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Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by smudge2079(m): 2:56pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
softapple:stupid boy. D gal gree, now u are having second tots. Very soon u will start blaming ladies for forming hard to get. Ur Yeye dey smell. Mtchewwwwww 8 Likes |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by whizqueen(f): 3:00pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
Maybe she likes him too much or she is jes like that. Your friend should take his time n found out if she is really interested in him or she jes did it for the fun of it. One can never tell maybe the feelings controlled her thinking. 1 Like |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by mizkeleke(f): 3:02pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
softapple:Nahhhhhh......still a gud gurl |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by InZA: 3:02pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I don't think you're being objective here... Your opinion reeks of thick misogyny. If it's a man that proposes to a woman, doesn't the woman deserve the best possible man? That a man can jump from bed to bed without any real consequences to him, his life or his personality, is an absolutely flawed idea... It's bad for a man to be a bed hopper just as it's bad for a woman to do so. Please let's stop all these double standards abeg, this is 2015, we ought to be more liberal objectively and less subjectively archaic. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
mizkeleke:yeah ure beautiful |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by noskeybaba: 3:05pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
This sort of question or tread makes me sick and angry. What sort of people exists these days? The girl was your crush (everything you wanted), now you had sex with her you are asking if you should take her serious (now you are unsure of the crush). I just don't know how some girls end up with some stupid and milky-brain guys.(Probably haunted by past wrong doings). Our girls should open there eyes and use their brains. Some guys might look grown but have like 4yr old brain. I'm sure if this girl refused on the first date you will come here to open a silly thread about it. And Why do we feel that a girl lost most when you've had sex with her? She did less work and probably enjoyed it more (if you know your onions). Pls stop opening such useless thread spoiling business for some correct guys (like me)on first date. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
whizqueen:exactly my thought |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by berylLOL(f): 3:07pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
ronald4lif:your statement is contradictory but that is just a part of the problem, my biggest worry with what you just said is that you obviously think every action of a woman should be meticulously planned so as not to drive potential Men away because her greatest aspiration in life should be marriage, now as a young girl, because of people like you who make up this patriarchal society, I have to pretend not to want/like sex because a Woman who embraces her sexual nature has no regard for herself but Men on the other hand are free to do whatever they want to do because? oh that's true there's no logical reason asides the fact that you are Men. 2 Likes |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by InZA: 3:09pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
LewisO: Well cool.... Personally speaking, it makes them cheap...Super cheap. This whole box would be too small if I wanted to start giving my submissions about getting laid while dating, so there's really no need I go further... I can't have sex on a first date, I can't even have sex on the 50th date, so that should give you a peek into my perspective about sex and dating. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by LewisO: 3:14pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
InZA:@bolded so when will you have sex with her? |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by InZA: 3:16pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
LewisO: After the date with the ring. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by LewisO: 3:19pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
InZA:U mean after marriage or before marriage? |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by ronald4lif(m): 3:21pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
berylLOL: InZA: Do I take it that you both are oblivious of the fact at least 60% of nigerian girls have marriage as one of their main priority in life? That to them life is all about getting married. Or the idea that most of them portrays themselves in a mannerism that will appeal to potential suitors? Do I also take it that you're oblivious of the African man mentality of tagging girls cheap at the slightest opportunity. If this is not one of those action that drives the cheap girls mantra then what else. I have said earlier in some of my previous submission on this platform that I don't consider sex or first date sexual encounters to determine a homely girl, as the hard to get ones might be worse off. But you lot fail to understand that in Nigeria; a religious, judgmental and hypocritical society people will always shrug off at such actions. This debate has nothing to do with misogynism and if anyone is perceiving it to be so its wrong and it should be dismissed. Let's be pragmatic here and narrow this discuss on the average Nigerian man mentality towards women and relationship. Not what should be right or wrong. For like I said it's wrong to judge a woman based on the fact that she has sex on a first date. 3 Likes |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by chocmanne(m): 3:24pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
cos they had sex on the first date changes nothing if the guy really feel something for the girl....the first date or the third date, sex is still sex... 1 Like |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Nobody: 3:27pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
