gofyourself:


If i could repeat my last 4 years- I WOULD NEVER EVER MARRY IN MY LIFE!

bettercreature:
just browsing through Facebook checking all the rude girls claiming to be big on my street in the early 2000s and found out 90 percent of them are still single While the calm,gentle,sensible ones are married,very successful with happy family nawa oo, if you are in 30s and single pls do check on yourself as you are probably rude and many things are wrong about you, education is not an excuse I beg

eph12:

Hahaha! Abeg o! Biko what happened in your last four years o? Pls do share

iPrevail:

Age is not just a number.. "Age" means you're growing older and very soon you're gonna die.. ..so if a woman is not married at 30, when is she gonna get married? When she's past menopause?
Plus, maturity doesn't necessarily have any relations with age.. But if at 30-something you're not matured.. Then really, what's the essence of still struggling for air with all these animals and insects?

gofyourself:


Oh yh u r the one and only one who i want to share my life. Who the f.uck u think u r? For u its gud enough to know the fact that i wouldnt marry again,not worth to know about me anything more

octopusfreaky:
very true,God provide good husbands for us ooooooooooooooooooooooooo

octopusfreaky:
very true,God provide good husbands for us ooooooooooooooooooooooooo

gofyourself:


Oh yh u r the one and only one who i want to share my life. Who the f.uck u think u r? For u its gud enough to know the fact that i wouldnt marry again,not worth to know about me anything more

bettercreature:
This further shows why your marriage is not successful,someone politely asked you to share your experience and you replied as if he pointed a gun at you,you are one of the reason why I created this thread,pls work on your attitude biko

eph12:

You don't need to share again o. Its very clear why its not working for you. Pele . Hopefully you're able to solve this thing eating you up so you stop discouraging the unmarried onesones

gofyourself:


i even wouldn't share it with u :DDD its very good that its clear for u even u don't know me

octopusfreaky:
very true,God provide good husbands for us ooooooooooooooooooooooooo

gofyourself:



how dare u explain me why my marriage is not successful? who do u think u r? do u know me personally? before saying things about me- chew them alright? and i thought your thread was about 30 and singles :DDD so how it is about me? f.uck you with your attitude advices. what, is it royal forum and u r all royalties that i have to work on my attitude? u r nothing to me and ill never see u in my life so why the f.uck i should consider about u in here or any other?

omniwater007:
This is 21st century.there're more to life other than marriage.At this computer age,marriage is overated.It could be a source of blessings for some and a source of doom for others.YOU SHOULD SHARE YOUR OPINION AND YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORCE MARRIAGE DOWN OUR THROATS.

bettercreature:
I pity you,people with good attitude are even having problem in a relationship let alone Iron Lady

dasparrow:


What of those who sincerely do not want to get married? Why do Nigerians like you erroneously think that every Nigerian lady wants to get married? I know a couple of Nigerian ladies who were sexually abused as children and right now can't stand sex and have chosen not to get married. Is it their fault that the were sexually molested at age 5 and 6?

Secondly, some ladies do better on their own than in a partnership and hence prefer to remain single. Anything wrong in that? Not at all.

There are women who slept around while in the university yet they were still able to snag themselves a man to marry them. Being married does not always mean that the married person has a good attitude or character. I have seen many married people with rude and obnoxious characters. Some are still married, others are divorced.

Either way, before you begin judging all single people, find out from them first if they indeed want to get married. We are no longer in our mother's and grand mother's generation. Women have careers now, are making money and can comfortably provide for themselves rather than stooping low to become a glorified house help in a man's home where they will be subjected to all sorts of maltreatment from the man and his family. Besides, babies can be made biologically without being married. Just ask the ladies who already have kids though they are not married and the ones who are married but are skipping from church to church begging God for the fruit of the womb. Marriage does not guarantee that one will become a parent. After all, it is God who gives children.

Lastly, most Nigerians have turned marriage into a joke, a scam if you will. If you want people to respect the institute called marriage, then stop cheating in your marriages. Too many married men and women cheat in Nigeria. Not only do many of you cheat but you graciously spread all manners of sexually transmitted diseases to your spouses. Is that a life? Is that what marriage should be all about? If God were to strike dead all married people in Nigeria who have at one point or another cheated on their spouses, I guarantee you, Nigeria's population will reduce to perhaps 50 million. Infidelity in marriage is that excessive in Nigeria. So please, stop being sanctimonious. A single, non-fornicating person has a better chance of making heaven than you married people who fuuuuck all over the place and spread diseases everywhere you go.

By the way, hope you know your HIV status? Many Nigerians will not go for HIV tests because they are scared the results will come back positive due to their reckless lifestyle of sleeping around.

seunfly:


At 30 ladies have less than 20 fertility years, while a man can still perform till his death.

Honestly the best time for a lady to marry is 25 to 27 years because of their stable emotiom, peak hormonal activities and emotional balance.

However the economy is not smiling and society is changing fast, very soon many ladies will start to sing it is not necessary to have a child, children are overrated just the way they are singing about marriage this days.

stardragon:

yeah, I need a wife can we rapport

octopusfreaky:
awwwwww how sweet......am sorry but if u had asked me out i wud have rejected coz u no way cuter dan d madman at Oshodi bridge

fem29:


Really thre is nothing wrong with not having kids or having just 1, you do know the world is overpopulated ?

seunfly:


Bwaaahaaaaaaa, see what I said, excuse is already cropping up.
Can't wait too hear that debate in 10years time.

iPrevail:

It's obvious you didn't get my point.

seunfly:


At 30 ladies have less than 20 fertility years, while a man can still perform till his death.

Honestly the best time for a lady to marry is 25 to 27 years because of their stable emotiom, peak hormonal activities and emotional balance.

However the economy is not smiling and society is changing fast, very soon many ladies will start to sing it is not necessary to have a child, children are overrated just the way they are singing about marriage this days.

octopusfreaky:
very true,God provide good husbands for us ooooooooooooooooooooooooo

eph12:
One question: marriage does it guarantee happiness?

firstEVA:
What if it's home problem? As in spiritual tinz. I have seen a family where no single lady is married, the most elder sister is about 40 while youngest is 32, three other girls inbetween, from one disappointment to the other.

PaulCI:

Yeah prayer is good but some personal hard work on character is important too. no one wants to marry an ill-mannered girl no matter how beautiful or how much prayer is said. Prayer will make the right man come around but it wont make him put the ring on the finger when the girl's got a bad character