me the Mic.

Oya gift! Put off the light ogede ti gbo oya make we fry some dodo inside my room.

makydebbie:

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Haba... Maky EPP the poor boy na.

Splinz:


Haba... Maky EPP the poor boy na.

I've given my two cents..

makydebbie:
My two cents.

Either she wasn't raped in the first place and she's boboing you, or she wants the rape.

She like rape shey? Me sef don dey think am.

Op, your babe like rape like mad!

mumu united leave her alone and chop your own share.

Splinz:


She like rape shey? Me sef don dey think am.

Op, your babe like rape like mad!

A person who has been raped or was close to it, will never behave like that.

Nawa o.

See lemme tell u,
the mind is something that's difficult to comprehend, things that may look insane to u, will look sane to others,

Also, any1 that suffers a traumatic experience may never remain the same again.

Finally eh, the human mind just vast jare, one can never understand people's actions sometimes.

makydebbie:
A person who has been raped or was close to it, will never behave like that.

Normally, that's true,

But in some cases, they can behave like that o,
The human mind is soo complicated

[quote author=Gambitt007 post=53319369][/quote]Jarizod?

AlexCk:


Normally, that's true,

But in some cases, they can behave like that o,
The human mind is soo complicated

If they enjoyed the rape. I'm talking from experience. You can't be raped, traumatized and still be visiting guys after three times!!

makydebbie:
A person who has been raped or was close to it, will never behave like that.

No mind the yeye girl. She just dey used op's head dey play ludo.

That girl penchant for sex (whether rape or not) no be here.

makydebbie:
Jarizod?

Nah

That girl is a bloody liar... Girls that suffered rape... Undergo a lot of emotional trauma... If she was really rape she will never go to any guy's house...

She would never even allow any guy to touch her physically....

If truly they've been raping or trying to rape her... She likes it... As in a lot.. That's y she keeps going..

Wetin she dey yarn na big, big talks...

(my opinion)

Splinz:


No mind the yeye girl. She just dey used op's head dey play ludo.

That girl penchant for sex (whether rape or not) no be here.

Abi

Gambitt007:



Nah

You can't register yesterday and join plurimi today.

makydebbie:
If they enjoyed the rape. I'm talking from experience. You can't be raped, traumatized and still be visiting guys after three times!!

I understand, that's y i said normally, one shouldn't,

But we can't speak for everyone, some people even fantasize about being rape, & stuffs like that,

Was watching something on tv about prisoners(mostly sadistic ones), twas a documentary ish sha,
They were discussing how some of those criminals had fans, mostly females and received romantic letters from them, about sick fantasies and all.

Some people just silly shaa

Jodha:
That girl is a bloody liar... Girls that suffered rape... Undergo a lot of emotional trauma... If she was really rape she will never go to any guy's house...

She would never even allow any guy to touch her physically....

If truly they've been raping or trying to rape her... She likes it... As in a lot.. That's y she keeps going..

Wetin she dey yarn na big, big talks...

(my opinion)

My dear, I wish I could give a million likes

makydebbie:
You can't register yesterday and join plurimi today.

I know, but I'm not jarizod

Fuvk fuvk everywhere..

makydebbie:
My two cents.

Either she wasn't raped in the first place and she's boboing you, or she wants the rape.

and OP still believes she was raped



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AlexCk:


I understand, that's y i said normally, one shouldn't,

But we can't speak for everyone, some people even fantasize about being rape, & stuffs like that,

Was watching something on tv about prisoners(mostly sadistic ones), twas a documentary ish sha,
They were discussing how some of those criminals had fans, mostly females and received romantic letters from them, about sick fantasies and all.

Some people just silly shaa

If you say so...

ELShehzad:
and OP still believes she was raped



NP


Chris Brown ft Lil wayne and Tyga- Loyal

Leave op make him dey chop bobo there

Dope ass song I love the first line..."I wasn't born last night"

Gambitt007:




I know, but I'm not jarizod

okay then

And the guy really believed
Bros abeg be sharp for just 10 minutes.

Aye mi!! Temi!! bami!! apostle must hear dis

I think ur girl is easy to be lured by little things like food or money or even material things ..

But being rape few times, nAaaah I don't think so.. Coz if she was really being raped, the trauma she has will give her fear: A Fear going to random men's room..