This is an emotional Bru ha ha and relationship papi yo yo. I hate this kind of thing thang!!! |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by InZA: 3:36pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
LewisO: Lol Does a woman wear the ring before or after marriage, ofcourse I mean after marriage. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by LewisO: 3:42pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
InZA:U can propose with a ring, but that doesn't mean u are both married yet. 1 Like |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Brugo(m): 3:49pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
So you want a politician to still campaign after winning election? Haba. But the girl must really love him to have done that. He should not break her heart. Cos she if she curses him, it won't miss o. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by InZA: 3:53pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I understand your use of the African man mentality thing, but as much as I may want to accede to your suggestion of not placing wrong or right markers, on this issue of the African man mentality, I just have to pick a side. Yes... The African man mentality has eaten deep into our societal belief system and standards but is it right?... Is this African mentality really right?..I'm sure you agree that the fact that a notion is widespread doesn't necessarily make it right. If it's an African man mentality to think that because 60% of women have marriage as their life goal, he then has the right of way to behave unruly with ceaseless flirting and cheating on his partner - Is this right?. I think we should shift our gaze from the African mentality thing, because it's an umbrella that has become too small to accommodate objective and reasonable submissions. Instead we should tow along the parts of what's right and wrong according to good conscience. Ultimately what I want you to take from this, no matter how convoluted I may have sounded in this reply, is - Let's treat women with respect, with as much respect as we also want to be treated, and the suggestion that it's remotely okay for a man to ask the question the OP is asking gives little or no respect to the woman folk. 1 Like |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by jmoore(m): 3:53pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
There is no difference between sex on the first date and sex on the 1,000th date. It's either you are anti-premarital sex or pro-premarital sex. Both of them had sex. Therefore the appropriate question should be "Should both of them take themselves seriously?" 4 Likes |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by InZA: 4:08pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
LewisO: Anyways.... I'm sure you get the idea. I don't do premarital sex. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by ronald4lif(m): 4:13pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
InZA: Nicely put. All you said is correct. Normally, the question of whether to take a girl serious after having sex with her on a first date shouldn't arise. But this same mentality of ours has skewed the way majority of Nigerians view and treat women with utter disregard. Two people had sex, enjoyed it and the other coming out to seek public opinion or thinking whether he should take the girl serious is ridiculous to say the least. This same belief might just be responsible for the fact that most Nigerian women comes off as though they don't like sex or hard to get. Because the men has given that notion that when a girl gives in on sex easily she's cheap. A very distasteful belief which goes further to subjecting women in surpressing their needs, sexually. An action which is in complete contrast to what is obtainable in the liberal world. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by LewisO: 4:23pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
InZA:Yeah! |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by redhook(m): 4:30pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
Kai! Naija couples and immaturity? So him dat is wondering now if she is cheap, was he raped? He shud hav said "not tonite babe" And by the way who says that girls who play hard 2 get end up having fantastic relationships wit the corpers dat wait 4 dem? Tell your guy 2 wake up abeg! Sum girls r playettes too! If peolple like each other dey smash! Simple! |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Lanretoye(m): 4:31pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
dont take her serious o,your bone go soon rise again. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Nobody: 4:53pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
Lanretoye:meaning!!! i dnt get u. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Nobody: 4:54pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
redhook:hm hm i dnt c ur point. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by redhook(m): 5:03pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
softapple:.....remove yur glasses then igwe! |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by sarmiie(m): 6:27pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
your friend must be a kid.... that she had sex on the first date doesnt mean that she aint serious... some gals just dont like serenre... let him judge based on her character, not the consummation of passion.. |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by idu1(m): 7:00pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
U are foolish. Are u not the one that asked for sex? |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
softapple: maybe she is already taking him not serious if it was me - i'd deleted guys number after that night |
Re: HE Had Sex With His Crush On Their 1st Date, "Should He Take Her Serious? by vislabraye(m): 8:57pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
firstEVA: Hahaha. It doesnt work that way . Let her ask her friend. |
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