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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 1:14am On Apr 12, 2015
ivyy:
Its not all black and white
Could it be red then? LolLol grin

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 1:18am On Apr 12, 2015
gofyourself:


Oh yh u r the one and only one who i want to share my life. Who the f.uck u think u r? For u its gud enough to know the fact that i wouldnt marry again,not worth to know about me anything more

Now this is a good example... Someone asks politely and she answers rudely...so unwarranted. This could be why the past 4years wasnt so great

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 1:22am On Apr 12, 2015
baralatie:

that is why they are asking for Good ones not the chop yansh and give excuse not to marry men!
A good man doesnt mean a mugu or blind man... He will still see the bad attitude in her and like you said he might or might not chop the ny**h....he'll still bolt
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 1:26am On Apr 12, 2015
gofyourself:


Thanx for your pitiness. This is all i need smiley))

What!! Idonbilivit...arrest this girl! And have no pitiness on her

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by baralatie(m): 1:29am On Apr 12, 2015
PaulCI:

A good man doesnt mean a mugu or blind man... He will still see the bad attitude in her and like you said he might or might not chop the ny**h....he'll still bolt

which brings the real question?
who is afraid of getting married?
the men or the women!

hmmmmmm!
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 1:39am On Apr 12, 2015
dasparrow:


What of those who sincerely do not want to get married? Why do Nigerians like you erroneously think that every Nigerian lady wants to get married? I know a couple of Nigerian ladies who were sexually abused as children and right now can't stand sex and have chosen not to get married. Is it their fault that the were sexually molested at age 5 and 6?

Secondly, some ladies do better on their own than in a partnership and hence prefer to remain single. Anything wrong in that? Not at all.

There are women who slept around while in the university yet they were still able to snag themselves a man to marry them. Being married does not always mean that the married person has a good attitude or character. I have seen many married people with rude and obnoxious characters. Some are still married, others are divorced.

Either way, before you begin judging all single people, find out from them first if they indeed want to get married. We are no longer in our mother's and grand mother's generation. Women have careers now, are making money and can comfortably provide for themselves rather than stooping low to become a glorified house help in a man's home where they will be subjected to all sorts of maltreatment from the man and his family. Besides, babies can be made biologically without being married. Just ask the ladies who already have kids though they are not married and the ones who are married but are skipping from church to church begging God for the fruit of the womb. Marriage does not guarantee that one will become a parent. After all, it is God who gives children.

Lastly, most Nigerians have turned marriage into a joke, a scam if you will. If you want people to respect the institute called marriage, then stop cheating in your marriages. Too many married men and women cheat in Nigeria. Not only do many of you cheat but you graciously spread all manners of sexually transmitted diseases to your spouses. Is that a life? Is that what marriage should be all about? If God were to strike dead all married people in Nigeria who have at one point or another cheated on their spouses, I guarantee you, Nigeria's population will reduce to perhaps 50 million. Infidelity in marriage is that excessive in Nigeria. So please, stop being sanctimonious. A single, non-fornicating person has a better chance of making heaven than you married people who fuuuuck all over the place and spread diseases everywhere you go.

By the way, hope you know your HIV status? Many Nigerians will not go for HIV tests because they are scared the results will come back positive due to their reckless lifestyle of sleeping around.

Sad! They are scarred for life...those who have been raped or molested. It affects them hugely, their perception of marriage, the opposite sex and a whole lot of other things. And yes, for this few i make an exception when i say its their character that denies them the opportunity of getting a good man to marry them. For this few, i say it's no fault of theirs and totally absolve them of all blames. Not so for the unmarried women of 30 and above...this ones really kill their chances themselves...greed, promiscuity, ill manners and the rest of the vices they have got in them....thats what to blame for their status.

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by iPrevail(m): 1:56am On Apr 12, 2015
omniwater007:
ok! you prevail.
Lol
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:34am On Apr 12, 2015
PaulCI:


Now this is a good example... Someone asks politely and she answers rudely...so unwarranted. This could be why the past 4years wasnt so great

Another mumu. Oh my life btw was very great past 4 years. if my husband is nigerian dick.head doesnt mean my past 4 years wasnt great smiley)) oh u nigerians and your marriage importance smiley))) makes me laugh. And another thing- if it would be so important ( marriage to nigerians) u would be specialists in holding on to it. Now u r just losers. Maybe for your "girls" its perfect but such attitude in marriage like africans to me- no thanx
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by eph12(m): 9:40am On Apr 12, 2015
baralatie:

will being unmarried and single signify hapiness!
No it won't/don't. Why don't we mind our business and allow one live his/her life? Is that too hard to ask of the human race, especially africans?

