Pls I want to no if over caring is bad in relationship, because my girl friend attitude is becoming unbearable, am so nice to her in everything but she always take me for a fool as if I don't no what am doing pls ur opinion matter

Haven't you had the saying that "too much of everything is bad"?

First let me order pop corn for ignorant comment.

secondly! Sometimes people take your kindness for granted. I think it's almost human nature to do so. Atleast for some people. It's always wise to be nice in moderation while you observe how they react to that. Just make sure you talk to her about it and if it's unbearable and damaging, move on!!!

Sometimes!

Becos we human beings take it for granted; there should be moderation, a balance sort of

Then there is over possessiveness

not just bad but terribly very very bad

justmag:
First let me order pop corn for ignorant comment.

secondly! Sometimes people take your kindness for granted. I think it's almost human nature to do so. Atleast for some people. It's always wise to be nice in moderation while you observe how they react to that. Just make sure you talk to her about it and if it's unbearable and damaging, move on!!!

we commented at d same time.... And u said my mind

pasqal09:
Haven't you had the saying that "too much of everything is bad"?

who ever created that saying is dumb,

Because TOO MUCH MONEY is great!

DuchessLily:
we commented at d same time.... And u said my mind

lmao..that is so strange. We pretty much said the same thing.

Anything tagged "over" is very bad e.g overspeeding

falconey:




who ever create that saying is dumb,

Because TOO MUCH MONEY is great!

Too much money can be a problem you know

pasqal09:

Too much money can be a problem you know

I hate assumptions, I need proof.

Everyday I pray to GOD for too much money because I want to be RICH FOREVER!!!!!

falconey:



I hate assumptions, I need proof.

Everyday I pray to GOD for too much money because I want to be RICH FOREVER!!!!!

I bet you that you'll forget God as soon as he makes you that rich.

I don't think over-caring is the problem here, methinks you are the only one in love.

YUNGLURD:
Anything tagged "over" is very bad e.g overspeeding

like over drinking

pasqal09:

I bet you that you'll forget God as soon as he makes you that rich.

you are deviating from the point, that's between me and the almighty.

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Yes very bad ... Like my mum says too much of everything is BAD
No chic wants that to b fair .

justmag:
First let me order pop corn for ignorant comment.

secondly! Sometimes people take your kindness for granted. I think it's almost human nature to do so. Atleast for some people. It's always wise to be nice in moderation while you observe how they react to that. Just make sure you talk to her about it and if it's unbearable and damaging, move on!!!

Seconded!!
Plus maybe the Op is Too "Clingy"

Op, Man Up!!

Enockia:


like over drinking

ur head is there.

To be honest, Its not a good position to be. But you can start withdrawing from her it may hurt the first day but u will cope. Don't ever give any1 that ever took any thing you gave them for granted a second chance. Its a waste.

Is as bad as u put it OVERpampering.

Very bad,people take it for granted.

Thank u my brother I really appreciate ur contribution, I guess that's what I will do like seriously I will reduce the call, the affection, the trying to please attitude, but I hope I won't loose her to another man

Donicobone:
Thank u my brother I really appreciate ur contribution, I guess that's what I will do like seriously I will reduce the call, the affection, the trying to please attitude, but I hope I won't loose her to another man

loosing her means you guys are not meant to be together,she knew ur weak point and she's using it against you,been in the situation before,lots of fishies in da river ooooo.

sheunflexy:
loosing her means you guys are not meant to be together,she knew ur weak point and she's using it against you,been in the situation before,lots of fishies in da river ooooo.

lol glad ur learning

Lala247:


lol glad ur learning

learnt in a hard way,never to go extra lenght in other to please any woman,really hit me hard then meeenn,you should unerstand what am talking about nah.

sheunflexy:
learnt in a hard way,never to go extra lenght in other to please any woman,really hit me hard then meeenn,you should unerstand what am talking about nah.

I understand totally

Donicobone:
Pls I want to no if over caring is bad in relationship, because my girl friend attitude is becoming unbearable, am so nice to her in everything but she always take me for a fool as if I don't no what am doing pls ur opinion matter

When dealing with a woman, to be successful at it, you must have what I call a "mirror attitude". In other words, treat her how she treats you. Let your actions be a reflection of her actions. If she's nice to you, be nice to her only to the extent of the nicety she has shown; if she treats you like shiit, treat her like "ebola" ...should have caught my point by now. Can't speak for anyone else, but it always works for me.