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by bettercreature(m): 12:18pm On Apr 12, 2015
gofyourself:


Another mumu. Oh my life btw was very great past 4 years. if my husband is nigerian dick.head doesnt mean my past 4 years wasnt great smiley)) oh u nigerians and your marriage importance smiley))) makes me laugh. And another thing- if it would be so important ( marriage to nigerians) u would be specialists in holding on to it. Now u r just losers. Maybe for your "girls" its perfect but such attitude in marriage like africans to me- no thanx
You wouldnt last a year in my house,the way you reason get as e be,you are married but you dont sound like a wife material,this one of the reason i will never leave my girl she would either lock her self in or burst into tears rather than abusing someone beside if you are white as you are claiming doesnt mean you dont know how to address people,i met tonnes of white ladies who are far better and matured than Nigerian ladies so its not about culture its about personal attitude

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 12:42pm On Apr 12, 2015
gofyourself:


Another mumu. Oh my life btw was very great past 4 years. if my husband is nigerian dick.head doesnt mean my past 4 years wasnt great smiley)) oh u nigerians and your marriage importance smiley))) makes me laugh. And another thing- if it would be so important ( marriage to nigerians) u would be specialists in holding on to it. Now u r just losers. Maybe for your "girls" its perfect but such attitude in marriage like africans to me- no thanx
Gofyourself

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 3:01pm On Apr 12, 2015
bettercreature:
You wouldnt last a year in my house,the way you reason get as e be,you are married but you dont sound like a wife material,this one of the reason i will never leave my girl she would either lock her self in or burst into tears rather than abusing someone beside if you are white as you are claiming doesnt mean you dont know how to address people,i met tonnes of white ladies who are far better and matured than Nigerian ladies so its not about culture its about personal attitude

Gud for u and yes it has a lot to do with culture.
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 3:05pm On Apr 12, 2015
PaulCI:

Gofyourself

What? Nothing to say back?!
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 12, 2015
ivyy:
Its not all black and white

Exactly. It's also yellow and blue grin
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by ivyy(f): 3:20pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bardolino:


Exactly. It's also yellow and blue grin


Lala247 what's bardolino's real moniker on nl grin
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by baralatie(m): 3:41pm On Apr 12, 2015
eph12:

No it won't/don't. Why don't we mind our business and allow one live his/her life? Is that too hard to ask of the human race, especially africans?
is it too much to ask a man and a woman to get married.To live their lives without prejudice especially from non-africans claiming!
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by eph12(m): 3:52pm On Apr 12, 2015
baralatie:

is it too much to ask a man and a woman to get married.To live their lives without prejudice especially from non-africans claiming!
No vex cheesy
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 6:59pm On Apr 12, 2015
ivyy:



Lala247 what's bardolino's real moniker on nl grin

Not sure he keeps changing it lol .. Run away from him lol
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 7:10pm On Apr 12, 2015
Lala247:


Not sure he keeps changing it lol .. Run away from him lol

lmao! grin grin
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bardolino:


lmao! grin grin

C ur life ...
How u dey .. Im so tired mehn
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by ivyy(f): 8:19pm On Apr 12, 2015
Lala247:


Not sure he keeps changing it lol .. Run away from him lol


What was his last moniker lipsrsealed


Lagunna1 grin
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:23pm On Apr 12, 2015
[quote author=ivyy post=32650827]


What was his last moniker lipsrsealed


Lagunna1 grin
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Yh

Lol dats it .. His toasting u abi

Baddosky i don catch u red handed. see ur life ! See how God sends angels to tell me wt u do .. Iffa hear lipsrsealed again walahi heaven go get visitor tgat day tongue
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by ivyy(f): 8:28pm On Apr 12, 2015
[quote author=Lala247 post=32650971][/quote]


Heehheee girly myb he's blubhad
Lagunna1 is an old friend o
Toast ke rara o

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Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:32pm On Apr 12, 2015
Lala247:


C ur life ...
How u dey .. Im so tired mehn

Pele. Come and drink milk cheesy
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bardolino:


Pele. Come and drink milk cheesy


Eewwww shocked
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:34pm On Apr 12, 2015
I know he is he will be telling lies ..
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:36pm On Apr 12, 2015
[quote author=Lala247 post=32650971][/quote]

Wetin I do na. You know sey I can't do that to you na. You are my pure water embarassed grin
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 12, 2015
ivyy:



Heehheee girly myb his blubhad
Lagunna1 is an old friend o
Toast ke rara o

Shykimi. No mind her jare. I'm not lagunna tongue
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:38pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bardolino:


Wetin I do na. You know sey I can't do that to you na. You are my pure water embarassed grin

Emi pure water .. Ragolis or eva
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:42pm On Apr 12, 2015
Lala247:


Emi pure water .. Ragolis or eva


Harrogate tongue

Babe you sef no get my time again embarassed
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bardolino:


Harrogate tongue

Babe you sef no get my time again embarassed
Loo i do now .. Chai after shoutout
Re: You Are Probably Rude Or Terrible If You Are In 30s And Single by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 12, 2015
Bardolino:


Shykimi. No mind her jare. I'm not lagunna tongue

Lol im joking his not lagunna .. Whose that anyway undecided. Ivyy

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